Reciently my bf of almost 3yrs came for his first ever holidays with my family and i.... The only started on bad terms with my brother threw a stick at my bf and my bf got hit in the face with it and naturally reacted by hitting him back. My dad went off saying no one touches his kids as his right to do. Then my bf kept saying my brother was untouchable... Then the week went on with my bf mood swings he went shitty bout my 2 broither taking food from us but we all share in my family... Then on my home a coke bottel exploded in my car and my bf threw it out of the car cracking it because it went on him and it was his fault. But it was an accident then he got out of the car and smashed the bottel on the ground agagin. He said it was an outlet from all the crap his gpot on the hoidays... My bf is almost 23.. Is he immature?? My family have never seen him like this and his usally good so im a bit spun out myself The family called him a tool and said he need to grow up
2007-01-08 17:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His almost 23?? Are all guys immature? will he ever see ??
He clashes with my 12yr old bro. Its so silly
Is he worth it
2007-01-08 17:45:30 · update #1
Yes he is immature and sounds like he needs anger management classes,
2007-01-08 17:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him about it. How about trying to get more in touch with were he is. I don't know maybe this is crazy, but I am a guy, and if my girlfriend had questions like this or was confused by my behavior, I would want someone to talk to. If thats not the case for most guys, the I guess most guys are truely lost.
2007-01-09 01:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Magus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anger Management!
2007-01-09 01:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by LSD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone can't be at his best all the time but he was a guest, and a guest has too stomach alot which usually means some maturity would prevail... , since he has past practice of being good... whats up in his life that could have sent him over the edge?
job, bills, life, etc... talk to him about it....
2007-01-09 01:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say he copped more crap than he wanted, it was supposed to be a holiday but it turned into a drama. He might be a bit immature but if it was me and I'm 50, I'd have just left at the end of day one and that'd be it!
2007-01-09 01:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
seems to me like your bf feels treated but wont admit it. so he taking it out on u and thats the bad part but he does seem like he can have childish ways which is a bad thing. i understand how you feel because hes been with you for 3yrs he could of shown you more respect then that
2007-01-09 01:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by green eyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...bet that served to be quite embarrassing for you and may be a bit of a challenge for you, if you have deep feelings for him, as it may be difficult to break things off.
Sounds like he might have some anger management issues.
2007-01-09 01:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All guys have their moments, but the one thing I've learned is you never cross family or friends. Give him another chance to meet your family and see how it goes. If he acts the same around them, he definately needs some alone time.
2007-01-09 01:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no one comes between family if your brother acts obnoxious then just talk to him and tell him to avoid him if he cant talk to your brother but if its a big problem then yea hes immiture and needs to move on
2007-01-09 01:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he is immature egoist. your daddy was right to yell at him. if i were your mommy i would scratch his eye balls out for touching a boy who is twice smaller than him. just dump him, he is so stupid and a 6 year old child inside
2007-01-09 01:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋