i am male and from such a young age i always thought about gay sex, i have had sex with 2 men b4 this was about 5 years ago, ever since i been with females but often think and fantisize about men.
i want to meet up with the guy i lost my virginity to but when it gets around to it i get scared n chicken out, i feel i want to but i am scared.
not only that but no1 knows i am bi and i like to keep it this way.
what do u think i should do?
2007-01-08 17:57:19 · 14 answers · asked by GayPaul37mUK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have been to gay clubs. i dont really fancy men i fancy women i think there good looking, cute sexy. i just like the sex wif a man...
do u think i am bi? what think i should do
2007-01-08 18:03:45 · update #1
...you are bi...same as me....best of both worlds...enjoy...i am a girl....that's the only difference....lol....good luck...
2007-01-08 18:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I see nothing wrong with rekindling A flame I mean you know your Bi so enjoy it live it up. I mean if your in A relationship maybe you should be discussing this with you partner instead of people on the computer. Because it affects her or him not us. Have you ever considered that you could like males more than you care for females? Well keep your head up and i hope you do what's best for you.
2007-01-09 02:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is you doing the act (Not to sound crude) find a girl that likes that!! if it is the act being done to you that you like try and find a girl that would be willing to use a strap on or something
Don't really know what else to suggest if you don't fancy men but like having sex with them!
2007-01-09 03:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should never get married because when the need to be with a man comes over you,you will hurt alot of people.So many family's are torn apart because of people like you who needs to go out and have sex with a man all because a woman can't satisfy your needs.
2007-01-09 02:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you probably are bi but in this day and age its no problem. Check out swinging, then you can do both, no hassle. My hub likes me (and women) but also likes sex with a guy sometimes.
2007-01-09 02:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way in school , i dated guys but i looked a girls more than just friends but was so scared to say anything or do anything about it but one day the opertunity came to me and yep im bi,,,,,,,,,,, i dont go around telling everyone its something you may want to keep to yourself untill the moment feels right or the situation is accetable of it............. but it is becoming alot more common than it used too be
2007-01-09 02:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering you have sexual feeling for both men and women that would mean your bisexual. There no problem with it as long as your practising safe sex and inform your partners. If you have feeling for "your first" meet him. Theres no harm in it
2007-01-09 02:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely a bisexual if you have fantasies about men and women at the same time.... it doesn't matter if u are in a relationhsip with them or not....
2007-01-09 02:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Kee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a link for a support group which you may find of interest.
http://serf.org/jon/soc.bi/
2007-01-09 02:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to some gay bars or gay nightclubs...
2007-01-09 02:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋