my boss told me that if I let him have a one night stand with my girlfriend he will give me a promotion to assistant manager and I will get an extra $150 a week in my pay, and he will also give me a once of $500 cash bonus...I told my girlfriend she said OK, but only once...should I go ahead with it??
2007-01-08 18:00:44 · 20 answers · asked by outremer7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would record my boss telling you all the stuff about wanting to sleep with your girlfriend and then sell the tape to a television station youd get quiet a nice amount of money, and then id dump my girlfreind for agreeing to do it, i think if you went along with your bosses plan you would be laughed at and made a fool of, dont sell yourself, if the television station doesnt do anything just threaten to take it to a higher level in the company, hell probably give you the promotion and pay rise out of fear of loosing his job youll end up being the one on top in the end.
2007-01-09 12:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I've seen this question before. And no, you shouldn't, if she has to debate this, there might be a problem already, but letting someone in the bedroom that you don't want to be with is going to make you resent her. and you don't want that. And in my opinion, getting to the top should have nothing to do with sleeping with your boss. Respect for yourself will get you there much faster And Not sleeping with him, puts her in a MUCH stronger position. If I were in your shoes, I would have her wear a recording device, and get that on tape, show it to HR and lo and behold, a position has opened up in the company.
2016-05-22 22:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhhhm, your a ******* dumb ass.
you should treat her like gold.
report me you little ass.
i dare you too.
you shouldn't ever even think about ASKING her that question.
wow.
assistant manager huh?
dude seriously how old are you?
im assistant manager and im 18 not even.
so you must be real yopung.
too young to know how to treat a girl.
guys like you makes a girl feel like their not loved.
i am one of them that helps our soceity of todayu face the fear of relationships of today.
she gets pregnant, then you have to support a child that your boss gave you?
wow how GHETTO can you be?
do you have no since AT ALL?
you disgust me.
i was thinking about going to bed soon.
now i'll be up all night thinking about what you just asked.
omfg
omfg
omfg
omfg
omfg
omfg
you and your sick perverted boss can go away from yahoo for good.
you sick son of a *****.
if you do god help me.
take of what i said in consideration.
if you honestly want a girl that will love you, and be trustworthy.
and faithful
i've been to love and got kicked out.
i know what the hel iom talking about.
you should ******* report your boss, tomarrow.
there is one more boss you can always talk to.
should be 2 managers.
one assistant manager
please do as all the favor, and don't even ask next time.
cause you know we all we be disgusted....
2007-01-08 18:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you really want your girlfriend to give up her dignity so you can have more money? That is basically prostitution! And aren't you wondering why she agreed to do it in the first place?
I don't know. It sounds a bit dodgy. I mean, what if he doesn't follow through with his end of the deal? What can you possibly do about it? You can't report it to anyone.
And the fact that your boss asked you in the first place is a bit scary. That is sexual harrasment.
Good Luck.
2007-01-08 18:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you stay together, you will pay far more for it than you will gain as time goes on.
No. It is wrong. You are selling your girlfriend. If you decide to go through with this, I hope she finds someone who values her more than money.
No. It is a fool's errand. Your boss gets your girlfriend. He denies you the money and the raise. What recourse do you have? None. And your relationship is damaged forever.
2007-01-08 18:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by optionseeker1989 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe the audacity of your boss for starters &you for thinking about it & your girlfriend for agreeing to it. Your sick. I hope your girlfriend asked for the money since it's her body that's being used. If not than she is even dumber than I thought. You should be telling your boss were to get off out of self respect & that of your girlfriend or don't you have that or do you even know the meaning?????? Aren't you selling yourselves short? Shoudn't you be asking for $1,000,000.00.
Why doesn't she just go out with the boss if you can't provide for her.
Maybe you should be reporting your boss to a higher authority, police etc. Then again maybe you all deserve each other for even thinking about it. (NUTS)
2007-01-08 23:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Vera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT! thats a lot of money. You might love her but you never know if you will ever break up or if it might now work out. Go for the money. The 150$ a week will add up quickly! DO IT!
2007-01-08 18:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by j14ws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sexual harrassment. You can get a lot more money through a law suit. At the very least tell someone that can get that idiot's butt fired.
I cant believe you even thought about allowing it. Its degrading to you and even more to your gf.
2007-01-08 18:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ain't cool dude! I suggest you sleep with your boss instead. that makes extra $100
2007-01-08 18:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Breakdancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
If my boyfriend asked me to do that, I'd probably say yes, never show up for the one night stand, and then dump him.
2007-01-08 18:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋