Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

i really like this guy and were really good friends. we have a big formal dance coming up at the end of the month and i wanna know if i should ask him! he knows i like him and he says he doesnt like me but its hard to tell if he's telling the truth or not, cuz he flirts or seems like he's flirting all the time! he liked this other girl but know he hates her cuz she lied to him and played him! so what should i do?? i want to ask him but idk i've been thinking about it all week!

2007-01-06 08:43:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have to take a test with a partner..i usually partner up with my really good friend..but we always end up with not so great grades...this time i actually get the information so i know i will do good, but a really smart girl in class asked me to work with her..i dont know what to do because i really need a good grade but i cant let my friend down like that..even though its only this one time i'll feel really bad if i got a good grade and she got a bad grade because i didnt work with her..i feel horrible... i talked to her about it and she said that she would prefer to work with me but its still my choice...help me who should i work with..

2007-01-06 08:43:24 · 2 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Friends

I have always been in dramatic relationships and finally I think I am in a "normal/healthy" relationship....Does this sound normal or on its way to love?!??!

Everyone says you know when you are in love but I just dont know anymore....My bf and I get along very well and I am just wondering if this could be love or maybe falling in love....

-We trust each other 100% - he could be at a bar with a million girls and I would be fine with that cause I know I have his heart
-We are committed to each other, We respect one another
-We are very sexual and are very attracted to one another

The only thing is is I like being affectionate and verbal with how I feel towards him but I cant handle it when he is verbally affectionate with me. It makes me feel nervous. So would you say this is love....All I want to know is if I have a chance of making this work...

2007-01-06 08:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm blackgirl/24 in grad school & a month ago I left my white B/friend 28/eduacted professional.We dated for 1 year.This is a kind of a man parents want their daugthers to bring home BUT not my family coz he's white.I left him specially for my mom coz she is very ill(heart disease).My family asked that i do the best thing 4 my mom,so i did(left him) but there is soemthing wrong with this kind of thinking.I VE A DYING MOM but I ALSO feel like i'm dying without him.I cry everynight.This 1 month has been a living hell.I have tried to talk to family about how much i miss him but they say i'm choosing a white person over family.I do not love him coz he's white but coz he a great man that i really enjoy spending time with.My mom is important but so is he.My family says i should stay away from him at least until my mom passes.What do you think? i cannot secretly date him coz my brothers are tracking me.i do not want my mom to die thinking i disappointed her.I want him back so much.help Please

2007-01-06 08:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you're a loud, insecure, abusive, unfaithful bad boy, then women love you and think you're the greatest. On the other hand, a healthy, confident, well-adjusted man is not only ignored, but actually hated by women, because he doesn't provide enough drama.

2007-01-06 08:41:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like some one who has told me repeatedly that i am funny and hilarious. He said i should do standup too. Is humor and funnyness a plus when starting to like someon. Does humor make people like you more?

2007-01-06 08:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Day one - every minute it hurts

This was my first long-term relationship.

I have no friends. I foolishly lived for him. 8+ years

I am 36, do not drink, and do not currently work but have a M.A

2007-01-06 08:40:08 · 2 answers · asked by sweet pea 3 in Friends

ive spent the last 30 mins throwing up and it all coz of my worrying about my bf and i need help can anyone help me please i need advice whcich ill post if i get people willing to help

2007-01-06 08:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship since he travelled so much in the military. He told me he was in Iraq... and I didn't hear from him over the holidays. Today, while I was out jogging with my dog, I ran right into him. He was walking his dog (which his sister supposedly had) and was with another woman. As I stood in shock, he walked right by me and ignored me. I feel so used. I dedicated 2 years of being in this relationship and all along there was someone else. How do I move on?

2007-01-06 08:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by Catxican 1 in Singles & Dating

So why do you think it is so difficult to firstly find the right man, then to start up a relationship? I'm 25 and i would say not stunning, but quite attractive. It is so difficult to find someone! Where are all the men?!?!?

2007-01-06 08:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy is going out with one of my friends, but he doesn't seem all that interested in her. He sits by her at lunch and everything, but he just seems distant when he's with her. But with me he's loose and fun and even a little bit flirty. What do I do? Does he like me? Does he like her?

2007-01-06 08:36:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this really bad?

I'm an Aquarius and my friend is a Capricorn and lots of times we disagree and she is always annoyed with everything.
She is popular and impresses everyone.
She is so nice everyone but we have this weird vibe when we see each other.
It's really creeping me out.
I'm only in 5th grade and when we earn a free time in music we usually play games.
There was this one game were we had to stand by people and hold hands and when Claire and I held hands it shocked my hand. Then on the right of me was Zoe but nothing happened when I touched her she is a Sagitarius.
WHat's wrong?
We're all friends.

2007-01-06 08:36:34 · 5 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

i had a very painfull papsmear and the doc screwd me up by forcing everything pu there.and i am scared that when i have sex it will hurt that bad.does it.my mom sez ill bleed too but does everbody?

2007-01-06 08:35:33 · 7 answers · asked by jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

I miss my sister in law very very much, we send each other e-mails nearly everyday and we will hopefully see eachother in a couple of months.. but.. I feel like im missing her too much.. Sometimes I even CRY.. I love her lots.. what can I do about this? Please help!

2007-01-06 08:34:54 · 17 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Family

I dont know what to do....I am with a guy right now who I respect with everything I have. He is great in every way and I think I am starting to fall in love with him...I trust him like no other before, I am commited to him, feel comfortable when I am around him and am very physcially attracted to him. I enjoy spending nights alone with him or with friends. He is just a pleasure to be around. He always seems to make everyone laugh. But I feel as though my ex still has a piece of my heart. Whenever we go out I wonder if he will be there and I get nervous. I want to forget about my ex and move on with my current boyfriend but I dont know how to do that if I still think of my stupid loser ex boyfriend. Even if I was single I wouldnt think about hooking up with my ex again...

Any suggestions?

Does it sound like LOVE with my new beau? I just want to be happy with him and spend my life with him

2007-01-06 08:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

15 and lost it? im i a bad person? did i really lose it? do you think you only lost it to the person you love? then you can really say you lose it? ....... does that make you a bad person would the lord forgive you? plez answer!!!

2007-01-06 08:32:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 08:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just wondering..

2007-01-06 08:32:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a relation with a boy.we have been together for 3 years.He sometimes lies me and goes with other girls.Two weeks before I caught him with a girl in a cafe(one of the girls we have had a fight before)....anyway i forgived him because i love him.He uses to say me the same thing,that he also loves me.I don t know what to do...Should I stay with him or not ?I should also add that i have sometimes made mistakes and he has forgiven me.Please reply

2007-01-06 08:32:09 · 8 answers · asked by aterg 1 in Singles & Dating

i talked to the guy my sister plans to marry. he realy loves my sister. i truely believe he will take good care of her and she has promised to at least wait till she is 18 before she marries him. i support this. but my brother is trying to keep her from talking to her fiance. she is a smart girl and i think she chose well. is it right that he wont let her decide?she is almost 18.

2007-01-06 08:31:59 · 18 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend wants to talk,we see each other at college but just walk passed each other and have no contact, now he sends an email saying we have to talk, what does he want? its been 3 weeks now and i think he just wants to say sorry for dumping me on msn or just 2 remain freinds but i can't do that i still care for him more than a friend what should i do? i also have exams this week and don't want him on my mind

2007-01-06 08:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am divorced with two children and my ex-husband pays me $80 per week child support. The divorce went smoothly without any lawyers and we are both flexible about holidays and visits. He does give me extra when it comes time for "back to school" and pays all medical for the kids. I guess if he was paying the normal percentage for this state he would be paying over $200 per week. Him and his g/f do have ALOT more than we ever did (or that I do now) they just bought a $200,000 home..etc. Almost everyone I know (especially certain family members) say that I am crazy/stupid for not taking him to court for more child support. I am so sick of hearing it! The divorce was MY fault...I did NOT cheat on him but, I basically left him for another man. (things were bad with us anyway and I was ver unhappy ) Should I really just "stick it to him" just because his life is better than mine now? It's child support - not ex-wife support, right? Opinions please..am I stupid??

2007-01-06 08:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by Cindy J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my best friend how do i get over it?

2007-01-06 08:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you guy perfere Chubby girls or Skinny girls

2007-01-06 08:29:14 · 6 answers · asked by Majsen 2 in Singles & Dating

No offence. I'm just have feelings for her.

2007-01-06 08:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by Yoso 2 in Friends

i noticed how he treats the unattractive female when were both in his presence. He tries to act like he likes her more when really he doesnt. its all a front cause when he see's me walking, he doesnt know how to act. because i usually get all the attention. i just dont know what he is trying to prove! i dont like him for sure, but i sometimes wonder of his actions. I need to know what you think. Coming from a man's pespective.

2007-01-06 08:26:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally think that intact men look better

2007-01-06 08:26:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister and i are having a major prank weekend we've each pulled 2-3 pranks on eachother at this point...but I have no more ideas, if you have some ideas for a prank i could pull on my older sister plz start typin. But under these conditions....They cant make a mess, they cant hurt her REALLy bad. PLZ HELP!

2007-01-06 08:25:47 · 13 answers · asked by LaLaLie<3 2 in Family

well me and my girlfriend have just recently started going out and when i call her we talk for about 25 or so minutes but then after that there is silence for a while. what are some good things to just ask that will make a conversation keep going? thanks for the answers

2007-01-06 08:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner and i split up before xmas as i lied to her about a trip to america to find work with my brother.i only wanted to let her live her dream of moveing abroad,but with a trip to dubai behind us she became frustrated at the lack of progress,then she was made redundant from her uk job,due to downsizeing.she took this very badly,and i couldnt handle giveing her any more dissapointments,so instead of telling her the truth,i lied about where i was.i only wanted her to be happy,yet now were both apart and she says ahe cant trust me,but i only want her!ive been such a fool,but neither of us communicates our feelings that well.i promised id leave her alone,so how can we work it ut,if at all?

2007-01-06 08:24:20 · 12 answers · asked by robinfortune 1 in Other - Family & Relationships