I dont know what to do....I am with a guy right now who I respect with everything I have. He is great in every way and I think I am starting to fall in love with him...I trust him like no other before, I am commited to him, feel comfortable when I am around him and am very physcially attracted to him. I enjoy spending nights alone with him or with friends. He is just a pleasure to be around. He always seems to make everyone laugh. But I feel as though my ex still has a piece of my heart. Whenever we go out I wonder if he will be there and I get nervous. I want to forget about my ex and move on with my current boyfriend but I dont know how to do that if I still think of my stupid loser ex boyfriend. Even if I was single I wouldnt think about hooking up with my ex again...
Any suggestions?
Does it sound like LOVE with my new beau? I just want to be happy with him and spend my life with him
2007-01-06 08:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bail.
2007-01-09 00:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion,
When that True Love comes, you will know it, and you won't be thinking about or looking out for anyone else. No way !!
"I would say stay ,"but on the other hand if there is a doubt I would sure hate to see you hurt such a wonderful person as you describe.You painted in black and white such a beautiful picture of your current fellow. Every female should be so lucky ~~~Jill
2007-01-06 17:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to try like before love. Why are you in such a hurry to "Love"?? You need time to get passed your last relationship. Try just being friends, then move on when you feel ready.
2007-01-06 16:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME...
GO THROUGH THE CHECK MYSELF LIST
1.CAN I B JUST ME WITH HIM?
2.DOES HE MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF?
3.DO MY FRIENDS LIKE HIM?
4.PHYSICAL & MENTAL ATTRACTION ALL GOOD?
IF YOU ANSWER YES TO THESE, STAY, STAY, STAY!!
YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION, AT THE END REMEMBER THE WORDS "STUPID, & LOSER & MOST IMPORTANTLY THE EX PART OF BOYFRIEND"
2007-01-06 16:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG im hearing wedding bells!!! ur consious about ur ex because u spent a good part of ur life with him - it wud be the same with any ex-friend that u got in a fight with a never made up. ur not sure wut u wud do if u see him. this is totally normal.
2007-01-06 16:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Cupidity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you want to be in love but are not ready to yet..give yourself time to be able to totally give yourself in your thoughts and deeds to someone else
2007-01-06 16:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋