This guy is going out with one of my friends, but he doesn't seem all that interested in her. He sits by her at lunch and everything, but he just seems distant when he's with her. But with me he's loose and fun and even a little bit flirty. What do I do? Does he like me? Does he like her?
2007-01-06 08:36:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl is really nice. She's not an "uptight skank", okay? I don't wanna make a move while they're still going out. It's just that he doesn't really seem too interested in her.
2007-01-06 08:42:31 · update #1
BTW, this is not his first girlfriend.
2007-01-06 08:42:55 · update #2
Be careful! maybe he don't find what he wants in his girl because she is making wait(I'm talking about sex) and he do think that UR an easy girl so he try to have U. Don't be stupid,don't think about that dude.Most of the time boys R acting like that to have other girl but deeply they do love the one that they show not interrest in them(I'm talking about their current girlfriend) That boy does not like
2007-01-06 08:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There might be a possibility that he's hanging out with your friend to get to know better...But then again, you mentioned that they're going out? ....
It could be that he wanted you all along but you didn't show interest at that time, so he went for her?
It could be that he liked her first, but then realized he's not interested in her and that you're so much more fun.
I'd say, leave it as it is. Don't ruin someone else's happiness just for your happiness. Plus, is he really worth it? I mean, you could go out with him after he's been with her. It's not wrong, but it'll make you feel really awkward for a while and might even make your friend dislike you.
2007-01-06 16:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Staccato 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who would you rather have, the friend or the guy? If you can let go of the friend try some subtle flirting of your own. Be careful though that he doesn't think you are stabbing her in the back. But it sounds like he's lost interest in her. If not, and he likes her,
you could be the next girlfriend he cheats on!! Good Luck!!
2007-01-06 16:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it would seem he has some interest in you if he's more 'loose & fun' and flirty. Talk to him, ask him whats going on between him & your friend. Don't make any moves with him that will hurt your friends feeling, maybe talk to her too?
2007-01-06 16:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Big problem for you. He's with your friend and chills with you...this is a bad thing to like one of your "homegilrs" man.How would you feel if somebody was feeling your guy. Cuz he seems confused at why he's even dating his girl. MAybe there's nothing in common and you guys do seem to get along, but still the rules are don't let boys get in between friendships especially true buds.RElax your still young there are more guys to get with.
2007-01-06 16:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe. It is hard to say with guys but when they are "into" you, they usually let you know one way or another. Some guys are just flirty and it could mean nothing. Don't read too much into it unless he shows some specific interest in you.
2007-01-06 16:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by SusieDarling 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is hard to say.. but the ? is .... how important is your firendship because if you... or he tries something and she finds out... you will most likely not have that friendship anymore. He might like you but then he might feel comfortable around you and enjoy your company as "a friend". You could ask him, have a friend ask him how he feels about you.. but again.. you have to think of your friend... would your friend mind you dating him if they broke up or do you's have the don't date your friends ex's rule?
A friend is a friend usually forever.. a boyfriend at a younge age usually isn't...
take care
2007-01-06 16:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i thnk the problem is he mite lke her but he kinda has a thing for you...but he only acts weird around her cause u guys r friends! Now it seems he must lke u or that this is his first gf and he gets nervous around her cause he rly lkes her..and if i were u i wuld find someone else 2 lke because if you lked him that wuld b rly mean 2 ur friend! Good-Luck
2007-01-06 16:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by elise(= 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be interested in you, but you should go to your friend first and let her know what you think. Maybe you are just reading the signals wrong. Ask if they are happy lately or if she has also noticed that he might be pulling away too.
2007-01-06 16:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by royalpain09 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he's probley like every other man, he probley likes your friend, he has to somewhat or he would'nt be with her.He might like you just as well but just like most guys no morals ad so when to getting involved w/his girls friend hes going to jump on the chance. Now as fas as you being a true friend I would'nt get involved weather hes with her or not, you see how he is with her why not w/you.
2007-01-06 16:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by D lux 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋