If you're a loud, insecure, abusive, unfaithful bad boy, then women love you and think you're the greatest. On the other hand, a healthy, confident, well-adjusted man is not only ignored, but actually hated by women, because he doesn't provide enough drama.
2007-01-06 08:41:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because allot of women have low self esteem and if they don't love themselves and know that they deserve the best then their not gonna go after the guy's that will treat them good.. everything starts with self :) :) :)
2007-01-06 08:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are just hanging out with the wrong women. Is it that you are attracted to the 'bad girl' type that enjoys lots of drama. Someday, all of those bad girls will want a healthy, confident, well-adjusted man like you. In the meantime, try checking into the more quiet, sensitive girls.
2007-01-06 08:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Hallon 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who said so?
I don't think that that applies for ALL women. I definitely wouldn't go with bad guys...I guess some women are just attracted to that kind of image & like a little bit of excitement.
At the end of the day, the good guys are always the better choice.
:)
2007-01-06 08:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by lizb 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That has been the question of the ages. As a woman, I can say that for some reason, we are attracted to "bad" guys I guess because they are (at least seem to be), exciting, dangerous and not boring. But if it makes you feel any better. We tend to marry the nice, conservative, good guy. At least I did. And I've never been sorry. Bad guys are really only temporary.
2007-01-06 08:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by SusieDarling 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most of the good guys are quite a bore and provide no excitement for the woman, you have to make her weak in the knees without being mean and nasty, for me bad boys are a waste of time. If you are a good guy try taking charge and not be lead around by the woman.
2007-01-06 09:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dude, what kind of crapy girls do you hang out with? because i think they're giving us a bad name. i on the other hand, would never treat a guy like that. and i hate those "player" wannabes. try to get some better friends and who knows, maybe something might come out of it. contact me if you wanna friend who's not a complete butt.
2007-01-06 15:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by straitjacket feeling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth is... A woman wants someone that is not afraid to stand up to her, but isn't exactly willing to hurt her. It's complicated. It's not that we don't like nice guys... it's just that they tend to be too clingy. And lets face it clingy is not cool. We need spunk not a phone call every hour on the hour. Think about it.... it makes sense.
2007-01-06 08:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not this again. If you think thats true then you should know what to do. Go and throw a tantrum, swear, break things, pin a girl across the wall, shove her around, cheat on her maybe even slap her. Yea your right, its a big turn on. I'm being sarcastic by the way.
2007-01-06 08:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cant think of a nickname 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I see what you mean. My girlfriends friend always goes out with the 'players' who play games with girls, the only nice guy she went out with she messed him about.
I think you need to be able to 'play' the opposite sex to a certain extent otherwise you get ignored. Thats what I did in order to get my girlfriend.
2007-01-06 08:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys that seem risky are more fun for short-term relationships while guys that aren't risky r better for long-term and many women dont want long-term yet. i mean if ur that good then how r we supposed to dump u?
2007-01-06 08:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Cupidity 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋