Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

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Question Details: My co-worker has been with her b/f for about five years now. My husband and I have had them for dinner few times over the past five years. I have never seen them act like a couple (you know) kisses, hugs, holding hands etc. Every thursday after work, we all go out for drinks. (Wives/husbands/bf/gf are welcome) But she never brings her's-when she was asked why? -she said, "I'm not sexually attracted to him, so I avoid drinking around him-so, I won't get aroused around him" Am, I the only person that thinks this is WEIRD!

2007-01-05 12:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by Hyatt A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

shes sitting right here. everyone likes her, because she has big boobs :P and she knows it. and a bubble butt.. shes very nice, but people judge her. but i still wish i had big boobs. we`re young, shes almost 13, and i`m 12..

2007-01-05 12:37:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We live together 9 months ago and we start the relationship 1 year and 4 months ago. he told me that he’s planning to return to his country in 2 years. So when I asked him what is going to happen with our relationship he told me “I don’t know want I want” I just know that when I come back to my country I want to have more friends and that I going to be working and studying hard and may be wont have time for a girlfriend. I told him you are telling me that our relationship is not going anywhere. Should I leave you.he said this year was dificult for us. A lot of Things can happen in 2 years. but i want to have a future with him i dont want to waste my time and get nowhere. he said that he love me but i"m not sure because some times i dont feel that way. he make plans with his friends and does not include me. when we are with his friends he ignore me. i tried to leave him but i couldnt i will miss him.I dont know what to do! I will apreciate any advise.

2007-01-05 12:36:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Question for all of you, looking for your input:

What would you do if your mother choose a man and stuck by his side over her own kids? Even if he threatens the kids...what would u do?

Ive written her off for a week now but feel so guilty. But she let her boyfriend THREATEN me and didnt stop him. How awful is that? Right in front of her and now shes making me out to be the bad guy...

This all started when i caught them lying to me and they freaked out being caught in a lie and then he threatens me!!! What would you do? Thankyou

2007-01-05 12:35:55 · 9 answers · asked by divinemadness 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I need to know how to start a good conversation off with a boy I like and should I talk to him when people around because I chicken out when people around.

2007-01-05 12:35:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND SHARE CUSTODY OF A DOG
MY GIRLFRIEND LIKES HER BUT I THINK SHE MIGHT BE PISSED
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-01-05 12:34:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We're both still very young, both 23. Yes High school sweethearts! We now live together for almost a year, share bank accounts...pretty much married just without all the legalities. We've talked about it of coarse. I just don't know how much longer I can wait!? I do love him so much and that should be enough. Just want some other thoughts here.

2007-01-05 12:34:37 · 38 answers · asked by anjolique108 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 12:34:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:33:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend's ex wants to go to the beach with her.
1) If she says yes to him does that mean that she still likes him?
2) Should I say something about it or should I trust her?
3) Does this mean am insecure?

2007-01-05 12:33:44 · 5 answers · asked by sky2shore 1 in Singles & Dating

A young girl meets a guy at eighteen. The guy is about twenty-eight, semi-established, intelligent. The girl is highly intelligent, but severely sheltered. She's very well read, but has very limited knowledge of life. She's in college and sort of "soul searching." To an extent she knew who she was and exactly where she wanted to go, but when she met him, everything changed. He decided that her progress was too slow for him and took it upon himself to revamp her life completely. Now, he's managing her parents and their funds, telling her parents that she's "mooching" off of them, depricates her for not being where he is "intellectually" or finacially, won't accept her help because he'll be "crippling" her, but expects her to accept his, while accusing her of "taking." When they met she had a great job and contributed vastly (though he'll never admit it), but now she isn't working and is focusing on school. He isn't a bad guy and he loves her alot, but he doesn't appreciate her.

2007-01-05 12:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by evelynn waugh 2 in Singles & Dating

What started off as a work friendly relationship turned into a close frienship but crossed into flirting .I went through a terrible break up and my fellow male co-worker who is married no kids though was there for me.He had problems with his new wife not working , wanting kids automatically, refusing to make any effort to cook or clean and spending money without thought.I offered suggestions and that how the friendship got started.After a trip for work to Bremuda (we work for an insurance company) he started flirting with me and that has lead to close hugging.Plus he patted my butt i am not sure if that was on purpose though.I am so confused this has been going on for 2 1/2 years?

2007-01-05 12:31:44 · 18 answers · asked by Bridget F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was involved in a relationship with a soilder 5 years ago while he was located in my state. Our relationship was great, but it ended because I was scared of commitment at the time. We stayed friends, but as he went back and forth to Iraq, I lost contact with him. Recently I found him again. He's currently in Iraq (3rd time) and he will be leaving both Iraq and the Army in November. He'll be returning to his home state (4 states away). I have always wanted a second chance with him (especially since I'm not afraid of commitment now) and I do feel that despite the committment fears, together the 2 of us were a force to be reckoned with. I want to tell him exactly how I feel and ask him for a second chance (distance is of no issue to me) but is now the time? I don't want to wait any longer to share my feelings, but I don't know if thats something that I should place on him while he's deployed.

2007-01-05 12:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf(soon to be husband) of 5yrs and i were watching tv when the subject can up on a dads/childs love vs. husband/wife love.i asked my bf if he loved me equal to his child(from his 1st marrage) he looked right at me and said no way i love my child more than anyone and that would never change.he told me i would not understand because i don't have any kids.don't get me wrong i don't expect him to love me more but i allways thought you loved your child and wife equal am i wrong in this thought?would he feel different if i was his child mom?

2007-01-05 12:31:18 · 29 answers · asked by shannonvincent098 1 in Marriage & Divorce

'let me see you stripped down to the bone
let me see you stripped down to the bone
let me hear you make decisions...without your television
let me hear you speaking just for me....'


Depeche Mode.....




but who sees all your raw soul....just you...no gloss...ever...;0)




she...doesnt do gloss....;0)

2007-01-05 12:31:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by ashley l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. I have a man that in the past four months has really been quite friendly toward me. He has told me stories about growing up and then he "SEEMS" to go out of his way to want to talk to me. However he has mentioned several times that he is married. He knows I am married. Is he flirting, or is it wishful thinking. I really like this man and don't want anything to ruin the relationship.

2007-01-05 12:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by Meesh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and where are you from?

2007-01-05 12:27:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

One of the major wedges that caused my wife and I to separate is that she would feed him very large portions of food and make him eat and eat until he threw up. I witnesses this from the time my son was 2 until I had enough and took over the feeding of my son at about age 4. She did not see what she was doing to him, I insisted this was abuse and she said ther was something wrong with him, We took him to the doctor to see and there was nothing wrong. I found a report about mothers overfeeding infants that was on the money and reported there are some side effects from this like low development of motor skills and eating disorders. I have taken this to my lawyer, church and even filed the incident in court papers. No one seems to want to touch this. He is older now and she has stopped the constant overfeeding process because I have screamed it to the world. I have many witnesses. This to me is obsessive compusive behavior that will only be acted out in other ways by her. Correct?

2007-01-05 12:27:21 · 9 answers · asked by pro1fit1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we had a rough early last year but things started to look a bit brighter.two nights ago she says she is happy with me and with what we got but something is missing. what does this mean? ladies give me a heads up on what is going on. only mature women apply please!!!

2007-01-05 12:27:10 · 5 answers · asked by iofthestorm30c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 15 year old guy, kinda popular, decent looking, play football. However, I have never had a girlfriend, hell, I haven't even been kissed yet. What's my prob?

2007-01-05 12:27:00 · 9 answers · asked by funkmasterflex43 3 in Singles & Dating

would it be rude to invite a coworker that u really like, and not invite another that is close friends w/ the 1st one?

2007-01-05 12:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Weddings

2007-01-05 12:26:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 years old and I've had 3 serious boyfriends and have dated a few other guys casually. How many boyfriends is too many? Should I settle down with the next one? I don't want to marry the wrong man, but I'm wondering if I am too picky

2007-01-05 12:26:36 · 21 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

i've never had a slumber party befor so i dont no wat to do like wat games to play ect..

2007-01-05 12:26:27 · 5 answers · asked by danielle l 1 in Friends

2007-01-05 12:26:18 · 14 answers · asked by laguna_deven 1 in Singles & Dating

haha but i'm afraid i'll knock my bf down and he'll crack his head open and like die. not like i'm heavy. (i'm 111 lbs. 5'3") i'm not very jumpy, i'm more of the gentle type. any tips?

2007-01-05 12:26:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How often are other men of the same situation having sex w/ females and "do it yourself" method? How long can one go without and maintain sanity?

2007-01-05 12:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK at least it's Friday night here in Pennsylvania. Here it is 8:20 at night and I'm already in my jammies, nearly bored to tears at the computer instead of having some fun. DH is still at work and it's just not fair to go to a Swinger party without him LOL.

Anyone else bored too?

2007-01-05 12:22:50 · 38 answers · asked by Rapunzel XVIII 5 in Singles & Dating

i do
my sister is the most annoying creature ever what should i do??!!

2007-01-05 12:22:49 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family