We live together 9 months ago and we start the relationship 1 year and 4 months ago. he told me that he’s planning to return to his country in 2 years. So when I asked him what is going to happen with our relationship he told me “I don’t know want I want” I just know that when I come back to my country I want to have more friends and that I going to be working and studying hard and may be wont have time for a girlfriend. I told him you are telling me that our relationship is not going anywhere. Should I leave you.he said this year was dificult for us. A lot of Things can happen in 2 years. but i want to have a future with him i dont want to waste my time and get nowhere. he said that he love me but i"m not sure because some times i dont feel that way. he make plans with his friends and does not include me. when we are with his friends he ignore me. i tried to leave him but i couldnt i will miss him.I dont know what to do! I will apreciate any advise.
2007-01-05 12:36:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When he is going back to his country, does he ask you to come with him? And is he planning to comeback, or he is leaving for good?
If he is going home for good& doesnt ask you to go with him- you might as well let him go. if you really love him that much, you can wait for him. Give him 1-3 months, see whether he miss you and want you to go there with him. It will be a bit unbalance since he will be the one who make the decisions, but whatever the outcome is: you have to accpet his decision.
He doesnt know what he wants..common problem in this species. Let him go, he will be alone without you& he will start thinking how is it feels like to live w/o you, he will start missing you & will even start to find out what he really wants
All the best
2007-01-05 12:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋