Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

honestly. tell me why?
because i may know i am, people may say i am,
but i refuse to accept it until i have definite scientific evidence.
because anybody who says i am, have their own opinion as to why, and most times it sucks. its always 'well, i had sex at 13', so it makes u a loser for being a virgin at 28! but that's not even an answer. thats your perspective, thats what u did. how does that make me a loser? what is the real reason?
a solid logical answer. experience? that dont count either.
u can get experience anytime, its like driving. whenever u start to learn to drive, give or take a few years you're like everyone else on the road. so, u tell me why then. why is being a virgin at 28 make me a loser?! u freaking tell me why then cause im freaking dying to kno!!? u TELL ME WHY!!

2007-01-05 12:49:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by Scotty 2 in Singles & Dating

a person that acts different around certain people. shouldn't you act the same way around everyone? and if you don't then you're basically putting on some kind of act?or is it better to act a certain way around certain people?

2007-01-05 12:47:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am so confused. I need some advice when It comes to men's wedding bands. I want the "white/grey" look for him but I cannot afford platinum. I have been researching other metals. Does anyone have any good advice when it comes to this. I have been looking at palladium, titanium, tungsten, white gold, sterling silver, and even stainless steel. All these choices are confusing and I need to know if anyone has any experience in this stuff. Of course I want something to last for a long time and not turn his finger an odd color. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!!!

2007-01-05 12:47:21 · 11 answers · asked by S 2 in Weddings

Hi everyone! I am in a bit of a dilema... I am increadibly atracted to two men, and I don't know which one to pic to invest in a seriuos relantionship. One, I have everything in common with, he is sexy, can dance, love music, no drugs, no alcohol, and is into the same area that I study (but he is 20 years older then me and being married 4 times) in fact, he only told me that a short while ago, and made me upset and disappoited, but hey... the other one, is soooo sweet, the same: no alcohol, drugs, junk food, and can dance really well and love music, also a great sport person, REally fit!! very spiritual and hamble person, looking for someone like him... (well... this one is 8 years younger then me) Now I don't know which one should I go for... I like them equally, but I want a seriuos commitment. In one hand I don't want sombody that has beeing married 4 times, but in other hand I also don't want someone that will wait some ten years to marry someone... by the way I am 27... ?????????

2007-01-05 12:47:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we've known each other since tha 5th grade, and i've liked him since then, we flirt alot so i think he might like me but alot of guys flirt at my school for no reason. and today i was flirting with another guy and he got kinda mad. So should i ask him get my friends to ask him, or what just give me some suggestions.

2007-01-05 12:47:00 · 6 answers · asked by ~♥~Nae~Nae~♥~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by daft_24_f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Going through the paperwork My Ex's lawyer have given to me I now have concrete proof that both my Ex and her lawer have lied on several forms that they have submited to the court.

That with the blog my ex used to post on. I feel I have a great case. My question is... What is that going to do to my Ex's credibility in court? These are undeniable statements.

IE My wife showed that she does have a car loan however she does not show that she pays anything for it. FINANCIAL AFFIDAVIT.

The Lawyer on several forms certifies he hand delivered them to me on a date but the officer that actualy presented me the forms stamped and hand wrote a completely diffrent date (over three weeks from the date the Lawyer certified that "He" hand delivered me the form.

There are others out there I was just wondering whether or not a Judge is going to see these bold faced lies like I do or is he going to accept them as mere accedents?

2007-01-05 12:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by whatukno 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a guy for 8 months, and within that time period we did everything together. A day didn't go by, and we weren't with eachother. But we broke up, and its been like 2 months. I thought I didn't care anymore... but its all coming to me now. I Love him so much, and my biggest mistake was letting him go. I wish we could be together. He still Loves me. What should I do? I miss him! HELP!!!

2007-01-05 12:46:29 · 3 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Friends

contact rules means she should return my neice on the arranged date not change it to suit herself. she was placed in my custody by social workers as the mother has a drink problem but she rings and demands visitation whenever she wants and i have to pay for the three hour journey each time. help i need to know where i stand and what are my rights

2007-01-05 12:46:28 · 3 answers · asked by richard s 2 in Family

I know this boy pver the internet through a classmate. Don't worry- he doesn't know any personal information that may end up harming me by him having knowledge of it. He knows what I look like and told me I was hott. He thinks/hopes (?) I am interested in him as more than a friend. He asks me if I'm in a relationship and all. I gently found a way to let him know we are only friends. Now, he barely talks to me, and I think it is because he feels it is going nowhere. Help?

2007-01-05 12:46:23 · 2 answers · asked by Melissa Zondervan 2 in Singles & Dating

girls if you need someone to talk to just leave your screenname and ill be happy to talk with you.

2007-01-05 12:46:04 · 3 answers · asked by goalieman523 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, I was goin out wit dis guy & i liked him, but he would always say I lov u. I would say it bak but i wouldent really mean it ( we where only goin out for 3 mounths)...it was a long distance relationship & when he would come down here 2 see his family we never really saw each other & i hated that. We would always send each other pics but that we bout it & it wasent enough 4 me.So 1 day i calld him 2 talk 2 him bout me & him & when we hung up, we wherent goin out any more. We still talk 2 each other alot & know Im startin 2 miss him & i wanna get bak wit him, but i dont kno if he will wanna get bak wit me or if i can handle the distance thing dis tim...So PLEASE HELP ME! What should i do?

2007-01-05 12:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by ~13Chula13~ 1 in Singles & Dating

general question..... just wondering/survey

2007-01-05 12:45:17 · 4 answers · asked by SwimmingRockstar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:45:15 · 1 answers · asked by rebecca 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:44:45 · 17 answers · asked by brenda29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want one like, "Good friends can be old or new......cont...."

2007-01-05 12:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by Danielle G 1 in Friends

I know this girl Tori how do i get her to like me? Can someone please tell me. I have no clue how.

2007-01-05 12:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by aim_izzy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 brothers and i'm getting suspicious of them smoking weed. My brother who is only in 9th grade has been caught with lighters and stuff but never weed, he's been caught with his window open in his room, and now I think he's getting my 7th grade brother into it? They both claim that they're "taking the dog out" they never take the dog out at the same time? And they do it like.. 3 times an hour, when they get back in the house.. they don't act like their normal selves, they're ussually moody and don't talk, they only talk to each other they exclude me from everything they do.. it's kinda depressing that my brother's and I have a horrible relationship. But after they come back in they're all giggly.. they also claim they're "going to the park" sometimes.. they're 7th and 9th graders.. they're not playing on swing sets come on.. i suspect them of smoking weed because i myself used to.. and acted like they did. But, what can I do to find out if they do, how do i make them stop? and how do I form a better relation ship with my brothers? We used to be good friends, I talk to my 7th grade brother sometimes (we joke) but my 9th grade brother seems to not like to talk to me.. (i'm in 11th grade) I think the reason is we have nothing in common.. Like he likes to act "gangsta" and i'm more casual... you know and I just hate that my brothers can't act like normal people.. considering we live in the suburbs.. I'm beggining to become worried about their futures.. anyways any advice on how i could

- create a better relation ship with my brothers
- find out if they smoke weed and get them to stop
- convince them that although we're african americans, we're not ghetto hooligans, our parents were actually born in Africa, not the ghettos of America.


Please, someone help thank you

2007-01-05 12:42:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am remarried and now have a 9 year old stepdaughter. She lives in another state with her mother. when she visits she is constantly stuck to her father. If he sets down she has to be right on his lap. I feel bad for feeling this way. She is a wonderful little girl. She always draws him pictures and makes things for him. I sorda feel left out. My husband says I need to open the door up a little. Make her feel welcome. I feel distant and sometimes jealous. I would love some serious advise. No stupid answers.

2007-01-05 12:41:57 · 48 answers · asked by WillsBroncoGal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and while i was there i drank to much wine his dog started getting romantic with his tounge and ..........was i wrong for completing his act?

2007-01-05 12:40:52 · 6 answers · asked by rectal itch 2 in Singles & Dating

she just messaged me and said that cause i didnt call her last night we are over.....we had a problem because I called the police because I was worried about her safety and wellbeing....I couldnt call her and hence she says we are over, I have messaged her from dads phone to say I WILL CALL TONIGHT because I dont want this to be over, but if it is then I wont live anymore as there is no point to my life if she isn't in it, I could tell her ANYTHING but now she has left me and I cant get on well with family what should I do, I have alot of other problems too, my family annoy me, I didnt do well at school and simply I feel hopeless right now....I need some ideas as to what to do as I am seriously considering going into the cold for a night to leave this world if she wont listen to me tonight.

Mitch :(

2007-01-05 12:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 12:40:33 · 5 answers · asked by lilcuthie 1 in Friends

What would the world be like today if sex was only with the person you were married to.

2007-01-05 12:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by why? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 yrs old. I got married on the 9th of Dec. It was an arranged marriage. But besides that point this has happened in all my relationships. I know insecurities has something to do with being jealous. But what else? I love to go out and have a good time but I can't go with my husband because I'm constantly watching out. I know how girls can be and how some men can be. I don't have a reason not to trust him. So what's my problem? I'm not bad looking but I'm also not a model. So, it's obvious for any guy to choose. Why am I so insecure? Why do I let this stress me out? There could be a million and one reasons why I act the way I do and I want to know them all.......and more importantly how to fix them. Thank you all for you input.

2007-01-05 12:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by ef3102 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i really like this guy. and well like i dont know if he likes me. because hes always smiling at me and stuff.
and well we talked for the first time.
he just started talking to me about all this stuff.
and well i dont know if he likes me bc ahh its confusing.
but i kinda really like him.
you can emaail me if you need more info on like what to do
please do whatever you can to help me.
[[email in profile]]

2007-01-05 12:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old. I Live in West Chester, PA and am looking to meet people my age. I am interested in music, snowboarding, hockey, movies. I love reading magazines and do have somewhat an interest in politics. I'm looking to learn more about it. There is nothing like going to a good movie with somebody I like.

2007-01-05 12:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i bewleive if every body who has affairs/cheated could remember that all relationships are great in the beginning,,, if you keep it exciting..your partner will never stray

2007-01-05 12:39:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We're both still very young, both 23. Yes High school sweethearts! We now live together for almost a year, share bank accounts...pretty much married just without all the legalities. We've talked about it of coarse. I just don't know how much longer I can wait!? I do love him so much and that should be enough.

I'm not looking for validation, just want some other thoughts.
It's not like I'm going to leave him just because someone on 'yahoo' thought it would be for the best....lol. No worries.
Just tell me what you think.

2007-01-05 12:38:57 · 21 answers · asked by anjolique108 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 12:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by Robert 2 in Singles & Dating