she just messaged me and said that cause i didnt call her last night we are over.....we had a problem because I called the police because I was worried about her safety and wellbeing....I couldnt call her and hence she says we are over, I have messaged her from dads phone to say I WILL CALL TONIGHT because I dont want this to be over, but if it is then I wont live anymore as there is no point to my life if she isn't in it, I could tell her ANYTHING but now she has left me and I cant get on well with family what should I do, I have alot of other problems too, my family annoy me, I didnt do well at school and simply I feel hopeless right now....I need some ideas as to what to do as I am seriously considering going into the cold for a night to leave this world if she wont listen to me tonight.
Mitch :(
2007-01-05 12:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont get on well with ANYONE ELSE, she was my everything and to be honest I dont want anyone else... :( I dont know what I can do now
2007-01-05 12:51:35 · update #1
Hey, Mitch!
Ever been fired from a job? I get this knot deep in the pit of my stomach. Insecurities and butterflies. And relief; I'm free! "What'l I do now?"
A day or two later the feelings are dissipated a little and I'm breathing easier and feeling a lot better. After being fired or dumped a few times you know what to expect.
The situation you describe with her will pass; it was not meant to be. Your family relationship seems a bit dysfunctional, most are, and most people survive. A little therapy might be in order.
Your life will continue, darkness leads to the light. Hopelessness succumbs to hope. You'll work it out. Keep the dreams and faith of your youth.
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2007-01-05 12:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Mitch, there are a lot of people with worse problems than what you have right now, and they're fighting to live. Man, let this chill out for a while. If she's so eager to let you go like this, then chances are there is another guy in the picture. Time will heal this. There are a lot of other girls in the world. Just because she doesn't want you anymore is not an excuse for suicide, or an attempted suicide. If you really get depressed and are thinking about this......call 1-800-suicide. Don't let this get you down dude....there are more fish in the sea. Trust me with this. I've experienced the same feelings you have.....more than once. Talk to someone now. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-05 20:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, talk to someone - a close friend or family member or a help phone line (in Canada, the Kids Help Phone is great). It sounds like you need some help, badly.
Second of all...do talk to her. She might simply be dumping you in the heat of anger, in which case she'll think twice about it and give you another chance in a few days, when she starts to miss your conversations and dates.
If your relationship IS over for good, though, realize that you can find better girls than someone who'd dump you over a missed phone call. It may feel like your life is over, but trust me, life is full of surprises. There's a second chance waiting for you just around the corner!
2007-01-05 20:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG .. you called the police because you thought she might have taken her life as she has been suicidal before, and then you turn around and say that you dont want to live because she is everything to you. That is so hypocritical. People come and go from your life, they are meant to teach us a lesson, obviously you havnt learnt yours if shes gone and you are still hanging on ..
2007-01-06 00:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time and tell her what happened. She might cool off in a few days, she might not. Either way, don't get obsessed with her if she doesn't want to be around you anymore.
2007-01-05 21:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go cry and move on because if ur worried about her safety and then she dumps u, obviously she was cheating at that time with some one else.
2007-01-05 20:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by bashmentgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say 2 words - move on.
its gonna be hard,u r gonna hv relapse (thinking abt her or d good memories etc) but if she deserved u ,she wldnt do a thing like that for sucha tiny matter.
2007-01-05 21:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how lame. move on. more fish in the sea. technology at its finest. how old are you?
It would be different if you would be leaving her!!!!!! she would be thinking the same thoughts.
Let her go. youll find someone else. always happens that way.
2007-01-05 20:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by nd2nonow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on !
Life is too short !
2007-01-05 20:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋