What do I do??!?

Question

okay, I was goin out wit dis guy & i liked him, but he would always say I lov u. I would say it bak but i wouldent really mean it ( we where only goin out for 3 mounths)...it was a long distance relationship & when he would come down here 2 see his family we never really saw each other & i hated that. We would always send each other pics but that we bout it & it wasent enough 4 me.So 1 day i calld him 2 talk 2 him bout me & him & when we hung up, we wherent goin out any more. We still talk 2 each other alot & know Im startin 2 miss him & i wanna get bak wit him, but i dont kno if he will wanna get bak wit me or if i can handle the distance thing dis tim...So PLEASE HELP ME! What should i do?

Answer 1

don;'t get back together , you should absolutly still continue talking to him but donot get back with him because you will still end up miserable and frustrated with a long disctance relationship, if circumstances change and maybe he moves where you live then make an effort to get back but otherwise no......try to look for somebody else, you can never know/control what the other person does when your at such a distance.... so why bother... don't just find someone else

Answer 2

What you should do is start living in the real world. You were never really going out with this person, there was never any real love between you two, therefore it's impossible to get back together with him. This whole thing was a make-believe thing you (and to a greater extent, he) built up in your minds until you had yourselves convinved that you actually had a relationship going. My advice is to get some real friends.

Answer 3

Forget about him, its obvious that neither one of you were willing to make an effort to spend quality time with each other.

Answer 4

well the long distince thing i wouldn't be able to handle but if he's willing to tell him you can try if not, then i can't really help you

Answer 5

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