2007-01-05 12:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by daft_24_f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a problem.
Nothing wrong with him masturbating but if he prefers that to having sex with you then one of you is doing something very wrong. You need to find out who and what it is. You will probably also need marriage counsoling.
Some possibilities:
1. He could be a porn addict.
2. He could have performance anxiety.
3. He could have performance problems.
4. He might not be that "into you".
Find out
2007-01-05 12:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people experience intense sexual satisfaction when masturbating – often much more so than when they are having sex with their partner.
The reasons for this are many. One of them is that there is no tension involved. Nobody worries about their appearance or their performance when they are masturbating. Orgasm is also often reached quite quickly and a partner’s needs do not have to be considered in any way. Also, most people also know their own bodies very well and are not shy to experiment. Fantasizing is a part of masturbation and it is normal too.
Masturbation does not mean that she does not love you and desire you. Try to incorporate it into your normal sex life.
2007-01-05 13:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by bibus75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him instead of us?
Perhaps it could be worthwhile communicating maybe just talking about what turns each other on, but openly not in an argumentative way.
Other options include joining him and making it a bit of fun.
Perhaps get a DVD such as Lovers Guide and watch it together.
Hope some of this helps.
2007-01-05 13:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by ScotsSteve 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this only happened once in a while, I'd say no big deal. But if this is the norm, then he's got problems! He needs to let you know what's missing from the relationship and get his face out of the TV. You're both being deprived in this situation.
2007-01-05 13:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Demand he stop the porn entirely immediately and get help with his addiction. If he refuses, you leave. Simple as that. You can do better, trust me. It might not seem that way now but it's true. And once you're out of it, you'll look back realize that?
2016-03-28 21:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daft a lot of men prefer to having oral on them and master bating. why? pressure when ejaculating. Even oral can been done wrong, a lot of women hold to tight around the shaft. A hint" lips loose around the shaft.A little communications works fine. Don`t get me wrong its not your fault but just like women who can`t tell a man what pleases them, men do the same thing.
Good luck
2007-01-06 05:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be rude but as a guy, a female has to be clean, smelling good, and sexually attractive for me to have sex with.
in your case something is terribly wrong because no guy I mean no guy will masturbate when they have the real thing in front of them.
2007-01-05 13:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Fabo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go to pinkwilli.com and make him watch you pleasure yourself. I guarentee he'll want to jump in.
2007-01-05 12:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is actually happening to me too, freaky i need to read what they write to you, good question.
2007-01-05 12:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by nevermind 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz your not giving him what he needs.
he wants sexy and hot, not love and hold and snuggles. try it once in a while, you may like it!
2007-01-05 12:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by coke makes my teeth squeeky 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋