Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

my friend has been haveing bf's since she was 8! I just can't believe it! Know she doesn't know what to do. She's despret for a boyfriend know. she's 12 right know. you got any advice on what she should do?

2006-12-30 06:48:27 · 7 answers · asked by BFFs Jean and Saba 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 06:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by collegegalok 1 in Singles & Dating

i am gay and my friends know about it, i'm really good friends with this guy at work and wamt to bring him home! how do i tell my mum and family that i am gay? knowing that she will kick off and we don't get on that well at the best of times!!

2006-12-30 06:48:16 · 42 answers · asked by me!! 2 in Singles & Dating

The compliment is genuine

2006-12-30 06:45:47 · 23 answers · asked by holden68prem 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 06:45:46 · 9 answers · asked by mina a 1 in Friends

when will i get married.....the boy will be from delhi or from oversea......will it be love or arrange marriage....

2006-12-30 06:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by arushi mahajan 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 23 (im younger than him) and he drink ALOT on the weekends. he doesnt just drink to relax/ socialize. he drinks basically to get trashed. is this a problem?

2006-12-30 06:45:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husbands exwife uses thier 7 yr old daughter like bait to get what she wants and to controll my husband.she still loves him after 6yrs and uses any chance to just call him up and chat(daily)she can't stand me,being i married her husband(no he did not leave her for me)and limits my contact with thier daughter(can't spend time alone with her,not allowed in her school)even through the both have joint custody and the list goes on.so please there has to be other people like me in this situation how do you do it?please don't say tell you man to get some balls and tell his ex off becuase he will not.he has allready told me to except it or he is going to divorce me if i bring it up again.i keep hoping she will find someone and leave us alone but shes so nasty no one wants her.

2006-12-30 06:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hello, theres a nice boy my age that likes me. we've danced together, and gone to a movie together. I only like him as a friend, not as my bf. Although he feels more for me, and wants me to be his gf. He has never told me that but i can sense it. Hes really a sweet guy and i dont want to make him sad. However i like another guy on a more advanced base, so i should really tell my friend i dont want to be his gf. But I am pretty shy, and dont know how to say it, without making him disapointed. Has anyone been in this situation? do you have any advice?

2006-12-30 06:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by NK 2 in Singles & Dating

my husbands exwife uses thier 7 yr old daughter like bait to get what she wants and to controll my husband.she still loves him after 6yrs and uses any chance to just call him up and chat(daily)she can't stand me,being i married her husband(no he did not leave her for me)and limits my contact with thier daughter(can't spend time alone with her,not allowed in her school)even through the both have joint custody and the list goes on.so please there has to be other people like me in this situation how do you do it?please don't say tell you man to get some balls and tell his ex off becuase he will not.he has allready told me to except it or he is going to divorce me if i bring it up again.i keep hoping she will find someone and leave us alone but shes so nasty no one wants her.

2006-12-30 06:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i,m a student and i,m studying math in Iran And i had to go to some classes.sometimes i can sleep for just 6 hours.Because of the stress i can,t talk normally and also i had some problems in speaking when i was 6 years old .I have a lot of Friends but none of them are my best friends.you know i usually afraid to talk with some people more than 5 and for this i can,t join to groups.i was a painter and a swimmer when i was younger and i had everything i wanted now i don,t have enough time for painting and doing exersice.On the week i had to cry once or i will shout at my Mam,Dad and friends.I think my problem is a girl in our class who thinks she is the boss.She hates me for no good reason and respect to other students and so her friends don,t have a good relationship with me.also i,m very alone my family(Mom and Dad)don,t like to meet new people.

2006-12-30 06:42:58 · 8 answers · asked by magician_fairy 2 in Friends

i dont want to move out, but to make my parent know that im 21 not like im 15 any more with them, they said (for new years example) if you want to spend the night fine and well but dont come home and your not a part of this faily any more i want to move out but not like that (i dont work unemployed for over a year and dont drive)

2006-12-30 06:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been in a good relationship for 4 yrs.but i recently found out that my boyfriend talks to women online..i.e.dirty talk..n even uses his webcam for this purpose.he doesnt know any of these women personally.And i suspect there's one woman he specially chats with(he even sent her christmas greetings n tells her he misses her!). everything else about our relationship is great(or so i thought,until now!).he loves me.and i love him very very much.I always try to keep him happy in every way.I have no idea why this has happened.And it has shattered my trust in him.What should i do? Should i confront him with this issue??If he admits to being guilty,which im sure he is,should i forgive him?Even if i do confront him,he might jus change his yahoo id or somethin..n i'll never find out what he's upto.! I had suspected all this a few months back but he had assured me that i was the one he loved and was most important to him.I thought it wont happen again.But it has! what should i do now?

2006-12-30 06:42:26 · 9 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I like him!

2006-12-30 06:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla K 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 06:40:30 · 2 answers · asked by builtff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can someone please explain to me about taking a vow of silence? I really want to, but how would the teachers at my middle school react? Is there an easier way to explain this to my family? What should I say to my friends? HELP ME!!!!

-Silent British 7th Grader

2006-12-30 06:40:16 · 1 answers · asked by !~CoNvErSe~! 3 in Family

he's not answering my cally and he bought tickets to a comedy special tomorrow for new years eve. If he doesn't bring in the new year with me I'll be highly pissed. Does this mean he has fallen out of love with me and taking someone else?

2006-12-30 06:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boyfriend still hasnt called me after our kiss and its been since monday and i know hes ok and i know he isnt on vacation or anything WHAT AM I DOING WRONG help and if u dont know wat im talkin about then go to my profile and go to my question called y is he so distant and that will fill u in. please help me!!!

2006-12-30 06:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want mine to be in London by a Victorian house, that'll be so romantic.

2006-12-30 06:39:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

even your best frien never thought about u?may b she is doing this so she go at my place. v always thought good for her and she is doing bad to me.

2006-12-30 06:39:45 · 10 answers · asked by little 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-30 06:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by marrisdan4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I have....
I would give my heart 2 this person..
I love this person sooooooooooo much...
I am willing 2 die 4 this person..
give my heart/soul..blood
everything...


















my mother..so do u?

2006-12-30 06:39:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for almost 3 years. We both have children from prior marriages. Mine are younger, his are adults. Here is my problem. My husband refuses to allow me and my kids to come with him when he sees his kids. He claims we will all be "uncomfortable". This happens every time he goes up to see them. This is not the main issue of my question however. What I want to know is, how as the 2nd wife, do I deal with my husband repeatedly referring to me by his exes name? This happens more than it should. Mind you, he left her claiming she was unfaithful, he never loved her to begin with and was terribly miserable. It seems to me there's something more when he visits his kids. He claims he wants nothing to do with her and doesn't speak with her, but yet he calls me her name and that pisses me off. Am I wrong to feel this way? Does this happen to anyone else and do you feel you are living with someone who has a secret life you don't belong in???

2006-12-30 06:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by kikio 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who's really mean sometimes. I do better then her in school, and for some reasons that bugs her so much that she has to compete with me about everything - she's told me that my boyfriend is ugly and if she got a boyfriend - she has never had one - he'd be more handsome, she always plays out that she's very popular or at least more popular then me, she always brags about her self, and at times says very mean things (that I look awful, that her career is so much better then mine). I always congratulates her when she does well and support her when she doens't. And the thing is, we're in our mid twenties! Now it's gotten so far that she doesn't call me her best friend anymore, I'm just an "aquantience".. However, she does spend a lot of time with me, and wants to "hang" quite often.

I don't know what to think. Is this relationship over or is she just having some kind of phase?

2006-12-30 06:38:11 · 13 answers · asked by xxxSadiexxx 1 in Friends

I split up with my husband 2 years ago, he developed manic depression and lied about everything and anything. In the last 6 months weve not had a single row and have stayed good friends for our little boys sake. We made one rule and that was if either of us started seeing someone we would tell the other straight away. He goes out most nights and has had loads of texts from girls etc but denyed it, I have now just found a la senza underwear receipt in his wallet and am totally gutted hes not been honest. I know for an absolute fact it wasnt for a family member etc
I want to tell him straight but I shouldnt have looked in his wallet. What do I do ? I just can't stand the fact I know hes lying. How can I make him be honest? I wouldnt mind if he was just honest and he knows that.

2006-12-30 06:37:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anybody else bummed about new years because their significant other won't be with them? i'm really gonna miss my new years kiss...

2006-12-30 06:37:19 · 18 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm very confused. This guy is very different from me (he's kind of a badass, and a bit of a jerk, whereas I'm seen as a well-behaved sweetie (I'm really not, but most people don't get this)). The thing is, I thought he was pretty weird, until a couple of months ago I noticed him staring at me all the time. At first i thought i was crazy, but i know i'm right. Then he started randomly calling me about homework and stuff, but stuff i think he could've gotten from anyone. Well, i started to think maybe i liked him, as i find him hot, but then, a few weeks ago my best friends (very sweetly) told me they heard from this girl (who found out!! thanks to one of my loud mouth friends) that he said he would never get with me. This girl is known for being a huge bullshitter, but i'm afraid i believe her. But i never would've been interested if he wasn't always staring at me before. Do you think he likes me, but his friends would think it was weird? Or is he just not interested?

2006-12-30 06:36:51 · 5 answers · asked by Vivienne G 1 in Singles & Dating

If your dating someone & something just doesnt seem right, you pick up their cell phone to see if they are talking to other people and you see a name Laura. You ask the person who Laura is and they deny knowing the person. In the middle of the night, you wake up & find your partner naked, doing drugs, jacking off, they have a cam on and they are on the phone with Laura having phone sex & the person tells you, they did it because you suck at giving them blow jobs but you never knew there was an issue prior because they didnt tell you. Then the person doesnt stop and acts like you have a problem, how would you feel? Your partner also kept their drug habbit a secret from you & their son is in the house sleeping with along with other kids who came over to spend the night.

2006-12-30 06:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by christina r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what have you lent to peeps an never got it back not including friends etc?

2006-12-30 06:35:59 · 21 answers · asked by spiritania 1 in Friends

2006-12-30 06:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by CHARLIE 1 in Singles & Dating