How can I give a Stripper a compliment without her thinking I want something from her?

Question

The compliment is genuine

Answer 1

The first thing to remember is that you're dealing with a woman who is not having a relationship with you. She is handling you, creating an illusion of friendship.

But you know that, right?

Now that we have that out of the way, the only reason to compliment anyone (stripper or otherwise) is because you truthfully want to express a positive message to someone. A really bad reason to compliment someone is because you want them to think a certain way about you.

So just give the stripper the compliment. Don't think of it as a test, think of it as practice. Maybe you will make her feel better, maybe you'll just annoy her. But that's they way it is in the real world, so why wouldn't it be that way at a strip club.

And don't fall in love.

Answer 2

never been to a lapdancing club before but i can give you some advise from FHM UK where theres a guy who say that he was sitting at the bar turning down dances untill the one girl he wanted approched him and then he still made it quite hard for her.

don't try to be corny, but being confident is the key to pulling any girl stripper or not!

he says " I also looked her in the eye as she danced, that was the key".

remember you can go in there wearing an armani suit with a pair of hugo boss shoes on all that tells them is that you like to spend your money on yourself not nesseserily them!!!

what will set you a part is if you are charming, funny in a classy way. (not oh my god can you crush cans with those funny)
not only a man but a gentleman give here the impression that if she was with you you'd be able to look after her!
another piece of advice from FHM one of the strippers

"Theres nothing worse in a strip club than a pretentious ass-hole. the ones we (strippers) want to pull are 20 to thirty somethings, well-dressed and are almost quiet - they don't look very comfortable in the club. we dont want to give you 20 or so dances have maybe two then take us to the bar and have a drink!"

hope this helps,
Nick

Answer 3

Don't compliment her. Thats what every other guy in the club is doing. Instead, make fun of her and compliment her at the same time. This will set you aside from all other guys.

Answer 4

You just have to expect that and try your best. Tell her the compliment and don't use something like your very sexy or anything like that don't tell her something that she might use to that advantage and maybe she won't think you want anything just say your pretty or something normal you know nothing sexual but if you do that and she still thinks you want something you need to tell her straight foreward you don't want anything and walk away.

Answer 5

Don't fall in love with the stripper. Never date a woman who pays her rent with one dollar bills.

Answer 6

The answer to your question is...you probably can't.

But, if it's genuine, then just do it. Five minutes later when you're not trying to cop a cheap feel or get her phone number, she'll know...and it's all good.

Answer 7

Give her an annonymous card. This would prove that you don't want anything from her, and will still relay the compliment.

Answer 8

Even if you mean it she's not gona care. She's a stripper and probably get that all the time.

Answer 9

Shes a stripper what else would you want from her.

Answer 10

just wait till she's on break and then give it to her but don't be desperate about it beacause other wise she'll think your like half the other guys that come in there :) :) :)