Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

the song by muse called invincible, seems so sad, yet it uplifts me :S

2006-12-29 10:40:48 · 4 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:40:36 · 7 answers · asked by Lexsy 4 in Singles & Dating

Growing up I always had a roof over my head and food on the table but I think my parents were horrible paretns, and frankly they were. My mother and her long time boyfriend smoked pot in front of my 2 brothers and I but urged us to go to church, make good grades and excell in everything we did. My younger brother is now 15 and wants to move out of the house. I moved out at 18 and my older brother moved out at 17. My younger brother wants to move in wiht my husband and I when he turns 16. I agree that his situation is not as bad as it use to be. My husband I have no room for him in our house and are working full time and going to school. What are we suppose to do in this situation? We have no family in this area either.

2006-12-29 10:40:32 · 6 answers · asked by nodesignerdogs4me 4 in Family

2006-12-29 10:40:15 · 8 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's my scenario

I have this crush for 3yrs and it seems that someone has already won her heart eventhough their not legally (in her parents ) bf and gf . Now this is my dillemma , i can't stop thinking about her because it seems that she is the most beautiful girl that i met ( she looks like this hot filipina model , Maxene Magalona ) and sometimes this dillemma get so worse that i can't sleep or even make me lonely . But inspite all these we are very good friends and she even chose me to be part of her 18th roses last nigth at her 18th b-day or debut . Pls give me advice to move on because that's the best thing i can do and do you think that there's still a chance that i can make her fall in love if they have a break-up due to the fact that i am only in her friend zone. Lastly what's the best thing for me to do so atleast she would always remember me and i can leave a good of impression of myself towards her .... Anyway thanks

2006-12-29 10:39:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:39:12 · 1 answers · asked by Nes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well let me be brief, I use to be bestfriends with my husbands' sister for ten year, but no longer because she tried to break us up, and she talked about me to him behind my back. I husband finally told me because (at this time she still was my friend) I was going to leave him because we started arguing about me taking up for her all the time, and he would not communicate with me. I thought she was my real friend. Okay now alot of time we have Sunday dinners at there moms house I go with my family over there. We do not communicate at because I wont it to be that way. I gave everyone in the family my sons' school picture except her. Is that evil and wrong. I didn't do it in her face because I didn't want to make the others feel uncomfortable. I dont like her and I paid for the pictures, my son banned my son from being with her because of the type of crowd she hangs around. She's 23 and she keeps comfronting me at her moms becaus eshe knows I wont disrespect her moms house. Help me!

2006-12-29 10:38:58 · 20 answers · asked by mskjkj 2 in Friends

I gave a guy my phone number today and it took a lot for me to do it out of the blue. I told him to call me if he gets some free time. Granted this is a little early to ask this question, but I know my head. I would like to know what I can do to avoid getting too anxious and worried while I wait......anything you can do to help!

2006-12-29 10:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by Erin B 2 in Singles & Dating

i like my ex's best friend and he says his not ready for a girlfriend what do i do what if my ex finds out how do i get my ex's best friend to go out with me

2006-12-29 10:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by lily 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a lady who loves a guy for seven years and we were friends in college then we worked together and we are considered very close friends but i can not tell him that i love him although i feel that he feels the same towards me and i do not think that he might know someone else. he cares about me alot and me too. we share ideas, everything and he asked me once if i know someone or not but i did not give him an answer and he became very upset from me and whenever i ask him about the girl that he loves, he smiles to me and tells me that there is no one. i love him so much and i want to know what feelings he carries to me in turn. by the way, all of our friends think that we are in love even his own friends.

2006-12-29 10:37:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been notcing recently that Asian women have really been popular with men of all backrounds. I no longer hear men talking about blonds, Latina's, or mixed girls any more, its all about Asian girls now. Why is that? Personally I think its because Asian women tend to be more feminine and have a great combination of beauty and personality. Asian women usually are in good shape where as the majority of women of other races are now obese. Asian women also work hard, age well, are respectful, very cute, appreciative, and carry themselves with class. American women these days are so masculine and nasty, they are basically men.

2006-12-29 10:37:05 · 14 answers · asked by Cali_pimp_potion 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with one of my best mates. he buys something e.g. clothes, trainers, jackets. He would use them to the maximum amount of time which is a good thing because you have paid for it but..... He would have minimum amount of clothes in his wardrobe for e.g. 2 trousers, 2 tops, 1 jacket 1 trainers and he would wear them for a year or two. As a friend i'm cool with that but i heard other people bad-mouthing my mate saying how cheap he looks. financially he is healthy so i dont see why he would not would to go shopping. i have tried several time to tell him about going shopping and he says he is happy with what he has. can you please help me as he is a really good friend of mine and i feel for him

2006-12-29 10:37:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently watched a film in which a mentally challenged person brutally beat a normal man. This raises two points 1) Why don't we keep all mentally challenged people in hospital/jail rather then let them roam free where they can rule the night and attack innocent civilians? and 2) Seeing the beating on TV caused me horrible mental anguish, do you think I can sue the tv channel that showed me that?

2006-12-29 10:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by Hark! Fairies and Elves! 1 in Singles & Dating

ask a guy out if so how

2006-12-29 10:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 soon to be 14 and there is a girl who is a year older than me. I am abou to ask her out is this okay or should I look for some one my age. P.S We are really good friends

2006-12-29 10:36:07 · 11 answers · asked by James R 1 in Singles & Dating

the answer is in the Question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2006-12-29 10:33:34 · 1 answers · asked by SHAGGY 1 in Friends

OK me and my boyfriend used to live with my mom for a year then we got our own place and we've been living on our own for a year. but now i decided to move back home because we cant afford it. he can live with his parents but they live an hour away and he doesnt have a car and i work 5days a week. i feel so bad because she wont let him come back i feel that we shouldnt be seperated and we should get through this together. we have offered to give her $300 a month but shes being so bitchy about it. ive never really got along with my mom but i keep promising her if she does me this favor it will be different which it will. but if not im gonna continue to be a *****. i told her if she doesnt like him and doesnt think hes good enough for me that its something ill have to realize my self and get over it bymyself but by her pushing it its only making it worst. were both 22years old. ive never been in any illegel trouble and have always been a good kid. just im disrespectful for pesonal reas

2006-12-29 10:32:30 · 17 answers · asked by annonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this guy for over 1year and 3months....yet he don't act as though he cares for me at all.
He rarely communicate with me only when he wants to have sex or if he knows i'm ill. I do love him and care for him alot..but i feel as though he don't even care for me..much less love me!
He never ask me to go out with him not even to the movies....or dinner no where at all. Anytime i suggest we go out, he says that he can get a movie and we can stay in and look at it.
I dont want to waste anymore time with someone who is just using me....it will be difficult to get over him...but i cant be with someone who dont love me after all these years.
please advise me what to do!

2006-12-29 10:32:19 · 26 answers · asked by Playful~Beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

My father in law moved in with my husband, brother in law, our infant daughter and I in June (6 months ago) as I assumed was a Temp situation. I cant stand him anymore, He causes fights between my husband and I, he disregards rules we make for our daughter, He tells me that our parenting technique is wrong (but doesnt' say anything to my husband), he goes through our mail and phone messages, He has caused problems between our naighbors (whom I am very good friends with) and him self. He works full time making pretty good money and doesn't pay rent or gives us money for food, bills ect. I really want him out of my house and to stop freeloading off of us, But my husband doesn't understand, and doesn't want to kick out family... HELP ME... tell me what i can do to either get my husband to understand, or to kick out my father in law.

2006-12-29 10:32:11 · 11 answers · asked by tayla mom 1 in Family

2006-12-29 10:32:06 · 19 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay I broke up with my ex bf early last month because he cheated on me and got some woman pregnant. So he calls me and wont leave me alone. I told him that Im getting over him and he needs to get over me. I told him to let me go and leave me alone. But he says that he still loves me and that he REFUSES to let go of me and he hinted that he wants me back. But I told him that I dont want him back.. He wants to be my friend and stay in contact with me. I tried to tell him LEAVE ME ALONE I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. But he persists that he loves me and he is not giving up on me.He says that he thinks its stupid that I dont want to have anything to do with him just because he got that woman pregnant. I dont understand why he cant just say okay I will leave you alone and we can just go abour seperate ways. How can I can him to understand that NO I DONT WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH him so that he can FINALLY let go of me?

2006-12-29 10:32:04 · 14 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been in an internet relationship for a year and a half now. The relationship was going good until she found out that he was cheating a while back with numerous girls, now she has trouble trusting him but the relationship is going good now. He says he's not cheating and she's trying to trust him. She doesn't want to leave him and he's always begging her back when she has doubts about the relationship. She's moving there with him in about 7-8 months. What should she do? I don't want to tell her my opinion yet but I think she should just do what she feels is right.

2006-12-29 10:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 20, i'm a virgin, and if i had to choose between sex (with anyone), or say, music, i would more than likely choose music.

even just thought of possibly having sex seems dull or pretty boring to me, does anyone else have this problem.

i want to meet someone, and fall in love (hopefully), but i doubt i'll meet a girl with this problem, so it would cause me alot of pain in the process :(

2006-12-29 10:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

you know what i want, i know what you want so lets just f***uck already

2006-12-29 10:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the years, I have made many female friends. Maybe its a subconscious thing...........but, after a few months or years we wind up having sex........even though neither of us have expressed any open feelings for each other..............Does this always happen? We still remain close..........but I guess it just something we have to get over.

2006-12-29 10:30:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hooked up with my best friend's girl. We were both drunk and she doesn't want to tell him. Do I tell him and take the hit??
Or wait til she tells or he finds out??
I don't want to lose a friend. It does go bros b4 ho's right?? Then he should be on my side, right??

2006-12-29 10:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Singles & Dating

Please got to www.demetriosbride.com

Skip the intro and click on United States. Then go to ‘Collections’ and in the ‘search style’ enter 3026.

This will pull up the dress that I really like.

It will be a June wedding. I think it is very light and perfect for the time of year.

Please let me know what you think.

Thank you for taking the time to look at it!! I really appreciate it!

2006-12-29 10:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by *+*+baby dust*+*+ 2 in Weddings

Girls can answer this too lol!! Just thought it was a fun question/scenario type thing

2006-12-29 10:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by msapplebottomculo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:28:34 · 33 answers · asked by batu5001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you a uselss parent?

Do you now or have you in the past...

1. Left your kids at daycare for more hours than you actually work just to have a "break"?

2. Ask others to take care of your child more than you do?

3. let the schools completely take care of your child's education?

4. Allow your child to stay in the care of someone who has been known to abuse or neglect your child in any way?

Well - those are some basic questions - there are more to come but in the mean time I need to go feed myself since I didnt get a brak today at my preschool teaching job.
By the way, if you took time to read this then you must at least somewhat care. But if you answered yes to any of the questions above , please reconsider your role as a parent and the impact it has on your childs life. Thanks so much. - J

2006-12-29 10:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships