Okay I broke up with my ex bf early last month because he cheated on me and got some woman pregnant. So he calls me and wont leave me alone. I told him that Im getting over him and he needs to get over me. I told him to let me go and leave me alone. But he says that he still loves me and that he REFUSES to let go of me and he hinted that he wants me back. But I told him that I dont want him back.. He wants to be my friend and stay in contact with me. I tried to tell him LEAVE ME ALONE I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. But he persists that he loves me and he is not giving up on me.He says that he thinks its stupid that I dont want to have anything to do with him just because he got that woman pregnant. I dont understand why he cant just say okay I will leave you alone and we can just go abour seperate ways. How can I can him to understand that NO I DONT WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH him so that he can FINALLY let go of me?
2006-12-29 10:32:04 · 14 answers · asked by . 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he is right that you are stupid and want nothing to do with him because he got another woman pregnant (good that it wasn't you). Say nothing more and act like he is invisible and mute. Do not respond to him in any way. He is dead and can only come back into your life if you invite him.
2006-12-29 10:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him something to hurt is feeling, like you've found someone else and your madly in love with him. make up some lie. tell him your new bf lives with you and doesnt like that he stills calls. change your number im sure you dont want to but you just might have to. you dont want him to start stocking you if hes being abssesive. tell him u went gay..lol . or have one of your really good guy friends call him saying thats hes your boyfriend and cuss him out but dont threaten him.. good luck girl
2006-12-29 10:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by annonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he phones you just say "I do not want to talk to you ever" and hang up, never say any more than that or listen to what he has to say.
Bear in mind that if he had truly loved you he would never have slept with someone else and his focus now should be on his unborn child and the money.
2006-12-29 10:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off he is manipulating you as long as you continue to talk to him. No matter what he says, if he tells you that he will kill himself, do not talk to him unless you want to keep this going. The more you talk, the more chance he thinks he has, and that is why he continues on with you because you are continuing to talk to him. Some people are not reasonable. If it continues then call the police on him, even if you think he is dangerous.
2006-12-29 10:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have so far done the right thing. You do not want to be stuck with some guys bastard child. If he truly loved you he would not have cheated on you. PS when I say bastard child that is the proper phrase, I am not saying it to be mean.
2006-12-29 10:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by iseemen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he hurt you and you don't trust him anymore. You can't be with someone you don't trust. Maybe he'll leave you when he gets you pregnant just like he left the other girl.
2006-12-29 10:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM TO BE A REAL MAN AND BE WITH THE WOMAN HE GOT PREGANTAND TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILD. AND TELL HIM THAT IF HE DOESN"T LEAVE YOU ALONE, YOU WILL CALL THE PLOICE ON HIM AND GET HIM FOR HARASSMENT.
good luck
2006-12-29 10:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Fox29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is kinda mean but you can scream that you never ever want to see your lieing cheating face again and when he calls dont pick up the phone!!!!!
2006-12-29 10:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stalker...Seek the help of local police. Change phone numbers, door locks.
2006-12-29 10:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he doesnt get off you're back you're gonna file a report with the police for harrassment.
2006-12-29 10:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by trinitygirl_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋