Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

If someone offered you 5 million dollars to give up 10yrs of your life meaning instead of dying at say 60 you die at 50......or if you were orginally going to die at 30 you die at 20............would you take it??

2006-12-29 10:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told my friend, we'll call her...um...Lucy, a secret--not about me. Actually, it was more of a lie. I made half of it up to get attention. Lucy promised that she wouldn't tell anyone. Yet my other friend, we'll call her....Susan, just talked to me about it, meaning that Lucy told her. I'm mad at Lucy. I don't really want to tell her because she didn't say the whole secret, just the begining. I didn't lie about the begining. So, basically, it was okay for Lucy to tell the Susan right? Help me please!! I need it!!!

by the way, I changed the names.

2006-12-29 10:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Me N 1 in Friends

to my new guy to watch himself with me and that he did not like me? The thing is my ex did not say anything he just laughed but they guy who yelled this doesnt even know me and has never met me. Do you think my ex said something for him to do this. I did not retaliate or say anything back but started crying when i got home....why would a guy do this...?

2006-12-29 10:09:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father doesn't really want anything to do with me, so I am asking my closest uncle to walk me down the aisle. And at the reception it will be him dancing with me instead of a father/daughter dance. I need some suggestions! Please help!

2006-12-29 10:09:42 · 7 answers · asked by truefriend8402 1 in Weddings

My wife and I have been Married for less than a year. We have been together for 3.5. In october she told me she wanted a divorce. I have led her to believe that I didn't want her in the first place, like I was stuck with her for our 2 children. I have asked her to reconsider, and to give me another chance. I really do love her and need her. She said she doesn't care anymore. She is tired of trying to make me happy. What do I do to try to get her back? She said she is not going to wait for me to change anymore and she is going to start dating again, she just doesn't know when. She says right now I have no chance of getting her back, but she is not sure about in the future. I wish she would let me have a little oxygen so i can prove to her i love her.

2006-12-29 10:09:41 · 27 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

female employee follows me around then comes up and squeezes my butt in the sporting goods dept?

2006-12-29 10:09:12 · 30 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

For me, this past Aug. my wife and I celebated our 10 year anniversary, and we had also renewed our wedding vows. We had had a few rough years over the past 10 years and we almost got divorced, but we were able to overcome these issues and resolve them. And we thought it was very appropriate to renew our voes.

Just curious to hear about what the happiest moments in your marriage have been in 2006.

2006-12-29 10:08:32 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend found out his girl was cheating on him.
She just walked up to him after he found out. Put her arms around his neck, kissed him, whispered to him that she love him, Looked into his eyes, and walked away to let him think. He forgave her.
Is it normal??I would have left her.

2006-12-29 10:08:20 · 23 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Singles & Dating

Been with my girlfriend for almost three years and i want to move on. How should i do it and when. I was gonna do it before chrismas and i changed my mind and we had a good time but now I am stuck the holidays just keep coming. Any suggestions ladies on what i should say and when. She is a good girl and I dont want to hurt her.

2006-12-29 10:07:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Inhaling some drug... like cocaine or something. He has been acting weir please help!!!! i want to caught him

2006-12-29 10:07:30 · 5 answers · asked by beutifulbutterfly101 2 in Singles & Dating

lots of booze, and i was thinking that was the reason. He talked about it for a second, saying he didnt want to scare me but that he loves me, but he didnt say it again when i left the next morning.

p.s. not a teenage romance

2006-12-29 10:07:24 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me we dont go to the same school anymore but he still calls me a lot and is really gross and inapropriate which I dont like (Im only 11) but I might still like him should i tell him how I feel or just see what happens between us neither one of us has a match! HELP ME PLEASE!

2006-12-29 10:06:06 · 9 answers · asked by ktt 1 in Singles & Dating

Like if your ex-bf calls you and he gets jealous about it, does that mean he is starting to like you as more than just a FWB?

2006-12-29 10:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for nearly 5 years, unmarried, no kids, we're 24, and were virgins when we met.

He recently cheated on me in a one night stand and confessed all by himself three weeks later-there was no way I'd have known or found out otherwise.I told him I would forgive and forget until I found out that he had her number and she slept over in his apartment twice (he said nothing happened either time tho).When I caught him lying about calling her and getting texts from her I dumped him by text.

When we met up 2 or 3 days after that he wanted to get back together but I asked if he was curious about other people and he said yes so I said we should take a break and see other people over Xmas.

He slept with someone else this thursday, and he said it was awkward and boring,he says loves me and can't wait to see me in the new year.

Any advice?

Is this something he can just get out of his system?

2006-12-29 10:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:04:38 · 19 answers · asked by Tos V 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked his advice on a previous problem & now I have totally fallen for him and I'm talking head over heels. I feel so depressed because I don't think he's interested in me. How do I ask him without putting my foot right in it?

2006-12-29 10:02:43 · 27 answers · asked by jody_joyous_jolly 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who is a big pain! She brags about her-self N every time im around her I feel like we R always in a competeition.
I don't want 2 just have to handle this 4-ever untill she get's the point!!... so how do i tell her in the nicest way i guess 2-say i wan't to end our friendship?...also its realllly hard becus my parents dont understand and keep saying shes a nice girl..and that her mom is offering 2 give me a ride to school next year N crap. (HELP!?)

2006-12-29 10:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by BlinkOnce 3 in Friends

Look at chicks in Spring break, they take their shirts off every other occasion and they demand respect
Look at chicks in Clubs/Bars when they are drunk, they will sleep around with any guy
Throw some money at them and they will do whatever man wants
Yey chicks demand respect, how is that possible?

2006-12-29 10:01:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious if anyone has tried it and if it worked out, and if you have not tried it, would you? why or why not?

2006-12-29 10:00:17 · 23 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

Our children and I moved from UK to South Africa to be with my husband, he had taken up employment here 2 months earlier. I had been in the country 3 weeks when he asked me for a divorce (no previous indication), he had met a woman at work and said that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her and thought he deserved some happiness. He moved out of the family home and in with her on 18 November 2006, they have since gotten engaged and she now calls herself Mrs ...... She is 26 and my husband is 52, I am 46.

I have two children who are torn apart. I don't want a divorce, but would like him back. But I need help and advice please. I will not divorce him. He wants a quick and easy settlement and for me to go away. I went to a function today where he was with his girlfriend, he kept suggesting very loudly that I get up close and personal in a sexual way with one of the single me there. This was very degrading and embarassing. Say a prayer for me.

Thank you

2006-12-29 10:00:16 · 23 answers · asked by Marie2114 1 in Marriage & Divorce

been dating this guy for 7/8 months, he said that he loved me, he was addicted to mre - and supopsedly my 'slave', within the space of 3 days - he no longer loves me and is seeing another - right in front of me, im hurting and confused, hes had it all his own road, he loves independant women - but like them to know hes top dog. I dont unerstand, plus he doesnt give me any peace - and hes mean to me,I feel ill

2006-12-29 09:59:47 · 17 answers · asked by hybrid 1 in Singles & Dating

what was your biggest regret of 2006?

2006-12-29 09:58:40 · 15 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas, and hope you'll have a grand New Year. This morning I took my mom and her dog to the vet to get checked out, no...just the dog got checked out not my mom. Anyway, As I was driving I noticed every time I took a curve or was a ways from the next car her facial expression changed like she was about to die! Her hads came up to the dash! Now I only got that away with my ex wife who drove like a mad woman! But I drove the speed limit knowing how much my mom hates driving. It made me really nervous. My question to you is...Do you know or you are a nervous passenger when someone else is driving? If your driving does the passenger make you nervous with their responses? If your riding are you the passenger that makes the driver nervous??? If there is many of you that do this, you all need some sort of help because it really gets on my nerves!!!!

2006-12-29 09:57:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im looking for someone in ga? i dont go to bars or clubs. i need help. thanks country boys are best

2006-12-29 09:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by country girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend has no idea that I've been dating her best friend and I think it should end right away. I mean, it's kind of getting old. The novelty of "I'm making out with my girl's best friend with my girl friend in the next room" is getting boring. So, how should i break it off with him?

Thanks in advance!
Leonard

2006-12-29 09:57:12 · 18 answers · asked by Lawrence M. Enopee 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 3 months and we are still virgins. I know what you are thinking...but we are totally comfortable around each other. We do plenty of other things in bed but when it comes to intercourse it never works out. I have gone to my gyno and had a pap. but there is nothing wrong with me. We have tried several times but it seems like his part is too big to go inside of me. When he is half way in he ejaculates earily. i don't know what to do. I am totally relaxed I don't think he is. I have tried to take some of the pressure off of him by pleasing him other ways first but it doesn't seem to work,. What are some suggestions?

2006-12-29 09:57:08 · 13 answers · asked by nodesignerdogs4me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am one of the bride's maids. I am only 14, so I havn't been to very many weddings. I am kind of nervous about it because I am not use to wearing heels & I'm not sure what I'm even suppose to do as a bride's maid. Please help :]

2006-12-29 09:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by Sonya 5 in Weddings

I have known this guy for 6 months. We knew each other in high school but not that well. After 6 months of seeing each other casually, he calls and tells me he loves me and that he wants to be attached now. Only problem is he said he had been drinking, however i've been with him when he has and he didn't sound like it. Should I take him serious or not?

2006-12-29 09:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not looking for a walk along the beach in the West Indies while being served by 30 muscular servant men. (Although that does sound like fun)

What's a realistic dream date that you might have?

2006-12-29 09:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know the part of London where he's living and the University where he is studying. Any ideas how to get his adress?

2006-12-29 09:55:28 · 16 answers · asked by sweet_kittybaby 1 in Friends