I told my friend, we'll call her...um...Lucy, a secret--not about me. Actually, it was more of a lie. I made half of it up to get attention. Lucy promised that she wouldn't tell anyone. Yet my other friend, we'll call her....Susan, just talked to me about it, meaning that Lucy told her. I'm mad at Lucy. I don't really want to tell her because she didn't say the whole secret, just the begining. I didn't lie about the begining. So, basically, it was okay for Lucy to tell the Susan right? Help me please!! I need it!!!
by the way, I changed the names.
2006-12-29 10:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Me N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay the person the secret was about was a boy...and I lied about who he likes...and if word gets out that I said that then people will talk to him about it and then he will get SO mad at me!!!!!!!!
2006-12-29 10:32:20 · update #1
If you don't want your secrets told, don't tell ANYONE!
2006-12-29 10:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by tiny_tim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Lucy is not a good friend because she's telling other people your secrets.
2. Susan is not a good friend either, since Lucy probably told Susan not to tell anyone that she told her, and then Susan tells you.
3. You are not a good friend because you are making up stuff just to get attention.
All three of you need to get together and resolve this problem and promise to, in the future, be decent friends.
2006-12-29 10:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could fib and tell Susan you made the secret up and only told Lucy to see if you can trust her. Now you know you can't, don't tell her any real secrets. Let this be a lesson to you - in future don't make up stuff for attention. What's wrong with asking for whatever attention you need? I need a hug works pretty well.
2006-12-29 10:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if anything lucy is not your friend because if she was then she wouldnt have told susan so if she tells any none else denie it or talk to her an say i thought we was friends an if we where y u tell my secret
2006-12-29 10:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by i_make _it_rainakapatrickschica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there is a thing about secrets...if you tell someone then it's not a secret anymore.
Ben Franklin said that a secret can only be kept between 3 people and two must be dead. edit- Tiny Tim - LOL Great minds. I love that quote.
2006-12-29 10:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. You lie to get attention, but you don't want her/him to tell. It's normal to do this, and just tell your friend that It was half a lie because you felt like youve been not giving me enough attention and I feel left out/ or and/ I don't want to have to gossip to be your friend, and I felt stressed so I made up a lie.
Everyone does it, I have. Tell her you are in stress and you were upset/angry/disapointed at the girl you "fibed" about. Tell her it was wrong, and that you won't do it again.
There. Problem solved.
2006-12-29 10:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i had the same problem it will all work out just ask the one who told the secret why did u tell that secret and then forgive her and blah blah blah it will all work out dont worry oo and i wouldnt tell that friend very many secrets anymore
2006-12-29 10:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lied to a friend and she blabbed a secret. Neither of you seem to know much about friendship so consider it a draw.
2006-12-29 10:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you got me confused here but it still wasn't OK to tell if she agreed to keep it a secret.
2006-12-29 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a secret if tell people is it
2006-12-29 10:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by ringer6942 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋