Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Are there different degrees of flirting? What is acceptable and what is not?

2006-12-29 10:27:14 · 15 answers · asked by Brainsofop 1 in Singles & Dating

Background: I'm 23f, have a bachelor's in chemistry, and am on my way to professional school. He's, 23m, hasn't finished college, and thinks the army and iraq will be good for country to the extent that I'm not sure he values his life. He's also HOTTTT and entertaining.

Should I?
1. Suck it up and keep him in the friend zone.
2. Make this a friends with benefits situation.
3. Take the risk of getting into the relationship only for him to not go anywhere with his life or possibly lose his life or not be the same after going to iraq.

2006-12-29 10:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by kris 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:26:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that someone likes me and i like him but hes really shy how do i get him to ask me out without seeming desperate or pushy??

2006-12-29 10:26:54 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well this all started out over MySpace. I told her not to get one but the she called me a liar and then the whole thing blew up. How do I make a point of that I was right/I am really smart/You were wrong? And also, she called me a bad singer but everyone else thinks I am good, so how do I tell her that I am not a loner and that I do have a good voice?

2006-12-29 10:26:38 · 2 answers · asked by vagabond. 5 in Friends

2006-12-29 10:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by dave88_06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:26:02 · 13 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by MusicWoman 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for a while all my friends say I am really pretty (not to brag) but I just can't find the right guy!

2006-12-29 10:24:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know she has started menopause and I understand that it is very uncomfortable. Having been pregnant recently I am sympathetic to her having mood swings, hot-flashes, physical discomfort, but it is as if she is a totally different person. We have always been close and she has always been a very sweet, loving, caring, and giving mother. We live in different states but we e-mail each other all the time and call fequently. Lately she has been criticizing me constantly and has even been criticizing my 11 yr old daughter. I have backed-off quite a bit from calling her because I don't want to further irritate her but then she calls me and is ANGRY because I haven't called! I love my mother very much and would never intentionally hurt her but she doesn't seem to stop insulting me lately. Could this be menopause? I know it can last for years, will I ever get my real mother back?
Has anyone else gone through this with their mother? And how did she/the family cope?

2006-12-29 10:24:07 · 15 answers · asked by mamabunny 4 in Family

I mean what does it really take for a guy like me to keep a girl? I'm the nice guy who always seems to get sh** on. And don't tell me to man up. I'm a United States Marine. Until you go through three months of hell at Parris Island you can just leave that subject. Is it wrong to want to be the guy who listens to his girl's problems? I'm currently going through a divorce from a woman i loved with everything i had. All she did was use me and take advantage of my money and benefits to cheat on me while i was gone. So i come back to find i had been betrayed. I'm on the verge of just saying Fu** it on love. Because if it really takes me being a prick and being an a**hole to keep a girl. Then i don't even want to try again. Is that really what it takes? Because if so. I give up. Even though i was taught to never give up. I want someone who will accept me for who i am. If i have to change who i am just to keep someone. Then is there even any point in trying anymore?

2006-12-29 10:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay theres this guy named james i fell in-love with back in October of 2005 he has been so mean to me ever since me and his ex-girlfriend Brittany became so called friends.
I promised him twice that I would stop talking to her but I didn’t only because me and her had so much in common about him.
He says he is mean to me cuz I deserve it for lieing.
But then Yet I did stop talking to her and he kept up his mean=ness.
He started to be nice but mean at the sametime.
It didn’t really bother me because I thought as long as I had him there with me and know he wasn’t mad at me things would be okay maybe.

He is my ex-boyfriend we were together like last year He is also my best friends brother but I knew him before I knew her and we were togther before we even became best friends
I lost my Virginty to him
He can tell me the most sweatest things and I believe him cuz I cant help it im in-love..
but we broke up and i never came back to him cuz i was stupid and thought that he hated me.
which he didnt.
then so he had no choice but to go back to this chick brittany.
he ended up falling in-love with her.
well i messed up everything by haveing sex with his bestfriend adam which was toatlly a mistake i was drunk and dumb and i was pissed off at him and thought that he didnt care anymore.
Since then I regret drinking.
Im not a slut.
Just letting you know.
it turns out he did care about me and his feelings completely changed.
He wasn’t in-love with that girl Brittany when this happen (so he says).
But he was going out with her.
this happend back in february well now since then me and him just been like whatever.
he cheated on brittany like 4 or 6 times with me.
I know its wrong but we were always drunk and he just came to me.
which is messed up but yeah....
There was times we were close and we were sober and it meant the world to me.
well anyway that chick got tired of what he was doing and they've been off and on.
he says its my fault he feel in-love with her and he wishes he never did.
and im like wtf!!!!.
well they haven't been together for two months and ofcourse me being a dummy is love struck over him.
this past month me and him have been sooo close.
and i really did believe he was getting over her.
something just happened yesterday between brittany and her boyfriend Aaron so she just came back crawling to james yesterday.

and like me dumb did it with james the other night we were sober and he said he wouldn‘t use me.
So later on we went upstairs to his room and I said you used me I know you did and He said I didn’t stop saying that I promise and he was holding me.
and now my feeling just went crazy when i saw her there yesterday.
well yeah she came over to his house yesterday and yeah i was soooo pissed.
then me and my friends like want beat her up were planing on doing it later tonite but yeah james found out lastnight and he was like wtf ally don’t eff with my girlfriend and i was like dude just 2 days ago everything was goin good and you didnt care if I beat her up or not. so now he is being all stupid and he admits to being an asshole to me.
and he was like you know im an asshole.

I realized getting in a fight wont resolve anything.
She is so mean to him and I hate it.
I know he can do better.
But some people arre attracted to those who are mean.
Like he is to her and I am to him.
I don’t know what to do.
Im seriously don’t want to do anything stupid.
Im in-love and I cant control it.
I need help or advice Please someone.

2006-12-29 10:23:00 · 7 answers · asked by alyssa 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mum of 4 kids and i'm not interested in a relationship.

2006-12-29 10:21:24 · 3 answers · asked by Huff G 2 in Singles & Dating

new resolutions for a better relations ship with your partener this coming year ??????

What will do or not do to have a better relationship a year long ????


HAPPY NEW YEAR 2007 AND BEST WISHES TO ALL !!!!

2006-12-29 10:20:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im just curious because some women hate that. They can get really jealous.

2006-12-29 10:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by Craig C 2 in Singles & Dating

looking to get some ideas for the best place to have a wedding reception, and is INEXPENSIVE. In the York, Pa. area.

2006-12-29 10:19:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A sperm donor. He always paid support and made the effort to be with them, but she says she is living right.

2006-12-29 10:19:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 10:18:46 · 26 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

His dad

His mom

His 12 year old sister

his 8 year old brother.

All I have is 40 dollers , any ideas.

2006-12-29 10:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family

Is this normal??
My friend found out his girl was cheating on him.
She just walked up to him after he found out. Put her arms around his neck, kissed him, whispered to him that she love him, Looked into his eyes, and walked away to let him think. He forgave her.
Is it normal??I would have left her.
She was also crying when she said/did all that. Did he give her a second chance b/c of that??
She has been sincere so far. Has/Can she change??
I think she is hot, but respect that they are together. Everyone I know thinks she's hot.

2006-12-29 10:17:03 · 27 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if a guy is really in to you??????????????????????...
i met this guy a week ago we have spent the whole week together he cooks for me irons my clothes, tells me im gorgeous all of the time and last night took me for dinner, he was driving so he didnt drink but i had a couple. I think i really like him but im feeling a little suffocated. He is even getting me insured on his bmw M3, do you think you just click with some people and know???has anyone had a similar experience??could you share it with me and what happened?

2006-12-29 10:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by Philip G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Friends

in my experience, in school and now in my workplace, i see girls who have boyfriend and fance but still flirt with other guys.
my x also cheated on me and so i left her.
i cant trust anymore and get a girlfriend although i have difficult time being alone.
I feel like every girl is doing such.
Am i wrong or i must adopt myself?

2006-12-29 10:16:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this use to be my favorite candy, does anyone know if they still make it and where? if they do please let me know thank you!

2006-12-29 10:15:57 · 11 answers · asked by chuckleburry 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to set a world record for longest thumbnail, but she says that she won't marry me with a 10'-7 1/2" thumbnail.

I keep telling her that setting this record is very important to me, but she won't listen.

I do try to keep the nail clean and have it wrapped neatly in the ball hanging from my thumb.

2006-12-29 10:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 10:14:12 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

there was this girl and we became great friends! but id catch her alot calling me names and talkin crappy trash about me behind my back! and she has a bad anger problem!! she'll make you think you do everything wrong! but we stopped being friends! the 1 problem though, is that she's my next door neighbor!!! i wanna make peace with her but how in the world would i do that?? help

2006-12-29 10:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by christy lynn 1 in Friends

She's 10 years old. She is mature 70%.I don't know if it's time. She always talks about it and she is trying to prove to me how mature she is. She says other people go to the movies with her friends alone. When did you alow your daughter/son to go to movies with friends alone? Is 70% mature enough? Is she old enough?

2006-12-29 10:11:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family