Is this normal??
My friend found out his girl was cheating on him.
She just walked up to him after he found out. Put her arms around his neck, kissed him, whispered to him that she love him, Looked into his eyes, and walked away to let him think. He forgave her.
Is it normal??I would have left her.
She was also crying when she said/did all that. Did he give her a second chance b/c of that??
She has been sincere so far. Has/Can she change??
I think she is hot, but respect that they are together. Everyone I know thinks she's hot.
2006-12-29 10:17:03 · 27 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't want to see him get used.
2006-12-29 10:18:34 · update #1
It wasn't me she was with(when she cheated) but another friend of mine. If it had been me, no one would have ever found out.
2006-12-29 10:24:59 · update #2
Is it normal to cheat?...No....but in these recent years...it seems like a norm. It's not ethical nor would you want your significant other cheating on you.
Hot....well...kind of superficial. It's not all about the looks.
You sound young....but I wouldn't waste time with non-potentials. Meaning if you can't see yourself marrying the person...I'd move on.
I have had a BF cheat...and yes I took him back... but later...things didn't work out. And in hind sight...for the better. Just wish it was sooner.
Your friend should take some time to think about it....
and it would be good for you to look elsewhere than at your friend's girl. I don't think if it were your sister, that you'd find it respectful to her.
Hope that helps...
2006-12-29 10:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kalena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us men for the most part are stupid when it comes to females especially good looking ones. Some of us have more of a backbone than others. What the girl did to get the guy back was standard waterworks/ I love you material. Old tricks so your friend must be new to the game. She probably will do it again unless she really does love him. Another indicating factor of if she will do it again is what her motivation of cheating was. If she was piss drunk than maybe she won't do it again. If she did it because they got into a fight and she was mad at him chances are it will happen again. If she did it just because she saw a guy she liked and wanted to get her rocks off, it's almost garaunteed she'll cheat on him again. Find out form her or him what the circumstances were if you think they'll give you an honest answer and give advice or let him know what you think or have to say based upon that. In my opinion though, you are right, if they cheat, ditch'em. There are more beautiful girls out there who have hearts of gold to match than you could know what to do with. Sometimes u just pick a wolf in sheeps clothing, move on.
2006-12-29 18:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say this is "normal" but if the scenario is that this girl is "hot" and the bf is mediocre by society's standards, then its something that happens more then not. Also, something about a "gf" or "ex gf" *someone you become intimate with* crying makes it hard to stay mad at them and easier to forgive. (although i am not saying she wasn't sincere about it, but I can't feel sympathy for cheaters) It might be possible that she is putting on a show... I think you should tell your friend to seriously reconsider just how easily he forgave her, and that he should be extremely cautious cause she just might do it again.
2006-12-29 18:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might really have made a mistake, been sorry, and be ready to start anew. It happens. He probably knows the girl better than you.
On the other hand, she might be a predator who goes after people with poor self-esteem just so that in situations like you describe, she can easily pick up the pieces and continue with her business there and elsewhere.
Is it normal? Unfortunately, it is since normal really means "happens a lot." Just be happy you have enough self-esteem that what's normal for some isn't normal for you.
2006-12-29 18:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by BrightSexyBaby23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody can be forgiven for anything, even cheating. However, when its a matter of cheating the old rule, "Forgive but don't forget really applies."
If he is willing to look past her lets call it a situation, then so should you, because ultimitely its there business. Just make sure you are there to support you friend regardless the outcome.
2006-12-29 18:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sean couldn't have said it better. Once a cheater always a cheater, your friend will have some trust issues because he was betrayed by his cheating girlfriend but his love for her may be so strong that he can look past her infidel ways. Love is Blind.
2006-12-29 18:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by WUO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can change and you never know how much someone means to you until you lose them. but sometime it is also true wen people say once a cheater always a cheater maybe you should let them get on with it everyone deserves a second chance right
2006-12-29 18:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by kim c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal, she just suckered him in with her emotions to take her back, but it sounds like you may have a thing for her and wish you had the opportunity to be with her when she cheated because you said if it were you on one would have found out...
2006-12-29 18:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was a 1 time fling or maybe she is too hot for her own good? Is that possible? Nah, but I would need more info into their relationship, but since it is their relationship, I would butt out, mate.
2006-12-29 18:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jumper Cable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With love comes sacrifice ..everyone deserves a second chance
2006-12-29 18:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋