been dating this guy for 7/8 months, he said that he loved me, he was addicted to mre - and supopsedly my 'slave', within the space of 3 days - he no longer loves me and is seeing another - right in front of me, im hurting and confused, hes had it all his own road, he loves independant women - but like them to know hes top dog. I dont unerstand, plus he doesnt give me any peace - and hes mean to me,I feel ill
2006-12-29 09:59:47 · 17 answers · asked by hybrid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me to marry him very early int he 'relationship', and told me he loved me - yes hes aboviously a player - but why rub my nose in it - why revenge - all his woes are his own doing
2006-12-29 10:18:14 · update #1
Run and in future always remember. How can a guy that doesnt know you, make all those promises. He was after one thing, I hope he didnt get it and that this is why he started looking somewhere else. Make sure your future bf knows you before he starts saying that he is your slave and love you etc etc etc. Being an independant woman by the sound of things, have enough respect for yourself to not believe guys that are willing to tell them they love you in a period of three days, it is impossible and if they really mean it, they have never loved before.
2006-12-29 10:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation last year, this guy told me he loved me, that he couldn't be without me, i was better then anybody he ever met, turns out he just wanted sex and that his friends heard all about it just hours after...he felt dead guilty afterwards because he found out i was a virgin and wouldn't leave me alone for ages, which made things ten times worse... im sorry hun i know it hurts and it's confussing the best you can do is put him behind you, move on yourself, it will take time espeacially if he's always there and mean to you, show him that your not affected by it as much as you are ok because right now your just giving him power over you. Have a few good nights out with your friends, start flirting again, take up a hobby, delete his number and never go back, you'll soon find you can do without him and his meanness and in time you'll find someone that will trully love you, trust me.
2006-12-29 22:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by sinead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are hurting, but I am not surprised. This man has treated you badly and will continue to do so if you give him the opportunity.
He is playing mind games with you, and , mark my words, he will be back. He'll need to know how much he has hurt you in order to give himself some sort of feeling of worth. (He is so screwed up that he probably doesn't even know he is doing it)
Don't even think of getting back with him. The best thing is to have no contact with him whatsoever - Don't answer texts, phone calls, notes, letters, don't meet up as 'friends' - Nothing!
You will hurt for a while of course. But the less contact you have with him the sooner you will heal. Don't hold a grudge, just think yourself lucky for escaping. There are lots and lots of lovely men out there, don't waste yourself on this one.
Good Luck,
Sparky x
2006-12-29 10:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by bigcitygirl_uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 16:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hurt you even more but he obviously never loved you in the first place! He sounds horrid and you are better off without him.
2006-12-29 10:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that same situation. He promised me the world and all of a sudden he stopped seeing me without no explanation. I feel hurt and used.
2006-12-29 10:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then he never truly loved you to begin with. I would suggest just putting him out of your life right now all together.
2006-12-29 10:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by JordanDDunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inexcusable,he doesn't love you,move on!
Chat soon,
Love Ya Babez
XX
2006-12-29 10:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he never meant it and he sounds like a jerk.
You need to be strong and tell him to disappear and to leave you alone.
Find someone who'll treat you right
2006-12-29 10:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a knob,go and find someone nice,hes one of those losers that are so insecure they go from girl to girl declaring their love-if he contacts you again tell him to piss off!
2006-12-29 10:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋