lots of booze, and i was thinking that was the reason. He talked about it for a second, saying he didnt want to scare me but that he loves me, but he didnt say it again when i left the next morning.
p.s. not a teenage romance
2006-12-29 10:07:24 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, usually he doesnt get drunk when we go out on the town. we did not have sex the night in question. hes not an alcoholic.
2006-12-29 10:19:18 · update #1
Ok in relatonships women tend to over think things. I think maybe u want to hear that or u would have wanted to hear it again the next morning. But he was drunk and alot of people spill their guts after a couple boos. Still, it doesnt seem like you said anything after he said it and he was still aware of what he said while saying it and felt weird because of that. Because women sometimes get scared when we say that to them. But its very obvious that he is very pleased with u cause u are the kind of girl that we fall in love with. He is just giving u advanced warning. He knows already after 8 weeks that something is going to happen where the relationship will be tested and u will prove worthy of his love. We can tell when a girl is worth falling in love with much earlier than 8 weeks. But still, u dont need to over think it. U are comfortable where u are in the relationship so just keep an eye on him and always enjoy every moment of a relationship. Never tell a man u love him until absolutely necesarry or u will lose ur glow. Peace and love ;-)
2006-12-29 10:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by TheLoveGuru;-D 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should always ignore people when they say they love you...except possibly to reciprocate to reassure them.
What matters, is how they treat you, and how it makes you feel. Your boyfriend may have crossed an invisible line somewhere under the influence of alcohol (that wouldn't be a first) but lots of people say it without meaning it even when they are stone cold sober.
Don't read too much into it. I'm more worried that your boyfriend of eight weeks got so drunk that you think he might have said something he didn't mean. If this is a pattern, consider looking for a new boyfriend.
2006-12-29 10:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by David G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely give him a break on this one, but keep in mind, you tend to relax and be more open when you're drunk, so there was probably some truth to what he said. Maybe he was overstating it a bit, but obviously he must like you a lot. If you don't think it's going to go anywhere, you should probably do him a favor and break up with him now before he gets too attached. Otherwise, just ignore it and see where the relationship takes you. Good luck!
2006-12-29 10:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it in mind, don't say it back... just wait and try to be patient with him. DO NOT bring it up, he might feel pressured. Either he was just drunk and "loving" everyone but usually alcohol brings out confidence, so most likely he really does feel it and is just too scared to say it sober... i hope that makes sense. Like i said, since it's a new relationship (luckily) just stick it out until he brings it back up...if the drunk love thing happens again, THEN you have the right to bring it up. other than that, enjoy and drink something yourself.
2006-12-29 10:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know that alcohol brings out the hidden you?? Like if you are depressed you cry when you are drunk--or if you a fun person then you laugh and make others laugh too--so maybe he does love you and he is shy --let it go and just see --after all its been what an 8 week relationship right??
2006-12-29 10:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if he cannot get hold his drinks and gets drunk and tell you he loves you then he is not mature enough to love you when he is sober. If you like him getting drunk and you are staying the night with him then you need your head examined too. It is your life so you need to make up your mind. So he loves you when he is drunk. Accept it as that at face valve. After he sobers up, and with out pressing him he tells you he loves you, then you could think seriously about thinking about being together. But I would not hold much belief in a drunkin sailor story.
2006-12-29 10:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have meant it and used the booze for an excuse, but personally, I wouldn't risk the embarrassment of calling him out about it. If he means it, he'll say it again while sober. After all, he's already said it once. That should make it easier.
2006-12-29 10:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that 8 weeks is a little soon to say "I love you". I think that he needs to know you a little bit more, but at the same time, he is probably starting to feel strong feelings for you and was afraid to tell you. Some people when they are drunk is when they feel free to express feelings that being sober are afraid to express or say.
2006-12-29 10:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Irisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two possible answer for that,
Maybe he really meant it and drunk was the easies way to say it because maybe sober he didnt have the guts or number two
he was just drunk-talking like saying whatever was on his head guys tend to do that when they are drunk i think you should ask him again...seriously and sober GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-29 10:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by beutifulbutterfly101 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Count it up to the booze. He's drunk, you're there. That's good enough for love at the moment as far as he was concerned.
2006-12-29 10:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋