Here's my scenario
I have this crush for 3yrs and it seems that someone has already won her heart eventhough their not legally (in her parents ) bf and gf . Now this is my dillemma , i can't stop thinking about her because it seems that she is the most beautiful girl that i met ( she looks like this hot filipina model , Maxene Magalona ) and sometimes this dillemma get so worse that i can't sleep or even make me lonely . But inspite all these we are very good friends and she even chose me to be part of her 18th roses last nigth at her 18th b-day or debut . Pls give me advice to move on because that's the best thing i can do and do you think that there's still a chance that i can make her fall in love if they have a break-up due to the fact that i am only in her friend zone. Lastly what's the best thing for me to do so atleast she would always remember me and i can leave a good of impression of myself towards her .... Anyway thanks
2006-12-29 10:39:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES
MOVE ON
2006-12-29 10:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mistake is you waited three years to show (to the internet world and not her by the way) how you feel. Dude. She's 18. I'm going to guess you are to? She's not going to marry the guy. Stay friends, you'll get your chance. Just make sure you take it when you get it this time around.
On another note, it seems the only thing you love about her is that she looks like whatever model you mentioned. That's not love puppy.
2006-12-29 10:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is to play aloof. Play it cool and hang out with some other girls. She will see that you have other friends and that other women find you attractive. Distance makes the heart grow fonder and makes people realize feelings they didn't know they had. Don't make yourself totally available to her but stay her good friend. Let her see you in a different light.
2006-12-29 10:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gun and a box of bullets.
Edit* Not for yourself but for her BF.
Edit #2* @ the post below mine... What? Like you go around putting your feel goods on hold....... Dude just go and home wreck that junk and take her back.
2006-12-29 10:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the process will not be easy, it wil take some time if u think that they may still be a chance with her then by all means go for it . it sounds like u really care about her.
2006-12-29 10:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got it bad!!!!!!!! first be there for her as a friend. let her know u r always there for her. make sure she trusts u and talk for a while. then if u still r badly in love tell how u feel about her.
2006-12-29 11:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by K King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just always remember the meaning of crush..its just an inspiration don't take it seriously or else you will just be hurt.And just wait for your true love.Who knows maybe she is the way to find you true love.....
2006-12-29 10:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by skyluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should pass it on and think about some thing else that makes no pressure on your soul
2006-12-29 10:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by vampirezone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you really love her you will put your feelings aside and do anything to make her happy including being with the guy she wants.
2006-12-29 10:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate having crushes, it always ends in heartbreak.
2006-12-29 10:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋