What do I do??

Question

I hooked up with my best friend's girl. We were both drunk and she doesn't want to tell him. Do I tell him and take the hit??
Or wait til she tells or he finds out??
I don't want to lose a friend. It does go bros b4 ho's right?? Then he should be on my side, right??

Answer 1

ok...i'm a girl...but seriously tell him first, it was a MISTAKE, and it proves to him that his girl is worthless...if she gets the opportunity to tell him first YOU will look like the bad guy who kept this big secret from his best friend....don't sweat it. just tell him please. bros before ho's, chicks before *****..... he WILL be on your side. just remember to breath and tell him to his face...alone. much love.

Answer 2

Best friend? Not anymore. Why would you call her a ho when you were there lying with her? Doesn't sound like a bro to me. Sounds like you don't much respect anyone, including yourself. I don't think it much matters who tells him. He will be totally hot and will have a right to be. If you want to have relationships with anyone, you will have to learn some self-control. Sorry.

Answer 3

It depends. Who do you feel for more? Yur Friend or the chick?

Friend:Tell her there's nothing between you 2 and that the drinks effected ur mind. Then tell yur friend and apologize like all hell is about to break loose.

Girl: Tell yur friend that you love her and that you're sorry

tis the only way bo

Happy New Year

I wish you all the best in this.

Answer 4

Ever watch the Friends episode where Chandler told Joey of his infidelity with Joey's girl?

It can be a hard thing to tell your friend, but it's important he knows what kind of girl he's got. Even if your friendship is ruined, it's better that you tell him.

And, Dude...when the next time rolls around (and I have a feeling it will) remember to keep your weasel in your pants! *grin*

Answer 5

Just put yourself in his shoes and think of what you would want done. I would think you would want to show respect and talk to him and tell him about what happened and take your punishment. A true friend would be up front and honest, the more time you let go by the more the lie and deceit turns in to a mountain of stuff. Lie apon lie. Don't think about her think about your friendship. You made a mistake, everyone makes mistakes.

Answer 6

it won't stay a secret forever man. but it depends how their current relationship is at this point...i would say not to say something and if she doesn't want to tell him now chances are she won't want to later so i would keep it quiet for now. but if you think she'll spill i wouldn't keep it too long. And also he might not take your side as he may feel you had more control over the situation it depends on how close you are and how much he trusts your word over hers

Answer 7

If you think she will tell him during thier next fight, you may want to be the first one to tell him, or you may wake up with him standing over your bed with a bat.


If you don't think she will tell, no reason to let it out. If you never plan to ever do it again, why hurt anyone?

You want to get rid our your guilt by telling him, and dropping your burden.

Shoulder your guilt and keep it to yourself, If you are never going to do it again, no need to say anything.

Answer 8

Tell him and take the hit. It will damage your friendship more if you don't tell him, and he ends up finding out. You'll get hit either way. Accept the consequences of your actions.

Answer 9

You call yourself his friend? You're lucky you got laid, with your attitude. What right have you to call anyone a 'ho? You and she have betrayed your 'friend', the decent thing to do is to tell him and take the consequences.

Answer 10

It should have been "bros before hos" when you were busy bangin his girl.
You're scum bro, id probably clock ya and never associate with you again.