Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

I was engaged for the last 6 years and for the last 4 of them he has been emotionally abusive and at the end became physically abusive. Since I left he says he has given up his drug habit and has reallised how wrong his actions were and he is willing to do anything to make it up to me. I have just found out I am pregnant to him but I haven't told him yet. I have suffered depression for over 20 years and I don't know who I am anymore and I want time to figure that out and get my head together but he wants me to come back so he can help me and make up for his past mistakes. What should I do?

2006-12-29 18:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Christine B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a black female for about 7 months and am afriad of what my friends and family will think or say. I am so upset about this cause I feel like I am sheltering this relationship and we should be out having fun together. Some friends have made racist comments about the african american culture and I am scared of wmat they will say or how they will think about me in the future.

2006-12-29 18:07:37 · 12 answers · asked by Tomas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 18:06:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi, i really need some help, please advise.

I was introed to this girl early this year, and we started messaging each other on msn and mobile phone, but we have not seen each other nor talked over the phone, though she might have seen my friendsters' photo.

we had some hints and things really seem like working out, just need to meet up. recently in november i heard from her that someones going after her, and she's the type who doesnt know how to reject someone, and that guy had an impression she's ok with him. however we still were quite "close" as usual, and she said she'll tell the guy she doesnt like him soon, the guy was busy.

suddenly, since few days before xmas, she stopped contacting me, and i tried calling her for the 1st time on her phone that night, but no answer neither. could she have been too soft-hearted and went out with that guy, feeling confused/guilty decided not to contact me? or what could happened? should i give her another call on new year?

2006-12-29 18:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did wrong things :(?
I got back at my best friend for him making my girlfriend break up with me, by sleeping with his 2 sisters, cousin, girlfriend and his mom, did I go to far with my revenge that I did this, I was going to go do his other sister but she is a loony ***** exuse my language, did I really go far and should I punch him in his face then kick him?

2006-12-29 18:05:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-29 18:04:02 · 27 answers · asked by Raju 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend took my hand up her shirt for the first time on our date a week ago. this is the first time i have been there with any lady. of course i was nervous and trying to be respectful so i didnt do much. Ladies, any tips on what you would want?

this was not just random it was while watching a movie in my basement and making out

thank you so much!!

2006-12-29 18:03:40 · 15 answers · asked by lenny 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok please don't laugh at me or use sarcasm in your answer...

I have the feeling that I can't breathe

That my heart is just gonna swell up

I can't move

and I feel sorta sick

What is that feeling?

2006-12-29 18:02:26 · 19 answers · asked by Cecilia 2 in Singles & Dating

ive read the book 'twilight' and im crazy with the character Edward cullen, is it weird to think of him that way? hes fictional, but i cant help it, im in too deep in this book

2006-12-29 18:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by glossy, flossy, & fly 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i were together for 2 years and about 2 months ago he broke up with me, he allready had a new gf, just a rebound but 2 weeks into their relationship he found out she was pregnant, personally i dont think its his but he does so... anyways now he has decided to run away with this chick and get married. they are getting married in march, i love him with all my heart and i think he still has feelings for me, we talk for about 2 hours a day 3-4 days a week he told me that he misses me sometimes and i think that the only reason that he is marrying her is because she is pregnant. i really do love him with all my heart and i dont know what to do, if he still does have feelings for me his marriage cant work can it? i still talk to his friends and family and they say he has been miserable but he tells me that him and his gf are doing great... please help i dont know what to do.

2006-12-29 18:01:27 · 16 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

nude pictures of her and put them on the internet to get back at her. Isn't that awesome?

2006-12-29 18:01:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 13 and im in 8th grade and my gf broke up with me she said she had no time she said she ahs many things to do she said she said that she doesnt want a long distant relation ship she says we only talk for 2 minutes at school but we usually talk more but she still wants to be friends but i still like her im not sure should i get her back and try to make her jealous but she is not the jealous type but iono even know wat to do pls help me ! this relationship has been only for 3 months but i like her HELP!!!!!!!!

2006-12-29 18:00:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are both over of legal age but I am 20 yrs older than her. Are friends think we make a good couple. And with the work we both do we know we won't be together long enough to have a long term relationship. I would like so thoughts on this.

2006-12-29 18:00:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, we've all heard this one before, but here we go...So i've been dating my now boyfriend for four months now. we were great at first! But as time went on, things began to change, i have so much questioning about this relationship. But yes, it's because it's my first time in love. He says he's in love with me, and he does do nice things from time to to time, but i feel like i need more than that! Am i asking too much? I just want him to come visit me, or call me to say hey during the day, but even after i've asked this of him, he hasnt changed. Now before him i had always been very independant, but now for some crazy reason, i can never get him out of my head and it pains me thinking about why i think of him all the time and he only sometimes thinks to call me. Classic case of i like him more? quite possible, but i've had some major changes in my life, and i cant sleep, so now i don't know if perhaps i'm just depressed, or just too clingy, or if he's the one at fault!?? help!!

2006-12-29 17:59:51 · 1 answers · asked by bellaragazza252 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so even though i am only 16, i have had really only one serious relationship and others were disasters and i find myself feeling lonely and all i want to do is find a nice guy to date and im even feeling so alone that i think im starting to like an ex again and i shouldnt.... how do you find people to date? i need help..... :(

2006-12-29 17:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by sy_koolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Male and dekny my wrongful desires for the opposite sex. I can deside to become a faithful Christian and learn to be happy. Don't you think? Infact, This is my New Years Resolution. I want to be a faithful Christian and change my life around. I think that my odds are pretty good. What is your New Years Resolution? Keep it real. Do you really think that you can follow up and change your life for good? Be honest. Good Luck and I will pray for you.

2006-12-29 17:58:26 · 3 answers · asked by HEART 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:57:12 · 2 answers · asked by getting_a_new_life 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a guy that I have been dating for 6 months. About mid-way through our relationship, we stopped having sex. It bothered me at first, but finally concluded he was getting something better elsewhere. Despite this change, we still spent a lot of time together. I told myself that our bond was beyond sex, which was fine for me. Anyway about a month ago, I was snooping around his medicine cabinet. I found medications for a common virus, not deadly, but serious enough to have me concerned. Though there were no visible changes to my body, I went to the doctor immediately afterwards and my blood work came back okay. I was a little upset at first that he didn't tell me, but I got over that. I have been going on all this time as if nothing happend. I feel bad for snooping through his stuff. He is really big on invading privacy and has a very bad temper. I don't know how he will react. How do I tell him what I found because I was snooping? Should I just keep this information to myself?

2006-12-29 17:57:02 · 28 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Singles & Dating

Today i feel like Shi*....my birthday is in a couple of weeks and i was supposed to have a huge birthday party and everything, but now my mom said we cant afford it...then she said we can go to a concert with one of my friends, so i was going to see bone thugs in harmony, but now she said oh i thought it was in a few months...when it really is in 2 weeks..so we cant afford that right now eaither. Then the shirt i wanted for so long i order offline, doesnt fit..and theres only 3 more days till school starts up again. i live in a small town that has only a grociery store. im just pissed and depressed...what can i do to help me...i allready punched a whole in my door..haha im really girly so its weird, but im really pissed..PLEASE HELP

2006-12-29 17:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by . 6 in Family

i am trying to plan a wedding for about 120 people, would it be safe to invite 140 assuming some wont show??????

2006-12-29 17:55:20 · 9 answers · asked by David I 2 in Weddings

In the past year I met a wonderful man that had been widowed for less than 1 year. He still had her clothes in the closet, personal items on the vanity, etc. but said he loved me now. I moved in, we have since married but he has yet to remove all her items or tell her daughter that we are married. He gets upset and says I'm jealous when I ask about this behavior. Am I being unreasonable to want to be the primary woman in his life??

2006-12-29 17:54:06 · 11 answers · asked by boopdva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 17:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy happens to be one of my good friends and he has the sweetest look but I am afraid if we do anything like og out with each other we will not have the freind relationship. So What do I do because I like him also.

2006-12-29 17:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come I don't I don't have a boyfriend????? Is it because my mom won't let me and I try to abide by that??? I'm just confused about my feelings and guys and stuff and I just wanna know why I can't get a guy. PLEASE NO DUMB COMMENTS!!! THIS IS SERIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I WILL REPORT YOU!!!

2006-12-29 17:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Allahu Akbar 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:51:08 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

I think my long-term boyfriend of 5 years is addicted to porn. We plan to get married and I'm not sure if I'd be able to handle this hurtle. He gets very defensive if I tell him hurts me, and I guess this is because he's ashamed of it. Anyone have suggestions on how to deal with this? There's still no resolution to this even though he has promised me he wouldn't look at it while I am in the house at all. I've brought it up so many times that I don't think he'd take me seriously if I did it anymore. Help!

2006-12-29 17:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like seriously.

ok so, since he was the one who broke up with me....he seemed as if he was going to cry about it. he looked pretty sad and im pretty sure the only reason it was like that, was because he was scared to hurt me.

so as time just flies, week later, he seemed fine. i don't talk to him no more. but he seems like he's doing good. how can guys get over it that fast?
or maybe, honestly he's just really good at hiding his feelings?

and by the way...i was pretty good to him...
so it's been a couple of weeks, is he already over it?
and just..how why..

2006-12-29 17:49:08 · 18 answers · asked by CAT. 3 in Singles & Dating

I Don't Know How To Spell Big Words What Do U Expect I'm 12!

2006-12-29 17:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Govi's Gurl 1 in Friends