We are both over of legal age but I am 20 yrs older than her. Are friends think we make a good couple. And with the work we both do we know we won't be together long enough to have a long term relationship. I would like so thoughts on this.
2006-12-29 18:00:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would like everyone to know this is a pedophile that asked this question. His real name is James Derel Kidd, and lives in Kosse x. Look him up.
2015-05-03 18:02:42 · update #1
Lucky you! If you're both legal and consenting and it feels right, go for it!
Never mind what anyone else thinks...what would they know anyway?
2006-12-29 18:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bahddahbing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you're both over 18, it's fine in theory.. but 20 years is still a big gap. Imagine you being twenty when she was just born, kinda weird you know? If you two truly care about eachother, you can make it work, but it sounds to me like you two are only dating cause your friends think you go well together, and you should NOT be with someone just cause your friends think you should be together. Since you can't have a long term relationship, do you want to be in one at all, or do you want to try it out and see where it will take you? Weigh out the goods from the bads, and i'm sure you'll know what the right thing to do is. Good luck :)
2006-12-29 18:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are 'legal', age isn't an issue anymore. If you really like eachother it's fine. You'll learn a lot from each other, and you'll be surprised how much you have in common. I think that most women find older men sexy. If you know that you won't be together long, make the most of it and have a good time. Life's too short to miss out on a great oppertunity over something so trivial (age).
2006-12-29 18:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter....if you know your not going to be in a long term relationship just enjoy each other for now. I'm seeing someone 10 years older than me and were just enjoying life!!!
Good Luck
2006-12-29 18:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap is very big, but only the two of you will know, try and see what happens, if your friends think you are good, then go for it, if you really want to be together you will find a way around your work situation, good luck to you.
2006-12-29 18:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had relationships with younger women all my life and it was fun at the time but it's never a long term thing .You grow apart sooner or later .You or her will find out ,your worlds don't click and you and her will be heart broken.As I was many times .But I never learned , Now I'm 63 yo and all by myself . If this is your play for life ,go for it . But if you want long time happiness find someone close to your age .Paul
2006-12-29 18:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by akloveit2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let everyone know that this account was created by a pedophile. he has a thing for boys 6-8 years of age, and girls as well.He is on 10 years probation. His name is James Derel Kidd and lives in Kosse tx.
2015-05-03 18:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i depends on the bracket were talking about is it 20 and 40 or40 and 60 40 and 60 would be o.k. but 20 and 40 absolutely not
2006-12-29 18:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 years older than my gf it lasted over6 years she traded me for a younger model 8 years younger so yes YOU can date someone younger
2006-12-29 18:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem uncomfortable with the age difference or you wouldnt have asked.???
If you both are wanting to see each other, than go for it.
You dont need permission.
2006-12-29 18:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋