Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

My ex-bf ended it a year ago, but a week ago, he asked me to see him, I did, but he treated me kinda bad. Thus, when I got home from the "meet up", I told him on msn "goodbye forever", & he kept saying sorry but I logged out. I say he treated me bad cuz as soon as the movie was over he just took me home, he never opened any doors for me, and at the end of the night he didn't park the car or even walk me to my door. He just looked at me and said Merry Christmas & didn't even try to hug me. But, since he was never a really bad boyfriend, I feel bad for saying goodbye forever to him on msn, should I send him an email telling him why I did that on msn, and that I wanna end things on a good note? Do you think he will respond and if you were him what would you think if I sent an email like that?

2006-12-29 17:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

we are planning a wedding and are trying to crunch the # of guests to make the wedding more affordable. we need to know what to expect as far as r.s.v.p turnout

2006-12-29 17:32:54 · 5 answers · asked by David I 2 in Weddings

Im 16 and he is 18

he is cute. and REALLY SWEET!!

before i left work today he asked me for my number and i gave it to him...

what do you think that means???

Should i let it go??

OR

Should i not do anything and what for him to "make a move"

thanks!!!!

=]

2006-12-29 17:31:52 · 13 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3 in Singles & Dating

I definitely dont, but i wonder why people would want to worship the devil. is it just for attention? i dont get it? so if you do, enlighten me

2006-12-29 17:31:33 · 5 answers · asked by Gabrielle M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just love being around him. Talking on the phone with him. Playing around with him. Watching tv with him. My family loves him. I feel like I love him, but I'm not sure. What do you think?

2006-12-29 17:29:57 · 24 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. I understand that I was his first girlfriend, but throughout our entire relationship, I always initiated sex..! I remember when we first got together, we were 18 years old and it took him 6 months to even touch me. Now that we are 20 years old, I confronted my boyfriend regarding this issue, I asked him, "Do you not like sex with me?" and he answered, "We just had it a couple of days ago, and I don't want our relationship just based on sex!". We have sex twice a week! I mean, my boyfriend is a really great guy, obviously our relationship is not just based on sex, since we had been together for two years now, but we do not a good sex life at all! What kind of a sex life do we have, when I have to beg for sex from him? according to my friend, a gay guy can sense another gay guy and my boyfriend does get attention from gay men. Is my boyfriend just senstive or is he gay, but doesn't know it yet

2006-12-29 17:29:32 · 26 answers · asked by College GurL 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been talking to this girl from india for a long time now but we cant see each other we just talk by using im and i was planning on writing her poem and sending it to her and maybe just tell her how much i liker her and how she is wonderful to me. is that romantic enough even though i cant meet her? i really would like to surprise her .

2006-12-29 17:29:30 · 7 answers · asked by Marco E 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of my husbands is geting married tomorrow and so i was talking to my husband about the plans, all I knew so far was that he was picking up his friend nick. He said that it was going to be a good day and that "we" were going to have fun. I told him that I hoped my cold would clear up so I would feel up to it and that's when he say " Oh were you going to go with me? When he said We are going to have a good time he was talking about him and his friend. I assumed that seeing as how I'm his wife he would be taking me. I told him that was messed up and he said sorry I didn't mean to offend you but I'd love for you to go. I told him it offended me greatly and he was on his own and hung up. He's been at work and I haven't heard from him since. Should I go or stick to my guns and saty home giving him the opportunity to tell everyone who asked where i was that I was being a wench and stayed home?

2006-12-29 17:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had just gotten engaged, even though I was not completely happy, I was willing to continued. But weeks later I found out this information. I was getting settle signs but was not sure. But now I am and he'll die first not amit it, but I caugt it. And I can't lie to myself and can't live with it. Now his ego is buised and I am afraid. He feels I have to much Info. And that could be dangous for me, and he believes for him as well. I am scared and have been walking around the house we share on pins and needles, not
saying much and neither is he, I can see the fear in his eyes and it scares me. I am trying to see how to tell him it's over, that I won't portary his confidance, but I'm leaving. In reckon*** difference, is a good enough reason to tell others have been tested for sure, no more freakly stuff going on here!. but should I let him know or send him a post card later?? He's a big guy!! and have lots of freinds. let me know what's best, I do not want to get hurt. help

2006-12-29 17:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by alyssahtr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife would like me to be romantic, but I'm not. I did not have a role model to show me and it is a skill that has to be learned, practiced and honed. So what can I do to be romantic? Also, how do I make love to a woman--not just have sex. For all you woman that answer, thank you in advance.

2006-12-29 17:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by dog13barking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 17:27:09 · 34 answers · asked by Daziela R 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on my boyfriends laptop and his email was open and I opened a folder I called pics (I thought it was all of our pics) to see if there were any I could send to my friend. Well did I get a surprise, it seems he has been chatting to other girls on the internet and they have been sending him semi nude pictures. No actual nudity in a bra and panties or a close up of a low top and cleavage.

I am too scared to ask him what is going on but I am feeling totally worthless and unwanted.

Before this I never had any reason to mistrust him or feel I should. I have all these jealous feelings now and I am hurt because it makes me feel that I am not enough for him and I really want to confront him but what if it is just a little bit of harmless fun, sure I sometimes chat with other guys and they send me pictures but I DELETE them. It seems it is only one girl, but now I am suspicious and I start wondering if it is something more than just online chatting....

Any advice???

2006-12-29 17:26:42 · 20 answers · asked by tammy d 1 in Singles & Dating

He has already been to my place. Slept on the couch when first met. Due to not having a place to stay. But I have not seen him in a month,because he was out of town.We have talked on the phone almost every day. Going on a first date next week. Not sure if he will expect to stay over again...

2006-12-29 17:25:05 · 14 answers · asked by Josie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by Maria A 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this cute guy that asked me out ,and i said "yes" .Then suddenly he asked for a hug so i did that .After later for a kiss and i refused .Did i make a big mistake not to kiss him?

2006-12-29 17:24:47 · 2 answers · asked by bhsuoihalhjp0 2 in Singles & Dating

the past 3 months have been very difficult, I lost my job and have been looking for work for a month and a half. My girlfriend and I have been having a frusturating time for the past 6 months. Now we are at a put where I'm sleeping on the couch for the past 2 weeks and shes talking every night on the phone to some guy form Colorado, that she used to know from high school. She said that she now wants to be friends.
I know I want her back, the way it was before. Can you give me any advice on how to get her back

2006-12-29 17:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by john p 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy i've known my whole life but we were never really good friends or anything. last summer i caught him several different times looking straight into my eyes. i would look up and notice him there and i kinda got locked and couldn't look away even if i wanted to. i started to consider him and realized that i really liked him. well about a month ago he got a girlfriend and he raves about how wonderful she is. i'm just wondering, what happened to me? by the way he was acting towards me (not only the staring thing) i really thought he liked me. i just don't understand, did he ever even like me? or was that just something i made up?

2006-12-29 17:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by it's me 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:23:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i mean like wat are some good questions to ask a "guy" and stuff? i never wanna be without saying anything you know? so yea

any tips ?

plz help

2006-12-29 17:23:07 · 6 answers · asked by princesa 1 in Singles & Dating

I like others am guilty of sending a text message to someone about my feelings. I know it's taking the easy way out in a situation but whatever. However, i sent the text and the guy didn't respond. Would you have responded to the following text and if so, what would you have said. :

" I've been thinking about it for awhile and yesterday just reinforced it. I've liked you for awhile. Take that the way you want. I just wanted you to know."

What does this text mean to you and what would you think if someone text it to you. This is mainly for the guys.

2006-12-29 17:23:01 · 2 answers · asked by ALeoStar 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:22:54 · 26 answers · asked by Daziela R 1 in Singles & Dating

Interesting in every aspect of the word?

2006-12-29 17:22:23 · 12 answers · asked by Maria A 2 in Singles & Dating

he is honest, kind, generous, no baggage, mature, good hearted.....what do u think?

2006-12-29 17:22:21 · 15 answers · asked by penelope 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy who is bout to turn 32...lives with his parents, has no job....but they give him money for smoking etc....his dad is retired now I think, or at least semi, and his mother works as a foster parent so he does play with the kids and drive her to the grocery store and appt's etc, but isn't it time he got a life of his own or am I bein too judgmental?????

2006-12-29 17:21:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-29 17:20:05 · 52 answers · asked by Sushma K 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend both like this guy.She met him a couple of days before me and barely knew him.She told me she liked his body.I agreed.She didn't say she liked him.I told her i liked him ans she told me I was messed up because she knew him first.Now shes talking about how she wants to go out with him. Me and her are really close friends and I dont want to ruin our friendship.Is it me or her who needs to listen.It also really annoys me when he talks about how cute he is.Plus if I do stay away from him how will I without ignoring him completly.

2006-12-29 17:19:57 · 7 answers · asked by That'sDecent 2 in Friends

is it the lyrics?
is it the melody?
is it the occassion you expirenced the song?
iand once you heard a song, how come it stays with you, even you didnt bother memorizing it in the first place

2006-12-29 17:19:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are always like why dont you do anything with her anymore andi have to say she is always busy cause she is read thisletter i sent to her

Do you think we are still bff's? I mean we NEVER talk at school u r popular and i am not you are in sports non stop i am not you never have time for me and i have time for you but it is like you are not trying to make this friendship work it needs to be worked with cause i can littleery whatch our frienship slowly fading away and flying out the window do you still want to be friends i do but i dont know if i am just holding on to the good old days or what what do you want?


I sent that to my bff since 4th grade but we are staarting to grow apart adn i dont know what to do about it is that to harsh i need advice i mean we never talk or anything what should i do?

-A helpless friend

2006-12-29 17:19:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am single and i want a boyfriend

2006-12-29 17:18:45 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany W 1 in Singles & Dating

What do guys look for in a girl? I'm in the process of reinventing myself. I'm overweight, so I'm going to the gym more often and watching my portions for meals. But I don't know what else to do. I'm trying to change myself so I'm more attractive, but I don't know how/what to change....get it? I know you don't know what exactly I look like or what is wrong with me already, so I'm not expecting flawless answers. Offer some advice if you can. Thank you.

2006-12-29 17:18:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 2 in Singles & Dating