What do guys look for in a girl? I'm in the process of reinventing myself. I'm overweight, so I'm going to the gym more often and watching my portions for meals. But I don't know what else to do. I'm trying to change myself so I'm more attractive, but I don't know how/what to change....get it? I know you don't know what exactly I look like or what is wrong with me already, so I'm not expecting flawless answers. Offer some advice if you can. Thank you.
2006-12-29 17:18:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to change who you are to get a date then you wont like the guy who you want to date.
I know it is a cliche, but be yourself. I know what its like to be that age and feel like an ugly duckling.... but guess what, the ugly duckling turns into the swan.
Always be yourself, dont change just so u can go on a date with johnny-whats-his-name
2006-12-29 17:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and i say be you because no matter how much you try to perfect one area, there's always going to be something else that either bothers you or the men you are trying to impress. Working on your weight is great and essential to good health but if you want to work on something, try a positive attitude and your spirutuality because doing this will reveal that other people are not worth you straining and changing yourself for! Good luck!
2006-12-30 01:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change for yourself and no one else. Do what makes YOU feel good about yourself. Stop thinking about what others think of you. Respect yourself. You will gain more confidence and others will see this in you. Confidence is attractive.
2006-12-30 01:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, love yourself for who you are. It is good that you are trying to loose weight and be more health conscious. But, this should be done on loving yourself, not disliking yourself. When you become comfortable with yourself...inside and out---you will gain the confidence to just ask! What do you have to loose?
2006-12-30 01:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend to be very honest about how you look. Just remember its whats on the inside that really matters, have good morals and have fun!
2006-12-30 01:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my gosh.. just be yourself. theres some one for everyone
2006-12-30 01:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by missannazhoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋