My ex-bf ended it a year ago, but a week ago, he asked me to see him, I did, but he treated me kinda bad. Thus, when I got home from the "meet up", I told him on msn "goodbye forever", & he kept saying sorry but I logged out. I say he treated me bad cuz as soon as the movie was over he just took me home, he never opened any doors for me, and at the end of the night he didn't park the car or even walk me to my door. He just looked at me and said Merry Christmas & didn't even try to hug me. But, since he was never a really bad boyfriend, I feel bad for saying goodbye forever to him on msn, should I send him an email telling him why I did that on msn, and that I wanna end things on a good note? Do you think he will respond and if you were him what would you think if I sent an email like that?
2006-12-29 17:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it. You will lose control of the situation, for he is a loser. Move on honey and find yourself a worthy man!
Grandpa
2006-12-29 17:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all relationships you will find quirk's. If you are upset because of the things you expected him to do and he did not do those things while you guys were in a relationship then you shouldn't work yourself up and be upset with him because of something he has never done while you guys were together. All women have the right to be treated like a lady and I agree those things sound nice and I would like a guy to do those things but if he never did those things for me while we were together then I wouldn't dig in to deep. Unless I wanted those things and asked and told him I like those things. If he listened to my opinions about wanting him to do simple things guys should do then that's great. If not it shows me he don't take my feelings into consideration. The same applys for you. He could be slightly bitter due to the break up. Yes you should email him and explain to him how you feel. If he disregards that then your actions were just. Depending on the type of person he is would tell if he would and will respond. I hope that that he does. If I were him I would respond because I would want to clarify my feelings to your concerns and tell you how I feel about the situation so there is an understanding.
2006-12-30 01:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do that was so bad? Sounds to me like he was being polite by not putting his hands all over you. Maybe he was hoping to start over fresh but didn't open doors for you cause you know each other well and are too comfortable around one another. The last time my hubby opened a door for me was when we were coming home from the hospital from having our last baby.
2006-12-30 01:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was wrong with talking to him then? Maybe he didn't know how to act on your date again, to do it over the Internet or any other way besides face to face is cheap. If I were him I wouldn't accept your call but call him maybe he will just to clear the air, next time be big enough to to handle you business.
Good Luck.....
2006-12-30 01:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by jakhiamylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanted to see you to see if he still had feelings and then he realized he didn't have any. So your email is okay. Better to have loved and lost then not at all.
2006-12-30 01:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by choco-vanilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! Maybe he want to be friends and see whats there. Talk to him, ask him why he want to go out in the first place.
2006-12-30 01:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could send it but in reality if its over and no matter what u dont plan on getting back together then it doesnt really matter how it ended, it just ended
2006-12-30 01:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by ☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's really not that much into you, always demand respect from a guy from the very beginning, if you don't you'll never get it, be smart girlfriend
2006-12-30 01:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by COUNTRY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off ...he is not a gentleman ...and second you do not need him if he has to act like that ...although to tell him and why ... would make you a better and stronger person.....but when you have said what you want to say add no more ...and say no more to him....dj
2006-12-30 01:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by djgil705 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dAtS A BiT SaD DoNt YoU FiNk... FoReVa Is a LoNg TyM!!! GiV HiM AnAdA ChAnCe!!! ItS WoRtH A TrY...
2006-12-30 01:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by ChiKeTa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋