We had just gotten engaged, even though I was not completely happy, I was willing to continued. But weeks later I found out this information. I was getting settle signs but was not sure. But now I am and he'll die first not amit it, but I caugt it. And I can't lie to myself and can't live with it. Now his ego is buised and I am afraid. He feels I have to much Info. And that could be dangous for me, and he believes for him as well. I am scared and have been walking around the house we share on pins and needles, not
saying much and neither is he, I can see the fear in his eyes and it scares me. I am trying to see how to tell him it's over, that I won't portary his confidance, but I'm leaving. In reckon*** difference, is a good enough reason to tell others have been tested for sure, no more freakly stuff going on here!. but should I let him know or send him a post card later?? He's a big guy!! and have lots of freinds. let me know what's best, I do not want to get hurt. help
2006-12-29 17:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by alyssahtr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
down meaning on the down low. Sleeping with other men, but not wanting it to be known, and not excepting to be bi-sexual or gay.
2006-12-30 08:05:42 · update #1
Be careful with what you do here. If he's dangerous, and your message seems to imply this, walk away and send a card later. His friends might become your next nightmare and he might do something horrible to you. For your own safety and no matter how mad you get at him, hold back the anger until later when your writing it. Dont' act overly nice, just be yourself in a careful way. Be smooth when you make this transaction. Good luck
2006-12-29 17:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"his ego is buised and I am afraid. He feels I have to much Info. And that could be dangous for me, and he believes for him as well"
What does this mean.? Are you worried he might hurt you physically.? If that is true, TELL EVERY ONE and then leave him.
Lets get past the fact that this is him cheating on you.. Would you be as worried if these were woman he was with.?
And the term is either DL or on the down low.
Good Luck
2006-12-30 01:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont choose the cowarldly way out. I got that and believe me it sucks big time. Be honest with him and yourself and it will feel better in the long run.
2006-12-30 01:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for whatever reasons you are scared by all means get out and don't think about sending anything until you know that you are somewhere safe may God be with you.
2006-12-30 01:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Protect yourself. Leave and get a restraining order.
2006-12-30 02:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by daphnerst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I and many others knew what you meant ( on the down) Instead of rambling on and not clearifying your concern, we be able to help. I recommend you rewrite your question!
2006-12-30 01:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
for your own safety, get out of there without saying a word about it to him. this guy sounds dangerous, so you just do what's best for you, and get on out of there fast.
I wish you the best.
2006-12-30 02:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself.....not completely happy.
Dump his hump!
2006-12-30 07:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move a long long long way away very very quickly.
2006-12-30 01:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋