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there is a guy i've known my whole life but we were never really good friends or anything. last summer i caught him several different times looking straight into my eyes. i would look up and notice him there and i kinda got locked and couldn't look away even if i wanted to. i started to consider him and realized that i really liked him. well about a month ago he got a girlfriend and he raves about how wonderful she is. i'm just wondering, what happened to me? by the way he was acting towards me (not only the staring thing) i really thought he liked me. i just don't understand, did he ever even like me? or was that just something i made up?

2006-12-29 17:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by it's me 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

okokok.

so like haha, i was stuck in this situation before...
he had a gf but i thought he liked me stuff.

the thing is, go with your instincts.
don't try to change his mind about his girl right now.
eh they will most likely break up anyways.

if he really did like you, he would try and try.
just make sure you don't act like you don't want it.
make it easy for him to talk to you and stuff.

these things takes time to find your results.
see where things go for now.
let it be.

whenever they break up, test him.
haha, get your friends to observe the way he acts around you.

good luck.

[btw, it took a while, but i got that guy]

so im telling you.
it takes time, but if you guys were meant to be it will.

2006-12-29 17:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0 0

What you have stated is logical and correct. The boy was available, he had no gf and he was eyeing you as a potential gf. He also sent you signals. you accepted the signals. But your reply was slow in coming. he was confused. meanwhile another girl came into his life. Even if he initially felt you were a suitable candidate, it has not developed into a relationship. He is alone and needs company. She somehow answered his immediate requirement and now he is happily settled with her.
Moral : In love you must be fast though you may appear to be slow and hesitant, which is appealing.

2006-12-30 01:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0 0

You didn't react to him so he decided to move on. When he looked into your eyes you should have said "You see something you like"? Oh well, you lost out. Find a new friend.

2006-12-30 01:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its possible he did like you, but then realized you didn't share his affections and so he moved on and found someone else.

2006-12-30 01:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0 0

I I think he did have "something" for you but...didn't know how to tell you. and now he has someone..move on!

2006-12-30 01:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0 0

ask him out. you might be right and he might like you. there's no point in not trying

2006-12-30 01:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by David 2 · 0 0

idk .... i guess he found her betta than u

2006-12-30 01:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by dodi 3 · 0 0

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