Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Ok heres the deal. I really like this girl and I cant get her off my mind. So the other day when we were hanging out and she told me previosly she had had a dream about me and said she would show me it next time we hung out. So i kept asking her when we hung out what it was and she refused to tell me. So im leaving and mention it again and she says alright i tell you, i go back and she kisses me on the cheek and she then says in my dream it wasnt on your cheek. So i go to call her the next day and she was at a sleepover in the middle of something and she said shed call me back and never did. So i call tonight says she had to call her dad and get home and then shed call me back, never did. So i talk to her online and i leave up an angry away message and she asks if she did anything wrong and if i was mad at her. I say no but i really was. Did i do the right thing? I hate her right now but i still like her so much. Its driving me insane

2006-12-29 17:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by brillohead 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm like a cheerleader and I wonder why the boys like me so much what is it?!!!!check out my 360 and leave a comment!

2006-12-29 17:47:57 · 22 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF Burned a baby picture of me! he was mad and now he tottaly regrets it! I mean alot I just am sooo HURT by it ! Baby pics are once in a lifetime OMG im crying soo MUCH! I feel like trash! what do I do!

2006-12-29 17:47:36 · 14 answers · asked by lilbigred12 2 in Singles & Dating

lets say you were dating years ago, neither claimed love but you left on good terms (due to family matters) now some 15 or so years later you're in touch, feeling like you've never been apart ... can you be friends or is it destined to become an affair ? That old thing from When Harry Met Sally ... can male and female relationship exist without sex somehow involved ?

2006-12-29 17:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by Chele 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother was in my room and he is always verbally (over 10 times a day) and physically (almost 5 times a day) abusing me. He is always calling me a fat a** and comments on my weight. He always puts my arms around my back and throws me against walls and hurts me. He pulls my arm up as much as he can until I cry like a cop would. He just turned 14 a few days ago and he is almost as big as me. 5'10" and he's getting strong, I can't take him on. Tonight, he punched me in the mouth and I was laughing before he did it and now I'm bleeding (my teeth). I ran to my mom and I was crying and she was in the living room. My dad was asleep on the couch and my mom told me to be quite because she didn't want me waking him. I went to leave and she told me to stop crying and being just a drama queen.....(No question really, just want to hear what you have to say on this) Thank you!

2006-12-29 17:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Family

Don't laugh seriously what age would a gal turn into a woman is it when she gets her period or when she looses her virginity cus my boyfriend said its when she loses her virginity but It can't be when she gets her period cus some gals get it as young as 9 as I've heard so what are yall opions

2006-12-29 17:47:06 · 19 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Singles & Dating

my g/f of 4 months ..would tell me she was in love with me ..and after the 4th month oneday ...she just told me she did not love me that her heart could not feel...i do not understand ..how can someone go from being in love oneday and feeling nothing the next...

2006-12-29 17:47:01 · 4 answers · asked by djgil705 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering.

2006-12-29 17:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by princesa 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been hanging out with two guys and a girl all break. It's been really fun. Well emotions start to stir up. I like them both. I don't know what to do because I know that if I try to change something then everything might change. for the worse maybe.

I'm thinking about asking one of them to Jr. Prom since they're seniors i'll need to ask.. I dont really have a problem with that it's just i dont know which one?

One i met earlyer, he's really nice, caring, friendly. I think he might have a thing for me.. well there's more of a chance he does than 2. He's going to stick around here after high school, so if i wanted a relationship it'd be easyer.

2 is what you call tall dark handsome smart funny. he's a GREAT guy. but he might go off far away for college. im not as close with him and he's extremeley shy. He will never be the one to make the first move. But when we talk he's always very touchy and somewhat flirty

I'm leaning towards 2 but I feel one wont like it

2006-12-29 17:46:37 · 2 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

I know some people meet girls this way, but I always feel it seems sleazy. What's a good way to do it without being the overly-horny customer?

2006-12-29 17:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by martin h 6 in Singles & Dating

My BF Burned a baby picture of me! he was mad and now he tottaly regrets it! I mean alot I just am sooo HURT by it ! Baby pics are once in a lifetime OMG im crying soo MUCH! I feel like trash! what do I do!

2006-12-29 17:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by lilbigred12 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this girl and I am very close to her. We have many things in common and have kinda felt for each other since mid-august 2005. Neither of us have really had the courage to ask each other out. Every boyfriend she would have, I would kinda watch over here like a guardian angel. Well, I finaly told her this and she was just dumbstruck. She couldn't believe that I would do that for her. I went and got her a little cross necklace for X-mas. Afterwards I found out that it is bad to give a girlfriend jewelery early in a relationship. She and I are just close friends but I plan on asking her out a few days after I give her the necklace. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on a way for me to give her this necklace and so she won't think she is forced to give me a yes when I ask her out.

2006-12-29 17:44:55 · 4 answers · asked by Alphamale626 2 in Singles & Dating

I do fairly decently with women, but I still feel like I lack some ability. I'm wondering what the successful men out there do to be successful with women. And when I say "successful" I don't mean form a nice relationship, settle down and get married. I mean feel in control during the whole attraction and courting periods and have the confidence to get almost any woman they want. What would you suggest for someone who wants to become better with women?

2006-12-29 17:44:30 · 3 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Singles & Dating

we can't drive but our town is small so we could walk

2006-12-29 17:43:37 · 7 answers · asked by Jen Bug <3 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my friend is 13 and she has a 18 year old fiancee... shes a christian so assumes that everyone should be engaged to who they love.. but I hate to break it to her but i think her "fiancee" is sick and twisted .. how to I tell her she shouldnt rush twords marriage like this?

2006-12-29 17:42:32 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old, and I really like to meet new people just to talk with and make conversation. I love to learn about their beliefs, lifestyles, and such things as that. Would you say that's strange?

It's hard sometimes to find people, especially online, who are willing to just talk because so many people have other things in mind, if you know what I mean. For once, I'd like to talk to someone, just for the sake of talking to another person.

So, for my age, do you think this is strange?

2006-12-29 17:40:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Anybody know any couples that have done this? I've been with my gf for 4 years now and I want to marry her..but I don't know the implications? I know merging 2 religions and cultures is a difficult process..but has it worked out for anyone?

2006-12-29 17:40:12 · 10 answers · asked by John D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This isn't from experience or confusion. Well, not exactly, anyway. I'm just wondering what everyone else thinks.

2006-12-29 17:40:10 · 19 answers · asked by Drop of Golden Sun 3 in Singles & Dating

Is he being posesive ? But he says he didn't say he doesn't want no want talking to me.That he doesn't mine, if i have guys friends.I'm confuse here, can u explain ??????

2006-12-29 17:40:06 · 9 answers · asked by cashmere l 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay here's my problem I have 4 kids two of those are step kids tonight my husband walked in on my seven year old boy and his 5 year old girl they were under the covers she was sucking his wee wee and he had his mouth on her, the girl has been through some bad things in her little life a man that molested her at the age of 3 now i worry alot i'm trying my best to deal with this but i've never had to before and i'm beside myself wondering how to deal with this my husband and I were looking for honest advice. I know that we need to seek professional advice but i'm hoping maybe someone on here will have been through something similar and can help us through this. thank you for any advice you can give

2006-12-29 17:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by rebeccaangel2004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you pay attention to the I-am-still-in-love-with-an-"ex" questions on here, it's mostly GIRLS asking them!!

2006-12-29 17:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

I use to talk to this guy for about three months, about a year ago... we started falling for each other and I freaked out and stopped talking to him. During the summer I found his phone number and I called him up, I wanted to see if we could start all over again, but this time around he had a girlfriend…Whom he said he didn’t really care about, so we kept talking on the side... NOTHING PHYSICAL Happened just as friends! A few months ago he told me that he broke up with her (NOT because of ME!) But I've noticed in the past few months that he'll call me everyday for a week then disappear for a few days... women’s intuition tells me he's still with his girlfriend. I've confronted him about this but he's denied it... should I go with my instincts and just dump him anyways?

2006-12-29 17:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you get over someone when you have been with them for the longest, experienced everything with them, gave them everything and would do anything for them?? How do you let your feelings go? One minute he tells me he hates me and wants me to leave and the next I love you and I am sorry... How do I decide what to do? Do I stay or do I go?

2006-12-29 17:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by vwbabe7463 1 in Singles & Dating

And I'm not referring to illness. My 'man' said he loves me but still go around looking at other girls and keep his porn subsriptions. He also comments about how I look and the way I dress. Is there something wrong with him or am I just insecure? We've known each other for slightly more than a year but only got real close since a few months ago.

2006-12-29 17:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by Star 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 17:37:28 · 7 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

!st came the death of my mother on 9/26/06,then this past weekend on 12/2206,my husbands mother dies,so we had a funeral to go to right before x-mas. Then the day after on 12/26/06 my aunt dies! What is up with all this? How is the average person suppost to handle all this at once,with out self destructing? Is there a lesson to be learned here?Its just crazy! Any ideas or advice on how to deal with this without blowing up?
thanks for listening!

2006-12-29 17:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-29 17:35:05 · 13 answers · asked by ELO 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants a divorse after 23 years of marrage. He has been the primary provider for our family and I have worked part time to help supplement our income while raising our kids. He wants to handle the divorse through a mediator but I disagree and have a 60 minute consult with an attorney next week.please send me EVERY question you can think of to ask so I am prepared.

2006-12-29 17:34:46 · 10 answers · asked by donna p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can i overcome this fear and embarrassment ?

2006-12-29 17:33:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating