And I'm not referring to illness. My 'man' said he loves me but still go around looking at other girls and keep his porn subsriptions. He also comments about how I look and the way I dress. Is there something wrong with him or am I just insecure? We've known each other for slightly more than a year but only got real close since a few months ago.
2006-12-29 17:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's totally disrespectful. you should be the only girl for him and let him know that.
if he's checking other people out, he's the sick one.
cause he obviously doesn't think you are enough.
tell him.
and if he doesn't agree. forget him. simple as taht.
2006-12-29 17:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by CAT. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as the looking at other girls and keeping his porn subscriptions, that's a matter of your personal feelings on the subject. Does the porn bother you and have you told him? Is he looking at the other women like he's looking for something "better" than you? Then he's being disrespectful. If he is telling you there is something wrong with the way you look or the way you dress and is being cruel or non-constructive in his opinions, he doesn't deserve you. Overall it sounds like he's disrespectful and trying to control you. Get out before it gets any worse.
2006-12-30 01:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by ramones_rule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's a regular old horny teenage boy or he's just a perv - and NO you're not insecure about it...if you've got a gut feeling that he's "sick" then LISTEN TO IT! besides, a guy shouldn't comment on how you dress "like that". I've had a similar experience. This guy my friend was talking to...within a week they were "talking" he was all asking her questions on her "bra size" and what kind "underwear" she wears...he ended up being a real perv who wanted to "get with her" (in that way)...you want a caring and mature boyfriend - not a sick *** pervy little horny boy (no offense to your man) but girl, if YOU feel that he's being "sick"...then you're not being insecure at all.
2006-12-30 01:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men look at other women, it's when they act on it that it becomes a problem. Throw the porn out unless you enjoy it too. Sometimes men have a hard time parting with the porn, you might have to work at this for awhile.
2006-12-30 01:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he wouldnt look at other girls or have a porn subscription.And if you r happy with the way u look thats good enough. not some porno creep telling u what u should look like. Sorry 4 bein blunt but guys like him give me the shits.they dont respect women and never will.
2006-12-30 01:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is sick, if he has a nice girlfriend he does not need porn, and does not need to check out other girls. Does he criticise your look and dress? Talk to him, if he can't treat you right, dump him and find someone else who will treat you right. good luck
2006-12-30 01:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a man as long as he looks and dose not touch it's OK and about the porn if he is fanasizing about the person he is looking at then it's wrong. there is ntg wrong with him u r just insecure
2006-12-30 01:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by shy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-12-30 01:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
l thinks he was a problem youngster lor.Live him alone.
2006-12-30 06:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a great big HORNDOG!
2006-12-30 01:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋