How do you get over someone when you have been with them for the longest, experienced everything with them, gave them everything and would do anything for them?? How do you let your feelings go? One minute he tells me he hates me and wants me to leave and the next I love you and I am sorry... How do I decide what to do? Do I stay or do I go?
2006-12-29 17:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by vwbabe7463 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I guess it depends on why you broke up. Did you do something for him to hate you? maybe he's just really hurt or confused and is having trouble getting over something but still really actually does love you. If there was a problem that led you to break up and it is not just some random thing that he's doing, I guess you need to decide if its worth saving. Though if you have been together for so long its so hard to let go and sometimes your just trying to save something that's not there. Sorry for giving mixed reactions, I'm in the same situation, just the opposite to u. I'm very sad :(
2006-12-29 17:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by IL DIAVOLO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off all communication with this person, and look into wht makes you great and find an intrest.
do not use someone else to get over them bc that just gets you into the same mess you were just in.
2006-12-30 01:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Manipulater.
2006-12-30 01:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have a girls night out, drink, dance, flirt, then go home and eat a pint of Ben & Jerry's. Good medicine for anyone.
2006-12-30 01:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he needs to be on some kinda anti depressant.
sounds like he might have some sort of depression. not trying to put anyone down ,cause i have been there,and i know.
we all need help , every now ,and then..
just check it out okay
2006-12-30 01:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by PEACHES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave until he makes his mind up and then if you decide that you want him back then go for it on conditions
2006-12-30 01:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else who is more sexy to date. You just need to realize that there are 'plenty of fish in the sea.'
2006-12-30 01:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just happened to me.. EXACTLY, I need the same advice.. Except it's my girl friend who did it to me.
2006-12-30 01:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by JoToCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
build a bridge and walk over it
2006-12-30 01:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋