I really like this girl and I am very close to her. We have many things in common and have kinda felt for each other since mid-august 2005. Neither of us have really had the courage to ask each other out. Every boyfriend she would have, I would kinda watch over here like a guardian angel. Well, I finaly told her this and she was just dumbstruck. She couldn't believe that I would do that for her. I went and got her a little cross necklace for X-mas. Afterwards I found out that it is bad to give a girlfriend jewelery early in a relationship. She and I are just close friends but I plan on asking her out a few days after I give her the necklace. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on a way for me to give her this necklace and so she won't think she is forced to give me a yes when I ask her out.
2006-12-29 17:44:55 · 4 answers · asked by Alphamale626 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out a couple of times, then give her the necklace.
2006-12-29 17:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mmm, I'd give her the present. Gauge her reaction when you give it to her, if she seems genuinely interested, go for it! But I do understand why you want to hold off asking her out. I agree. Give it a bit of time, just in case she feels pressured. Wait maybe a week or two. Take her out to the movies or something equally neutral and then tell her how you feel.
Good luck!
2006-12-30 01:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Pip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont believe it good/bad luck and stuff like that if you really like this girl then ask her out and give her the necklace. im sure it will be fine
2006-12-30 01:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by MT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with her first...it shouldn't seem like you have to "buy" your way into a date..you'll feel better about it and she won't feel pressured either..hope it works out!
2006-12-30 01:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋