Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

I know of course it is what we notice first. But be honest about how much it really matters after you get to know someone.

2006-12-29 19:38:14 · 33 answers · asked by freshlybakedj 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my best friend.....I have a boyfriend but I would never give my best friend up for my boyfriend. I actually wouldn't be willing to give anyone else for my best friend. I think he feels the same way but he is much to shy to admit it. We spent the holidays together and it was actually one of the best holidays I've had in a really long time. My boyfriend feels the distance but he doesn't know the real reason for it. But my best friend is my heart and no one could ever take his place. He is the first person that I talk to in the morning and the last person that I talk to when I go to sleep at night. And if I don't hear from him, I automatically know that something is wrong. We know each other so well that we can not talk to each other and know that something is wrong with each other. I am so in love with him but I am so scared to tell him how I feel for fear of rejection...What the heck do i do?

2006-12-29 19:38:14 · 5 answers · asked by deshenae23 1 in Singles & Dating

She's a middle child rebelling against her mom and pop. She loves my carefree life and ability to support it. I work for a large company that lets me live such a life. I love her attitude and zest for life. I just don't want to invest in something that won't pan out. So when do girls grow out of this? When will I see the real her?

2006-12-29 19:38:08 · 4 answers · asked by Marc 1 in Singles & Dating

5'3,shy and quiet person.talkative if i like the person.

2006-12-29 19:34:20 · 9 answers · asked by shy girl 1 in Singles & Dating

im shy with a female until i get 2 know them because I have an overbite but every girl i ever knew says its not bad or a problem and i can get girls but i be scared to talk to them

2006-12-29 19:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25, married with no children, my marriage starts when i felt lonely, depressed and devastated 3 years ago, i was trying to get out of the horrible situation but it didn't work out! my first days & months of living together are always a nightmere to me! however by the time passing, it comes down and happend to be stable! at times i felt i don't love him, i felt to be interested in other individuals, i felt depressed, angry and indifferent but i couldn't leave him! even at the time i felt that i've found my special one i couldn't resist his statement that he loves me!
now i need to make it clear for myself, i still hurt by the way he treated me in past, i still have my special one in my mind, but i can't stop thinking about my husband and i can't resist calling him and looking at his eyes!! do i love him? should i forgive him and start a fresh start? or should i resolve this with myself and go toward my own way?

2006-12-29 19:30:55 · 19 answers · asked by liliap60 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a personal problem with my husband and i really can't make it to work for the next couple of days but i don't know what kind of excuse to use because i really don't want anybody to start asking questions. I really need to be away for a few days do you have any suggestions? please it would help a lot thank you

2006-12-29 19:30:35 · 6 answers · asked by nancy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would it take to make a connection to someone like that and do you have one the most common one would be your child especially if your the the mother but can there be a connection to someone that you are not related to a friend that you would do anything for even if you are male or female and reguardless of there gender assumeing that the dedication goes both ways even if it meant to take your life or someone elses or both how often do you see this kind of care about someone else and i am not talking about it being someones job but just true dedication to someone you are close to or are we just always in it for ourselves and no one else

2006-12-29 19:29:06 · 7 answers · asked by ertw t 2 in Friends

2006-12-29 19:27:38 · 10 answers · asked by lacey d 1 in Singles & Dating

well i'm in 7th grade and i've had 5 boyfriends scince august...i ended my relationship with a boy that i was goin out with for 8 months and i didnt really even like him..then i broke up with him when school started... then boys flew by i went out with a boy for 2 months then a boy for 2 weeks then a boy for 1 week and i'm now considered a "playa". i now have a boyfriend that i've gone out with for 3 weeks (goin on 4 weeks) and i think i accutally LOVE him...is it to early to love someone so much in 7th grade?

2006-12-29 19:23:13 · 18 answers · asked by j0<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Viet Nam .I have met him since April,2006 and we love each other.Tuesday May 23rd,2006 .He and his family went to USA
before he left,he said"he would return",I believed him
everymonth,he phone me but since September,2006,he haven't phoned me.I sent many letters for him but he did not.I think he had new girlfriend.what will i do?

2006-12-29 19:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my fiance very very much. But we have been together so long sometimes it feels like we are not "IN" love. Is this normal? I feel like I am falling in love with someone else too, is this just an attempt to find the old feeling of "new" love. I am not going to cheat, but such a big decision like getting married needs some good advice. Thanks!

2006-12-29 19:21:37 · 5 answers · asked by freshlybakedj 3 in Singles & Dating

I need one just to freaking understand my role and what is expected from me in life mostly with my family and my boyfriend! Any suggestions?

2006-12-29 19:19:41 · 31 answers · asked by sammy 6 in Singles & Dating

I had to ask this question because i know so many women that like rappers even though a lot of the rappers degrade women in their songs by calling them bi#ches and hoes and sluts. What is it about these rappers that you like even though they disrespect and degrade you? I'm just curious. I'm not a big fan of rap or a fan of degrading and putting down women.

2006-12-29 19:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by No.34 1 in Friends

2006-12-29 19:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by emma82holmes 2 in Weddings

2006-12-29 19:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and we've been talking for HOURS but now I am running out of things to talk about!
lol
what should we talk about now???

2006-12-29 19:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by CaLiFoRnIa_PaGeAnT_GiRl 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother just recently had brain surgery, so all of her hormones, emotions, everything are all out of wwhack. My family cannot handle her anymore i have tried my hardest to help my mom out when she needs help, and help my dad when hes sad at the fact that my mother isnt the same anymore, my mom just seems to think we are not a family anymore so she wants a divorce. i hate to leave her on her own because she is not well, and i hate to leave my dad because i know he needs someone there for him too, i love them both, and im so confused where i just wana live by myself and be alone ... is it wrong to feel that???

2006-12-29 19:14:27 · 10 answers · asked by justin3067 2 in Family

I was in a very serious relationship for abt a decade but then suddenly we broke up. I had horrible time but he was kinda cool about it. Eventually i started to avoid his general hello hi calls and text msgs, until one time he came over and we made love. It was just a frustration that we both took out. We had been making out before. After that he kinda ignores me now. He used to insult me at the time we were breaking up. Now that after this little love making, I want him so badly because all my feelings have returned for him but he just doesnt want to talk about it. If we meet in public among friends, he kinda ignores me and doesnt reply to my msgs or calls. And hes very rude to me.
Is he using me? What should I do? I am finding it very hard to let go of him again. It took me 4 months to get over him but now I am back to square one and its even harder now NOT to think about him! Please help me! I really want him back!

2006-12-29 19:11:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:09:20 · 24 answers · asked by saumya p 1 in Friends

I am the kind of person that needs at least one person to care about me. growing up (& THIS ISN'T A SOP STORY) I got moved from mums to dads to a few foster families then back to mums (in a different state) to me she resented but to my other sisters she treated like angels. Family is imporatant to me. i hate people who sit there a diss their family when people like me would give anything to have one. if you are one of those people... why? i don't understand. do you not need anyone that you can push those who love you away as if they were nothing?

2006-12-29 19:08:23 · 14 answers · asked by stevieglenwright 3 in Friends

2006-12-29 19:08:23 · 16 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:07:45 · 6 answers · asked by lacey d 1 in Friends

I am very confused and upset atm, i have found out from a friend, that the guy i am interested in feels indifferent to me. she told me that she sussed him out and asked him if he was interested in anyone at work, and his like oh! all im interested in is my career. But there is someone who is a friend of a friend of a friend, he acts different than how he speaks to her towards me and is vrey quiet in front of me and flirty... so do u think he is spinning lies to brooke, and that he does like me and is not admitting to it, because everytime he sees me he looks at me. but, i do not know if its because he knows about me or he is actually interested, please help me clear my brain

2006-12-29 19:07:14 · 1 answers · asked by darzysguy 3 in Singles & Dating

i want my baby back more than anything in the world. Can someone help me?

2006-12-29 19:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by laura k 2 in Weddings

Mother Leola Eastburn, Sister Nancy

2006-12-29 19:06:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is in South Carolina, deteriorating mentally on a daily basis. He has lost his home, is unemployed, and seems to dedicate every waking moment to harassing her via emails and offline messages. He posts nasty away messages. He has threatened to kill her, myself, and the other person who rescued her from her unhappy life with him. They have a child in common. That child is doing well in Illinois, although the nutball in SC would swear he is miserable. Any ideas on how to drum into this guys head that it is over, and that if he thinks he is still viable as a parent, after the past year....to pursue it on a legal front? Any legal ideas are so welcome.

2006-12-29 19:06:00 · 5 answers · asked by One WhoKnowsTheTruth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 19:05:29 · 22 answers · asked by Damany C 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is so mean to me she calls me fat and treats me diff from my brother and sister..and its making me really sad, shes nicer to them she buys them stuff, she yells at me if i ask for something to buy but when my brother and sister ask (both OLDER) they get what they want and i dont wanna sound like i want everything but im tired of her treating me diff...i dont wanna talk to her cuz shell just blow me off and ignore..help what should i do!?

2006-12-29 19:04:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, i'm smart, funny, attractive, involved, unafraid, flirty, and deep down, i'm a tomboy. so why does every guy at my school ignore me or completely reject me? i haven't had a date in almost a year, and the one i had ended terribly. are all high school guys crap; or is it me?

2006-12-29 19:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by havok636 2 in Singles & Dating