well i'm in 7th grade and i've had 5 boyfriends scince august...i ended my relationship with a boy that i was goin out with for 8 months and i didnt really even like him..then i broke up with him when school started... then boys flew by i went out with a boy for 2 months then a boy for 2 weeks then a boy for 1 week and i'm now considered a "playa". i now have a boyfriend that i've gone out with for 3 weeks (goin on 4 weeks) and i think i accutally LOVE him...is it to early to love someone so much in 7th grade?
2006-12-29 19:23:13 · 18 answers · asked by j0<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now wait I think you are confused. Do you love HIM or do you love the way he makes you feel? there's a big difference there. Would it kill you to just be friends with these boys...kind of test drive the relationship first.
2006-12-29 19:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better ask yourself this first... Are you really in love or simply infatuated?
1. Are you willing to sacrifice for this guy without expecting anything in return?
2. Are you willing to accept him as a whole... even his not so likeable traits?
3. Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with him?
4. Are you willing to help this guy be a better man, praise his good traits and improve on his bad ones?
5. Do you think you can be loyal to him?Be a one man woman?
If your answer is YES to all 5 questions ... then I guess you really are in love... GOOD for you...
Going back to your question if it is too early? HECK NO! When you love someone, there is no wrong time nor wrong place, there is just you and the person you love...
2006-12-29 19:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lil miz playa....what youre experiencing, this really odd feeling, it might actually be interest in the guy and not just in his physical body. Please do yourself a favor and dont even say that word LOVE until your small mind can even grasp the concept of the word LIKE. If you have a bible read 1 Corinthians Chapter 13 it is a full chapter, not longer than a poem, about what LOVE is. I assure you will be able to understand it. Grow in Life and Learn Love.
2006-12-29 19:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ask a Health Nut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you do not want to get the reputation of being a "playa". 7th graders are too young to be in love, or be dating anyone. If you keep this type of behavior up, you will get a reputation, but it will be names much, much worse that you will be branded with. Slow down; slow way, way down.
2006-12-29 19:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by rosey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its too soon to say your in love, and your alittle young to be in love. I remember at that age, i swore i was in love, but it wasnt true love. Dont take offense, because at your age, i would have, but seriously.... all those meaningly 'flings' with guys, and i may have thought i was in love, really were not love. I was even with a man for 5 years and thought i was in love... but nothing compares to how i feel now about my boyfriend. ive been best friends with him for 8 years, and we just started dating 3 months ago. I always loved him, but it wasnt until this december, i realized what love really was, and for this love, i would give up the world.
2006-12-29 19:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Immortal Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
I will say this though.........when I was your age, I was sooooo (or thought I was) in love, with this guy who was 3 years older than me. However.........I hadn't messed with the whole school/neighborhood either. I liked one person and one person only.
Personal question..........you aren't doing all of these little boys are you???? If so, you aren't to old to get a whoopin' you know.
Slow it down Little Miss. You will be pregnant before you get to high school.
2006-12-29 19:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have replied your question. The way you are going it is basically crushes and nothing else. Try concentrate on your studies. LOVE is a very big and powerful word which requires lots of understanding, sacrifices and compromises.
2006-12-29 19:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is different from liking. It is but natural that every body is attracted towards opposite sex. It is nothing but the body chemistry. unless you are matured mentally and financially stable, loving opposite sex is not advisable. Unconditional love towards others will give us happyness but physical cantacts distruct not only your career but also the society. Every one of us is bound to hounar the society because we are from the society and we have to spare the morality as our heritage to the comming generations.
So, I feel it is too early to be in lovein 7 th grade.
Thank you
2006-12-29 19:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by RAMA MURTHY P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love in the 7th grade means you have feelings like you want to play a video game together, right?
2006-12-29 19:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be puppy love but if feels real too the puppy...
yea.. well.. at this age it is normal to pitch the men like fish.. no reason too get serious at that age, have fun.
2006-12-29 19:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋