Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

so i got married about 4 weeks ago to a man i absolutly adore. he has 2 15 year olds. 1 his blood and 1 was his sisters that he took custody of. they are both great kids if it wasnt for his adoptive daughter who has the i dont give a **** attitude. she is into drugs drinking, smoking pot, and smoking cigerets. on top of it she sneaks out all the time. i think the 2 worst parts about it is she has skipped so much school she has been court ordered to go. and is having sex. to top it all off we checked her myspace account to loan be hold our house #,cell #'s and home address also the school she goes to. i have tried to give him ideas on what to do with her. from grounding to rehab you name it i have thought of it. i even installed a monitoring system on the computer to watch her every move. but he never fully follows throu with punishment with her. it has gotten so bad its driving us a part needless to say hes 34 and im 21 so only 6 yrs older than the kids. so i have no athority

2006-12-29 20:04:00 · 12 answers · asked by littlebabydoll099 2 in Family

if you have what made you do it? and would you ever consider leaving your home for your mistress??

2006-12-29 20:02:14 · 20 answers · asked by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for about 6 years. About 3 years ago, I discovered my husband's drug addiction. His addiction to drug got really bad after that, so me and my husband side of family talked and decided it best for my husban to move to his parent home, so he can remove himself from the bad environment and friends. He went to rehab and come back to live with me 4 months later.....He was doing very good (drug free and working hard) until November of this year. But I started to see weired behavior from him again, and find out he went back to his old habit. Drug is evil!! I really do care about him and I want to help him, but I really don't want to go through same thing I went through few years ago.

2006-12-29 20:00:59 · 10 answers · asked by smile 78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do some poeple think that Physical attraction is so important when you are looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, but then again some people are picky about who they would like to date or some people really don't care about the persons looks and its all about thier personality and the interests that they share with that person that they would wanna date, but what do you think?

2006-12-29 20:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

i live in the state of texas and as most americans dont have a whole lot of money i need a divorce is it true that the state will help with this like giving out medicade ?? if so wherte do i go to find out more about this and yes i have 2 children and he most likely will contest it hes that kind .

2006-12-29 19:59:33 · 2 answers · asked by aengel69 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 19:59:25 · 17 answers · asked by kady 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out w/ my bf for half a year. I've met his whole family including aunts and uncles. I'm muslim so my parents would like me to be intrested in muslim guys . They both know im seeing someone whos not muslime.My mom doesnt like the fact that i have a boyfriend and would like me to break up with him cause ive been slacking from school.But my bf wants to meet my parents and i want them to meet but im embarresed of them i think my mom would come off mean or rude and his family is so nice i dont know what to do?

2006-12-29 19:57:07 · 12 answers · asked by kellyklark101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am trying to find my best friend last summer i forgot to ask her for her address her name is Angllica Cooper please help me find her.

2006-12-29 19:55:30 · 3 answers · asked by josiedraw 1 in Friends

I'm tired of liking this guy that ignores me. Sometimes he talks to me & flirts but thats only when he feels like it. I'm tired of waiting around for him and only talking to him whenever he feels like it. People at school say it's just because he's shy because he knows that I like him. But I don't really care anymore. I'm just hurting myself by liking him. I really want to stop liking him and I've been thinking about all the negative things about him and it's kinda helping and I've been listening to all these mushy love songs and it's kinda making me dislike him a little more. But then he has to go & do something cute and I fall in love again. I need help!

2006-12-29 19:54:54 · 5 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:53:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i really like this guy who is in a couple of my classes. im a freshman, and hes a junior. (varsitywrestler<3) and he heard that i was going to ask him to winter formal because ours is a sadie hawkins/winter formal kinda dance... any way... so ever since he heard that he has been giving me alot of hugs and stuff and he has been talking to me more... i really like him because he has so much respect for me, and the nicest bod. should i ask him? if so then how?

2006-12-29 19:52:23 · 2 answers · asked by tootsyrolly 1 in Singles & Dating

I’m attracted to the boss of the small plastics company I work for. He’s in his mid 30s and not married. I’m 25, moderately attractive and don’t have much experience. I’m not great at reading signs so I could use some help. I really like him but not sure what his feelings are for me. I don’t want to come on too strong in case he doesn’t feel the same. Whenever I go up to him to ask a question he gets flustered and uncomfortable, but is very friendly with other females in the office. He likes to joke around with them during lunch and coffee breaks, but never talks to me and even avoids looking at me during those times. Sometimes I come away feeling very ignored and think he doesn’t like me at all. I’ve noticed that when he needs to come over to my desk to talk to me about something, he always takes his glasses off when we talk, but never does that with the others. I’m not sure what that means. If I smile at him he gives me a sort of half smile back, not a really friendly one.

2006-12-29 19:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by karwalk2 1 in Singles & Dating

This person has told me that he likes me alot and has picked me up from places and we talk on the phone for hours every night...Hes a sweet heart and he always brings me stuff i need in the middle of the night no matter how late it is...Please help me i need some help..As i said he has told me he likes me alot and he means alot and that is all he has said..

2006-12-29 19:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:51:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 19:49:15 · 2 answers · asked by trompy65 1 in Family

I've been dating the same girl for around 9 months now. The first 6 months were awesome - we just completely enjoyed being with each other and got along great. Over the past few months though, she's gotten extremely clingy and wont hardly let me go 3 or 4 hours without having to have a 30 minute conversation and demands that we spend a few hours together every day. She has no hobbies though... none. She used to party and drink some with me but won't even do that anymore, preferring to sit around and cuddle. Anytime I want to do something fun without her, she gets her feelings hurt, but anytime I would ask her to join me - ya know...she may like it or something... - she gets real defensive. She's BORING. So this weekend I went on a roadtrip with some guy friends and met this incredible girl. She had a bit of a wildside but was sweet and had alot more in common with me. I don't feel like I could date her, but I had an awesome time with her. Now I feel lost and don't really know what to .

2006-12-29 19:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by masse_master1987 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:48:08 · 13 answers · asked by kady 1 in Singles & Dating

How the hell did you get chosen for so many best answers when you answer them with only one word? Do you vote yourself in or something? I find absolutely NOTHING superior about you, in fact, just the opposite. Twit.

2006-12-29 19:47:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Iam of 21 year old. My life cycle is office to home & home to office so i dont have many friends,iam very bored in colour less life, what is the solution

2006-12-29 19:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by shasha vali s 1 in Friends

2006-12-29 19:46:29 · 19 answers · asked by tootsyrolly 1 in Singles & Dating

When I tell her to do something she gives give me that I am a stupid **** look. I should not have to micromanage every moment of her life. She is a mature woman who knows what I expect of her. There is no excuse for her to behave this way. How do I get her to realize that she will never be the lead dog so her scenery will never change?

2006-12-29 19:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was watching a program once and this guy said,"As a man it's your responsibilty to carry the world on your shoulders".He also said real men dont cry and if you do succum to crying you should go to a room by yourself lock the door behind you.make sure no one is there to listen to if you do cry...to me that doesn't make sence....

2006-12-29 19:44:24 · 24 answers · asked by ??? 1 in Friends

my current girlfriend is serving time.i look after our child and she calls every once a week or not at all sometimes. our child calls my sister mum and its sad when she loks around thinking which one could be her mum.ive waited for a year and abit for our child to met its mother and we could all be together again but she has still got time left in prison and i really want to stay with her for our child and dont get me wrong i do love him

2006-12-29 19:43:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im in 7th grade and well i sort of want to know what love feels like! my sister is 26 and she is married to a guy that she started dating in 6th grade! i want a realationaship like that! but how do i know wat love is....i have a boyfriend but i dont wan to say i love him until i know what it actully is...ADVICE?!?

2006-12-29 19:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by WOAHbabay its krissy! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:42:28 · 19 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 19:41:50 · 23 answers · asked by test u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there free dating sites or any good techniques?

2006-12-29 19:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Ryan H 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I've had a crush on this guy for a long time but I don't think anything will ever happen between us and even though it makes me sad, I'm gonna let him go because I'm tired of getting sad all the time because he ignores me. It's just not worth it. So what are some good songs to get him off my mind?

2006-12-29 19:40:10 · 9 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

hey im seeking people who love to meet people all over the world and who like to chat and also to idle in an empty chatroom.... if u know where i can find people like that simply contact me on YM! ... thx so much

2006-12-29 19:39:50 · 3 answers · asked by explosivegrey 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this cousin,he is 2 years old,and he has been having nightmares about me.And it was from a an incident that happend between me and boyfriend's brother.He tried to put his hands on me,and that set my boyfriend off.And when I ran upstairs to go up to my room,he knocked down my door and he tried to do all this nasty crap to me,and I thought my cuz was still sleeping,and he woke up I guess,and he saw everything,and now he won't stop having nightmares about.And I feel like it is my fault for having all this happening,what should I do? Will this scar him for life?

2006-12-29 19:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family