I've been dating the same girl for around 9 months now. The first 6 months were awesome - we just completely enjoyed being with each other and got along great. Over the past few months though, she's gotten extremely clingy and wont hardly let me go 3 or 4 hours without having to have a 30 minute conversation and demands that we spend a few hours together every day. She has no hobbies though... none. She used to party and drink some with me but won't even do that anymore, preferring to sit around and cuddle. Anytime I want to do something fun without her, she gets her feelings hurt, but anytime I would ask her to join me - ya know...she may like it or something... - she gets real defensive. She's BORING. So this weekend I went on a roadtrip with some guy friends and met this incredible girl. She had a bit of a wildside but was sweet and had alot more in common with me. I don't feel like I could date her, but I had an awesome time with her. Now I feel lost and don't really know what to .
2006-12-29 19:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by masse_master1987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love the girl a lot but she's stubborn and seems unappreciative of my attempts to try and do fun things with her and broaden her outlook and it irritates me. After seeing how much fun it was to be free and not have her around dragging me down, I feel burdened by her. How should I approach this?
2006-12-29 19:50:34 · update #1
sit down with ur gf and talk to her... tell her that u love her but u want to be able to do fun things with her... then think of sumthings that u can do together and take her to do them and tell her that if she doesnt want to do them with u then that is fine but u are still going to do them... Good luck =)
2006-12-29 19:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur gf now is keeping u from having fun, then dump her if she doesnt like doing the same things as u anymore, and maybe its cuz she doesnt have as much feelings for u as b4 or shes cheating on u and having all the fun with sum other man sorry 2 let u hear that... the other girl u met seems a lot better and u should try things with sum1 like her. MOVE ON!! i know u luv her but sumtimes u just have 2 let go :(
2006-12-29 19:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by cassaaaay !(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do and I'm going to be blunt. You can't have everything dump the girlfriend if your bored why stay like that. If you don't got the balls to do that tell her straight out to loosen up. If your honest and comminicate with her and she doesn't change dump her. And don't cheat on her without breaking up first. If you think breaking up with her would hurt her, Think how much more it would hurt her if she found out you cheated. Personally I go with a girl until one of us gets pissy or to clingy then I'm gone.
2006-12-29 19:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking your Girlfriends Heart is a Option.
You rather have a Wild Sl(_)t, than a Sweet Loving Caring Girl.
2006-12-29 19:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely there are all styles of matters which you will communicate approximately that for the time of basic terms you comprehend approximately. considering the fact which you ought to comprehend what she likes to speak approximately. ask her questions approximately her. be flirty yet no longer creepy. say stuff such as you regarded relatively especially on the instant or somthing. yet its no longer all you, its takes 2 to have a convo so in step with threat she is frightened she is uninteresting you to dying. sometime merely enable her do extremely some the speaking you dont must be the only to hold the convo at the same time. be useful
2016-11-25 00:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same f***in thing.... i have a wierd plan... i was thinking that i would just dragger her into doing all the things that i do, and if she really doesn't like it, she will realize were not right 4 eachother...
i know this sounds evil, but ima f***in pu$$y and i don't have the heart to just straight up dump her... plus its not like i don't like her or anything... but if she descides to end it i will gladly agree and say its 4 the best....
just help her see you might not be right 4 each other!
2006-12-29 19:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not married to her. Try to find something fun or do something silly. Maybe your girlfriend just needs to be sparked up a bit. If that doesn't help- you COULD separate. Find someone more active and fun!
2006-12-29 19:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get some of her own friends ,and be less possessive of you .If you cant get this into her head how hard this is on you and how it is ruining your relationship, if she doesn't understand how it is dragging you down, but out,and find someone new who is less clinging. Good Luck, and Happy New Year
2006-12-29 20:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with your gf's friends and behind her back get her friends to sugest a hobbie to her as she probably is less stubborn to her friends
2006-12-29 19:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better break up with her and tell her that you dont have anything in common with her, don't wait too long when she really starts to like you even more but you dont. try to tell her that you dont really like the same things as her and tell her about some of our interests and maybe she'll like them.
2006-12-29 19:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ladie Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋