Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

A few weeks ago, I asked if I should give up on finding my missing best friend. I explained the back story and everything and I got responses that told me to keep looking. After four years, I found him! Yay! Now what? I mean, just because I was looking for him and loving him and wanting to be with him doesn't mean that he is available to return the love. Yes, he was my best friend and to thins day is one of the most lovely and friendly people that I have ever met. Yes, he did like me and I liked him when last we were in contact. I just don't know what to do. All of this hope has been building and dreams have been dreamt and plans have been imagined, but they were MY plans and I didn't take into consideration that after this much time has passed, he may very well be married and have a family. I'm so so so unexplainably happy that I have found my guy, but should I tell him how I feel and risk being crushed by whatever is going on in his life? Help. I'm scared.

2006-12-29 21:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by T!ff 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the funniest pick up lines you know or heard before?

2006-12-29 21:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I would be a great girlfriend, but I think I might have something wrong with me. I'm not ugly and guys ask me out but its never the guys I want to go out with and then when I did find a guy I liked that liked me back it didn't work becuase he thought I wasn't aggressive enough. Is that really even a good reason to break-up with someone? What should I do should I just try not to think about boys(I'm 17 its kinda hard)? Because I am having difficulties finding a guy that is good for me. Please don't say that i shouldn't even worry about having a boyfriend because I used to not care about having one then I had a real boyfriend and now I can't stop thinking about having one.

2006-12-29 21:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Singles & Dating

my buddy is asian. I have known him for 18 years. He told me he had a thing for white chcks since he was young. His current girlfriend is white and weights over 200 pounds. He doesnt like talking about her. He is skinny. He says hes likes girls with more meat. His previous girlfriends white and non white were all of normal weight. . Is he just that desparate for a white chick?

2006-12-29 21:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by David H 1 in Singles & Dating

"Come on, you're joking right?"

What did he mean by that?

2006-12-29 21:32:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many of you flirt on-line.......even if you are in a stable relationship?

2006-12-29 21:32:47 · 23 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

Me this will be her hair,eyes conversation and her feet

2006-12-29 21:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by slymkid 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know how I can add a few extra inches to my body height (no I dont mean my tinky winky)?

2006-12-29 21:27:35 · 13 answers · asked by Avey Khali 1 in Singles & Dating

For now we have dicided not to do anything and just let it wear off. But i dont think this is really a solution to the problem. please help!

2006-12-29 21:26:48 · 7 answers · asked by alexandros t 2 in Singles & Dating

I always wonder this, I'm pretty shy so I don't flirt with guys even if I am attracted to thim. I usually act like I am not interested. Is this the wrong thing to do?

2006-12-29 21:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by beautylover 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my friend were wondering does talking dirty with someone on the phone and them saying how much they want you and need some lovin and they you both basically watch a dirty movie together is that cheating?

2006-12-29 21:23:41 · 24 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Dreyah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:20:15 · 2 answers · asked by cheeryice2244 2 in Friends

If you are playing strip poker what would you take off first your bra or your panties and why?

2006-12-29 21:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is going to boarding school and I want to make a box of stuff for him to remember me by and for him to look at while hes away .. what should i put in there??

2006-12-29 21:19:33 · 12 answers · asked by AMBZYYYY 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl i've been going out with lately. I only knew she liked me after she saw me at a party with another girl and she got jealous. i've only known her for a short while, but i know she has a close friend (i'm not sure if he's her boyfriend), but i've met him before i went out with her and they didnt touch or anything, though she's known him longer than me. She tells me he buys her stuff and he's nice. But when we go out, she lets me rest my head on her shoulder, put my arm around / over her, play with her hair and she gives me hugs (i'm really close to kissing her). She's pretty open and tells me some intimate stuff about herself and we can both joke about sexual stuff.

She was sick recently and she didnt want me to see her sick but i know the other guy visited once because she said he gave her a christmas present. So i'm not really sure where i stand in all this. What do you think?

2006-12-29 21:17:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we can never take a real way coz it drag us down no hope.no happy no every thing exept fist love.

2006-12-29 21:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by dish 1 in Friends

thanks give me ur feedback

2006-12-29 21:16:01 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

Well...I've Been With This Man For About 10 Months Now And He Has A History With His Past Relationship. So What Happened In His Past Is Affecting Our Relationship Even though I Didn't Have Anything To Do With It...But This Man Says He Can't Trust Another Female Again Or Just Anybody Or It's Gunna Take A Long Time For Him To Trust Again. It Bothers Me That He's Always Jumping To Conclusions And Getting Mad. We Have Been Through So Much Together It's Not Even Funny. He Was There When He Didn't Have To Be. He Told His Parents He Loves Me And He Promised Me We're Gunna Get Married And He Wants to Have Kids With Me And Everything. He Practically Engaged Me. I Don't Know If It's To Make Other Men Stay Away... And He Doesn't Like To See Other Men Around Me Cause He Thinks I Get Too Much Attention. He Gets Attention Too But I Don't Care Cause I Believe In Us. We Each Swore on The Bible That We Wouldn't Cheat On Each Other. But He's So Paranoid. I Wanna Leave Him And Forget...But I'm In Love.

2006-12-29 21:15:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Although I knew it was stupid, I went away for Christmas and slept around. I came back and he saw the love bites on my next and breasts and has just left. All his details and stuff are gone. No trace..I know I am a worthless Slapper. Why did I do it, what can I do... why have I ruined my life for the thrill of a quick shag? Why am I such a tart?

2006-12-29 21:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina a 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like a man but told him I wasn’t ready to date and didn’t want a rebound relationship. He doesn’t call me but when I call him to talk about work issues before we end the conversation, he always asks me how I am, about my family, Christmas etc… He also talks about his life, family etc….

Is he just being polite and friendly? Since he doesn’t initiate calls does it mean he has lost interest in me?

2006-12-29 21:14:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:13:06 · 12 answers · asked by it_consultant_ny 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been wondering about this for awhile and just want to hear from you all: What would be the youngest a 35 yr old man should date or even marry? Is 24 too young? 20? And I don't mean a fling, I mean something that leads to marriage. If that's okay, what would her parents think?? Anything suggestions or experiences with this?? Thanks. =)

2006-12-29 21:11:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sir Graham 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in the process of internet dating. I have met 5 guys this year, all of which are hung up on their ex's or married/in relationships. I have really tried to be careful, ie e-mailing for a couple of weeks first etc. I know you are all going to scream 'what do you expect' but I am in my 30's and don't meet men at work or through friends. I have been single for two years.

When I am out all those I meet are married and looking for one thing! I have tried the evening classes, just 'getting out there'. Any ideas? I have been told I am fun, attractive etc and I am not 'desperate' just would like to meet a nice guy at some point......

2006-12-29 21:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Singles & Dating

like tightie whities

2006-12-29 21:11:14 · 16 answers · asked by dodgehemi6901 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-29 21:10:10 · 5 answers · asked by dish 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:09:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2006-12-29 21:09:09 · 2 answers · asked by Rose b 1 in Singles & Dating

i told her i love another female. but i realised it wasn't love, just friendship...but she doesn't want to listen to me

2006-12-29 21:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by mohit b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:08:15 · 22 answers · asked by pallavi n 1 in Friends