I think I would be a great girlfriend, but I think I might have something wrong with me. I'm not ugly and guys ask me out but its never the guys I want to go out with and then when I did find a guy I liked that liked me back it didn't work becuase he thought I wasn't aggressive enough. Is that really even a good reason to break-up with someone? What should I do should I just try not to think about boys(I'm 17 its kinda hard)? Because I am having difficulties finding a guy that is good for me. Please don't say that i shouldn't even worry about having a boyfriend because I used to not care about having one then I had a real boyfriend and now I can't stop thinking about having one.
2006-12-29 21:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, nothing is wrong with you!!!!! do not even get paranoid and be self conscious about yourself because guys will look for any reason to break up with you, they do some stupid sh@#! you should not have to be 'aggressive,' it's not ladylike and it is written in stone somewhere that a guy is always to make the first move. don't even worry about it anyway! a guy could be using you for sex, instead of saying this bs. just be yourself, a good guy, that REALLY likes you will come along.
2006-12-29 22:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you, You just need to find out who you are before you start letting others in. Thats a good thing to do. Maybe you've set your standards to high, however I'm not sure what type of standards high school boys should have, honestly.
And yes, get a pet or find a hobby.
2006-12-30 07:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time comes you will meet someone that you like that also likes you back. Just wait around and see what happens!
2006-12-30 05:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea. I know it's kinda hard but u should not think about boys.
2006-12-30 05:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Roja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adopt a puppy, they are more loyal...
2006-12-30 06:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋