Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

ladies and gentlemen were ending 2006 with a bang what are you plans going to be???

2006-12-29 20:26:41 · 6 answers · asked by ??? 1 in Friends

Please don't look at this as a stupid question.

I'm 22, and wonder what people expect of me, with regards to looks, career, relationships, mindset and everything else.

2006-12-29 20:23:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this girl, and ive known her for about a year and a half. not until the last couple months had i ever had feelings for her. We go to different schools and only see eachother during the summer ans some holidays... when were together all we can do is laugh our heads off... everyone says that were " so cute" lol... and that i should just ask her out.... but i've alreadt made an enemy , yes enemy out of a friendship i tried to take a little further then what it was. I think this is a different circumstance though, because we go to diffrerent schools, but im still cinfused on how to see if she would even be intrested in becoming more, or just being friends....

2006-12-29 20:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by BJAMIN 1 in Friends

is it fair that adoptions be forever sealed or should the adoptee be able to access those records when the chils turns 18... should the adoptive family be able to access the files when the child turns 18?
I personally feel that the records should be avaiable to the child when the child turns 18 so that if the child wants to find his birth family he can.... a birth parent can choose to give away a child then the child should have the right to find them later... and no the birth parents/family should not have the right to find the child at 18 or later because they already gave the child away once.... I am just lookin for peoples opinions on this

2006-12-29 20:22:43 · 4 answers · asked by jingles 3 in Family

I was not so good in S*x before,but I went o a consoller and he thought me some techniques and now I am quite fine with it.does it really help in our relationship?I mean does it make us closer to eachother?what do you married man really think about it?what is the most important part of your relationship with your wife?

2006-12-29 20:22:34 · 13 answers · asked by Maryamp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 20:22:17 · 16 answers · asked by OC 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f and I got into a fight last night. He was accusing me of cheating so he grabbed my cell and said, "Oh you're not cheating? Then what the (censor) is THIS?" and he showed me a text from a guy. I told him it was none of his business and tried to grab my cell from him. He instead pushed me to the ground and called me a ***** for cheating. I started crying and got up and poked him in the eyes, the grabbed his shoulders and kneed him square in the balls. He fell down and then I kicked him like four times and then I grabbed his balls with my hand and twisted them for like two minutes. He was literally screaming in pain, pleading me to stop, saying sorry. I sad "oh but you weren't sorry when you were calling me names huh?" so then I picked up my foot and stomped on his balls as HARD as I could. He was soo pale and on the ground in pain...I started laughing and walked out.

2006-12-29 20:21:27 · 12 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend.And the reason he broke up with me is because he said he didnt want to date a brunette,that was 5'5,and weighed 125 pounds! Then he started sayin I was fat,and ugly,and a whore.Is he right about all this? I am 13.

2006-12-29 20:18:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is in a 4 yr. relationship with his girlfriend, i recently found out that she has been talking to other guys. I talked to him about it and he said that he would confront her about it, but i visited the other day and i realized that **** didnt change shes still bossing him around and still lives at his house! I know i shouldnt really try to get involved but i really dont want to see him get hurt. I tried to convince him that he could get other girls but he keeps finding excuses to go back to her! I just think that she is such a bad influence on his life and that she is holding him down, she didnt let him register for classes at the local community college. And now shes gets mad when we call him on the phone. Can somebody please give me advice on how to convince my friend that he can do so much better??

2006-12-29 20:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by bigant_1904 1 in Friends

She just got dumped and wanted me to make her pregant so that she can lie to her bf she's having his baby, and her bf will come back to her.

What should I do?

2006-12-29 20:17:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and i have been apart since Septmber. He called me in Decmber. He wants me to go back to him. But i checked his email the other day. ( Because he asked me to). He has been to dating sites, Should I worry about this??
I kicked him out, in Semtmber. Because he was cheating on me. Abuse was an hot issue to. The Cops where called more than a few dozen times.We went to court. The judge told him, to leave me alone. Was i wrong for taken his calls??

2006-12-29 20:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetblue85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys ask "me too what?" when u say me too instead of saying "i miss u too".

2006-12-29 20:16:15 · 18 answers · asked by missy 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend says I'm not boring to her, but I can't help but feel that I'm boring her sometimes in our relationship. The reason I feel this is becuase I bore myself sometimes. I think she only says that becuase I am a sensitive guy and she is afraid of hurting my feelings. What are some ways to make myself not so boring and to spice up my relationship with this wonderful girl that I have and don't want to lose. NO!!!! sexual ideas please!!!!!!

2006-12-29 20:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by Garin M 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I knew her for about 2 years and I talk to her at school, and she talks to me. We're not really too close, but we always talk and stuff. The thing is, I'm not sure if she only likes me as a friend. Well, what do you think the best way to ask her out would be? Like a safe way so if she rejects me I won't feel bad, and won't hate her, and we will still be friends. Should I like order her flowers? Or write her a letter? Or just straight up ask her? Or something else?

2006-12-29 20:15:23 · 1 answers · asked by Alucard 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well it`s been a year since a this big mess happened with a guy i fell in love with and all this crap happened i don`t feel like remebering cause for some reason i always cry while remembering it.. anyways i fell in love with "him" orginally i met him cause he lived down the street and me and my sis would go down and hang out with 2 other girls and him and he flirted with me and stuff for months but then he started being really mean to me and giving me these cold glares even though i did nothing to him he stopped talking to me when i went down too!! the one i loved the most, hated me. It broke my heart shattered it into dust. after i stopped going down to hang out, my sis kept going until something happened bettween him and my sis (i think he tried to kiss her) but she would`nt say anything and now she says she hates him.but i can`t forget him his smell,his hair,his stupid jokes,and most of all his smooth, soft, gentle voice..i miss him but i don`t want too i want to hate him

2006-12-29 20:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

hi, i m dentistry student in india..one girl came in to my life 6 months back.my junior..we both spent a verry good time as bf and gf...and we both are damm serious about each other..now the situation changed..she hev to be there in US for a greencard procedure as her parents are also there..she hev to study ther..it means she is not gonna come back..she still wanna continue..i cant leave her..but there is nothing decided wen to talk or meet on net..do you think its gonna work???she will not change there becoz of US??i m not able to do anything here...Please help me..should i continue???distance relationship works???

2006-12-29 20:15:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems I meet these nice guys, (of whom I really don't have a romantic interest in) and they think I want them. I'm not one of those girls that says 'NO!' and reject someone to their face. I like to be nice to everyone, but it seems that its just causing me more problems in the end.
I tend to attract the CLINGIEST guys ever who don't seem to catch any hint or major sign!!!! (like talking about other guys...)
Please help.....! And no, turning lesbian is not an option I'm afraid.

2006-12-29 20:15:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 20:14:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it when there's
Lack of communication;
Separate bedrooms;
or Wait for Infidelity?
When should you just give up and get on with life?

2006-12-29 20:14:02 · 13 answers · asked by LisaFlorida 4 in Marriage & Divorce

1. he throw cherrys at me
and one of my best friends like him too is that odd
but he doesn't talk to me once he hide from me in someones garage
he also knows i like him alot

2006-12-29 20:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by kady 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is weezer !

2006-12-29 20:13:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to show your ex-friends that are f***ing b*****s, that you dont even give a f**k if ur friends or not. like u really dont need them...

2006-12-29 20:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont get why i always read girls saying a guy has to be "confident
" and ask them out, but a girl doesn't?

Do you want equality or not?

Or do you want to be MORE equal.

2006-12-29 20:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy, the last time i saw him was like a year ago and i've changed[looks wise-for the better] alot since, and so his sis invites me to their place to have lunch ,cuz we're sch mates.Anyways, during lunch, i catch him staring at me like,say,80% of the time and when i looked at him he like quickly turned away[but not quick enough!]
i kinda have this crush on him and is he looking at me cuz i've changed or does he like me[i hope] or what??
or please dont tell me i have a booger in my nose[yes i actually went to the bathroom to check]
so im really not sure,the only thing he said about me was that i'm"tiny"[ im 5"1]whcih doesn't sound like a good sign to me
help!

2006-12-29 20:09:18 · 15 answers · asked by krystal_engel 3 in Singles & Dating

most of my guy friends are (3-6yrs) older than me because i see them as big bros, which i never have. i get along all of them pretty well... there's this particular friend whom i would joke most of the time and we'd say that "we'll wait for one another to finish college." about a week ago, we hung out in the mall and we ended up in the babies department and started looking over baby stuffs and talking about what ifs in having kids... i always kid him about settling down because he's not getting younger at all and he would kid w/ me and say that he will someday with this knowing look.
should i be aware of this? it's my first time to actually experience this...

2006-12-29 20:08:35 · 2 answers · asked by DruNkStripPeR 3 in Singles & Dating

So I am a senior in high school in the midst of applying to colleges and looking at my future. Before winter break, I knew that I would leave this island for college and live through a new experience. However, this break has made me doubt my decision, since I've been falling ever so deeply in love with my boyfriend of 1 year. He wants me to go to the state college, a decent school but somewhat looked down upon by those at my private school. The majority of people from my school leave for the mainland and quite frankly, that seems to lead to more successful careers in the long run. I also do not want my parents' effort for my education to go to waste, so I am tempted to leave. At the same time, it's becoming harder for me to imagine life without my boyfriend, someone I want to marry later on. What should I do?

2006-12-29 20:08:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im feeling old at 33

2006-12-29 20:07:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys, if a college female doesn't like to drink but still likes to have a good time is that a turn off? What about if she is saving herself for marriage?? Would you view her as a prude or would you respect her decision?

I am just curious, because it seems like most guys like the wild party type...

2006-12-29 20:06:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 20:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by sneha_pednekar2006 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She was working at the same office with me but different department. I been noticing her since 2 mths ago... Recently during Christmas i give her a card and chocolate... and manage to
communicate throught office email...

Is my hint obivous enough? How should i carry on from here?

2006-12-29 20:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by ConfusedLost 1 in Singles & Dating