Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

2006-12-29 22:11:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A person I've become romantically involved with is having doubts about our future together. We stay up long hours into the morning talking to each other almost every day. We haven't officially said we're exclusive, but that's pretty much how we both are. There are a few things that have made things more difficult for us, and we're trying to work through them.

There are a lot of firsts she won't get to have with me. First real kiss, first lover, first child (I have 2), etc. Those are important to her. She feels she hasn't experienced enough life to be what she is supposed to be for me. She is going to school and has a wonderful future ahead of her. I don't feel like our relationship has to be a hinderage to that, but she isn't so sure.

I care deeply for this young woman, and we don't know what to do. We're happy together, but sometimes she feels our differences are too much to get through. We would like some honest guidance.

2006-12-29 22:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by lyf4ce 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 22:09:16 · 23 answers · asked by sinead 2 in Singles & Dating

Now I think I have met my match.. in a really good 1 - 2 hour phone conversation with a new girl. Something she said bothered me. But that is just an opportunity to learn more.

We both are romantic and when we were discussing that she pondered how I "could be" romantic if I have been through a divorce.

Does that make sense? Is there a stigma here now? Do people get second chances? Certainly I deserve a second chance at being romantic and doing a better job?

Truth be told, I eventually failed in the romantic department in the last marriage or it would not have died and work would not have taken over..

But live and learn right?

2006-12-29 22:09:08 · 3 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 22:05:03 · 16 answers · asked by the devil666 2 in Family

i'm tall,slender & mascular body.

And am known as the sexieist hunk by hundreds of people.

2006-12-29 22:04:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then to send out a bunch of letters with your name at the bottom, etc...?? Did you receive any money back from anyone?

2006-12-29 22:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by jakkibluu 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'M CHATTING WITH THIS ONE DUDE AND IT'S GETTING REAL SERIOUS AND YET I'LL CYBER SEXING WITH THIS OTHER PERSON AND THE MORE WE CHAT THE STRONGER THE LUST GETS.

2006-12-29 22:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by writer21ty 1 in Singles & Dating

I can not figure it out. .. He is very nice to me , also trying to see me each time when I am available .. Shortly – everything seems great.

BUT!!!! He asking me (many times),
- what do I expect from this relation …
I give him an honest answer that I am looking for solid relation but for now is too early to tell ( we been together only 2 months.
And..
ones he sad – “ U r so sweet , maybe I am not guy for U…?!.
What is his problem? ??
How I have to react???
Don’t people dating for pleasure ..and then time diced what happens???
I like this man a lot…
please, any ideas how I have to deal with that??

2006-12-29 22:01:14 · 8 answers · asked by awg 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright.

So the guy I like told me this secret about him liking his ex-girlfriend and how much he misses her and all of this stuff. I mean he shared everything and I could tell how upset he was. He asked me not to tell, I promised I wouldnt.


I actually feel like were better friends now. We talked about it for like 30 mins and he didnt hold anything back.
These are signs of trusting me right?

I was sad he still liked her and I pretty much got sick when he told me but now I just want to become really good friends with him.

Thanks for reading.

2006-12-29 22:00:27 · 4 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin asked me to dedicate ten songs to her. But I was able to find only one song till now (the cuppycake song). She is so sweet and i really want to dedicate her some good songs (she asked for ten). The problem is that almost every song which applauds a lady contains love theme. I can't dedicate such a song to her. please suggest some songs and the source from where I can get that (if possible). Thanks.

2006-12-29 21:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by kittoo4202004 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm 22 and very attractive, live in NYC, I seem to find it easier to date/meet women from online as opposed to in person. Mostly because I have like no friends to go to bars, night clubs, or go out anywhere at all with; even if I go to these places myself, I have a hard time starting a conversation or approaching a girl. None of them even approach me even though I'm not ugly at all. Mind you, I'm am open to one night stands as well as relationships, so when I go to look, I am open to both.

But the online route isn't that easy at all, it has its points because u can read a girl's profile and learn a bit about her before u even talk to her. So I've been trying myspace for a few weeks now. My profile & pics are located here: http://www.myspace.com/handsomeitaliano

I have sent about 45 messages so far + a few friend requests, half of those are already read and the other half still unopened. Out of the read half, about 5-7 girls replied and added me as a friend but they didn't follow up after i wrote back to them, however 2 out of those 5-7 girls I have remained in touch with and am now chatting on AOL AIM. I usually try to write something appropriate, more generalized, and maybe a bit direct and contemporary at the same time, something like this:

"Subject: Hi (INSERT GIRL'S NAME HERE)

Message:
What's up?

I'm Stephen. I really dig your profile and your pics, you're very beautiful ;) I'd love to talk to you, get together perhaps, and see where things lead. My pic is in my profile. I'm 5'8, italian, pretty green eyes, very cute, great smile, clean cut, into acting/screenwriting.

Get back at me ;)"


I know this is silly logic because if you're good looking and you approach a girl in a non-offensive manner, you should be successful right? Well I know I'm not being offensive or stupid, so what am I saying that is causing me to get less replies? Or is it not me but them?

I do know that the two girls I'm talking to from there right now loved what I wrote, one of them even said that she immediately liked me after she read it.

Please I'd really appreciate some serious replies, I know a lot of people like to joke around here a lot and you guys are funny at times, but I'm just looking for some insightful advice right now. Thanks.

2006-12-29 21:59:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:59:05 · 1 answers · asked by Afra 2 in Friends

me and my best friend ever had this fight about everytime he interdoucess me to a girl i hit on them and **** and now he wont tlak to me i told him he is my best friend and no girl will get in my way of that and he still wont talk to me what should i do plz somene help

2006-12-29 21:57:13 · 5 answers · asked by soccerteen4000 1 in Friends

Best answers to ridiculous Q...could do with a laugh!!

2006-12-29 21:56:22 · 23 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

An person I know uses this approach. Everytime we go out, he will approach a girl, introduce himself ask for her name and within 3 minutes of the conversation invariablely end with "so you want to come back to my place or go to yours?" If the girl says no or slaps him. He immediately moves on to the next girl and repeats until he gets a winner. He will approach every girl at the bar/club that appears not be with a guy.

I have seen him apply this method many times. And it seems like it works maybe 1 out 20 or 1 out of 15 times or something like that. He has got balls and he is my hero but I just cant do that.

What about you guys? do you do it? got any friends? Best method? GIrls what do u think?

2006-12-29 21:55:58 · 11 answers · asked by David H 1 in Singles & Dating

I think i would be a good girl friend
my friends have told me that I'm really sweet and funny and i make friends well
i look okay, i'm curvy not fat
smart can bake anything. i'm that really sweet girl that can be crazy in many ways.
well any way my friend asked me why don't i have have a boy friend and to tell you the truth i don't know why. just no one has ever asked me out.
i'm sure i not the best person out there i can be a little wierd and i'm not realy shy,but for the most part i think i'm cute.
what do you think about this should i care?


oh and i posted this question and it was removed why do you think?

2006-12-29 21:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:54:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Samantha James philosphyy?

I hate those people who will just vote to remove thiis based on their ugly *** ****! Samantha is a ver real person who loves me and wants to be with me whether I know it or not.!!!!

2006-12-29 21:54:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-29 21:54:21 · 7 answers · asked by fanta 5 in Singles & Dating

I have always been the type that loves to get all dressed up for men. I love makeup and heels and nice clothes and shiny hair. Recently, a friend of mine told me that guys think that that's fake and unattractive. Do guys prefer girls who do not bother to look pretty?

2006-12-29 21:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by beautylover 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by toyota_tiger2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by texasrider 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:49:11 · 11 answers · asked by fanta 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 21:45:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a 22 year old Indian and Ive decided to date English women only as the Indian girls Ive come across are way to childish, restricting and have no common sense.
But Im a little shy and I certainly dont want to be rude and offensive in my new belief.

Can a mixed race relationship work?

Any comments and suggestions welcome from anyone.

2006-12-29 21:45:13 · 38 answers · asked by Avey Khali 1 in Singles & Dating

Iam starting to think about my ex alot laely.I dont know what to do,but,looking back,he wasnt a bad boyfriend at all.I don't know why we broke up,but I am sure it was over something stupid.I am 13,and he is 14.What am I going to do? Thanks for the answers!

2006-12-29 21:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why to work if u have your husbend & kids to take care of
who is more important her house & kids or the work !?

2006-12-29 21:44:08 · 18 answers · asked by MoaazZ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm experiencing some back-and-forth feelings about a man that just wasn't right for me. There were so many signs that we were wrong for one another almost from jump, but I still see him posting on a website we both frequented (not a dating site) and it's now clear that he's involved with a woman on the site. I'm doing my best not to go to the website because I know it's not good for me to see him there. I've never experienced this kind of difficulty "getting over" relationships which were infinitely more healthy than this one. Is there some issue here that is unresolved for me?

2006-12-29 21:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend says she loves me very very much and treats me good and i treat her good..and all that good stuff..

do u think when we leave for college(we r going to the same one) we will stay together or do u think we will break up??

2006-12-29 21:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating