How to be nice to guys without making them think I want them?

Question

It seems I meet these nice guys, (of whom I really don't have a romantic interest in) and they think I want them. I'm not one of those girls that says 'NO!' and reject someone to their face. I like to be nice to everyone, but it seems that its just causing me more problems in the end.
I tend to attract the CLINGIEST guys ever who don't seem to catch any hint or major sign!!!! (like talking about other guys...)
Please help.....! And no, turning lesbian is not an option I'm afraid.

Answer 1

LOL!! Girl you sound JUST like me! I am also very friendly and nice to everyone and then guys (especially the creepy/stalkerish/clingy ones) think that I am attracted to them because I treat them nicely and smile and laugh. I feel really bad turning a guy down as well so I say "yes" to a friendly outing but they see it as a date.

LOL.

It has caused me many problems as well. People keep telling me that I need to be more straightfoward and just tell them "I'm sorry, but I am not interested." Maybe you can do that or maybe to put them down lightly you can tell them that you are indeed seeing someone and hopefully they will get the point. You can telll them that you appreciate their friendship and that you really mean it when you want to be friends, but nothing more. Good luck to you and God bless! :)

Now I need to take my own advice! hehe! :)

Answer 2

I think it just takes time for the guys to know what you are about thats all . I'm an older guy so I gues I look at it differently than a young guy .

Answer 3

you think your being nice... but your not... if you dont believe me, ask a guy. Ask them what they would rather have, a girl that will tell you she doesnt want you, or one that acts like she does but is too nice to tell you... and hell say that he would rather have a girl tell him straight up... no matter how mean it seems. EVERYTIME