hi, i m dentistry student in india..one girl came in to my life 6 months back.my junior..we both spent a verry good time as bf and gf...and we both are damm serious about each other..now the situation changed..she hev to be there in US for a greencard procedure as her parents are also there..she hev to study ther..it means she is not gonna come back..she still wanna continue..i cant leave her..but there is nothing decided wen to talk or meet on net..do you think its gonna work???she will not change there becoz of US??i m not able to do anything here...Please help me..should i continue???distance relationship works???
2006-12-29 20:15:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see... you gotta ask yourself this question first.. are you serious enough bout this whole thing or were u just havin a good time? ofcourse proximity makes you feel that a relationship is d only thing in ur life.... u spend all th time with that 1 special person an u begin to think tht u have struck th right chords.your gf seems pretty sure about it so maybe she's more serious than u are. if u believe tht ur love is true then dont break it up so fast.. They say...a wind blows out flickering lights and accelerates the strong fires! test ur relationship on th alter of time n distance. if u love ur girl n trust her thn distance n a foriegn country too shudn't come in the way of having th strongest relationship.All the best!!
2006-12-29 23:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by sonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship including the long distance relationships work, if you are really true to each other. It's just a phase and an apt test to know how true is your love. Let her go, complete your studies and then you may join her in US for job purposes. At this time, maintain the relationship through net. Learn how to mail and chat and perhaps buy a web camera, so you can interact with each other better. If you two are meant to be together, miles won't count. Just take it as a step to better future together.
2006-12-29 20:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really serious & committed, there should not be any problems as such. She is there for studies/career and as per Indian sensibilities, she must get merried to you and come back to India or else you would go & join her in US. If you are true & decisive about the relationship, long distance for a while shall pose no problems.
But you need to dicuss with her and decide your future course of life together.
I hope you were serious enough when you 'played' bf & gf...
2006-12-29 20:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the bottom line is " NO " its gone end
bro no hard feelings but the thing is guys can live withoput a girl for years but girl can't the need man in there life all the time and so u can figure it out
she will end up cheatin on u and will tell u one day that sorry i feel for some one else
the truth is some time really hard to belive but thats the way it is
cheers bro
2006-12-29 20:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may be v serious but she can find someone else there .or if she is unable 2 make her parents agree 2 u.u r there in stock 4 smne else.guy i think u must make acquaintance with her parents and hint them u`r marriage kind o4 a thing .u see is she worth frgetting the milestone.boy u did not mention the distance ......................................................A LIFETIME .if u can afford 2 study there or go there later .good or else forget it.there are many fishes in the sea and the earth is made up of 71% of water so u can find many by becoming a fisherman instead of a dentist .well i am not going 2 US.gud luk..........................
2006-12-30 00:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by kanika a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly you may awaken her with a captivating song instead of a rrrrrrrarrarrringing alarm clock? Youre concept sounds very effective, yet i assume of her tiredness. If shes incredibly drained it may desire to be somewhat no longer uncomplicated for her once you think approximately which you truly decide on her to: - stroll a unknown direction - and then even have faith approximately errors. Thats truly... perplexing if youre in simple terms awoken? then you definately will could desire to help her becasue possibly she wont evaluate approximately errors on the rush of a button. Thats problematical if youre conscious and arent arranged for it yet while youre wiped out additionally, may well be truly greater complicated :) besides the undeniable fact that all the effective! :)
2016-10-28 17:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance ralationship between married works for they are binded. for just a six months acquintance i dont think it will work. so many guys are going to come across her. who knows she would not be influenced by one of the, or not. If your relationship had very materilistic for her she would have contacted you. i presume this to be just an infatuation and not love. forget her and concentare on your studies.
2006-12-30 00:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they work if your love is true .And according to me in any relationship trust is the main thing which should be.If 'u'both love eachother and want to continue then go ahead.ALL THE BEST .
2006-12-29 21:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Even if it did it is going to take a lot of work and self sacrifice. If u r up for that then go ahead, if not then it is best u move on.
2006-12-29 20:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld leave her to us otherwise u r selfish.and if ur love is true ,distance can do nothing in that.i am sure.go ahead.all the best
2006-12-30 00:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by molu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋