2006-12-29 21:08:15 · 22 answers · asked by pallavi n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are they really optional or u have made them Optional.
Means, none of them is good. Try to persuade your parents. Know the reasons for your parents attitude and try solve whatever problem u find that is getting in your way.
Focus on Eliminating PROBLEMS from your life and not PEOPLE.
Best of Luck Uuuaaaaa
2006-12-30 02:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course Parents!
Its only because of them u r here on this planet. Its only because of their hardwork u r now enjoying ur life with internet facility, money and all the luxuries of life If not luxuries atleast the essential things required for a living.
THey have been loving u for ... ur age plus 1 year i.e. right from the day God made u to be a daughter of ur parents.
And For all love, care and the thngs they did for u... u opting for a loving boyfriend is it justified or is it fair?
I don't think so. I would stringly recommend u to choose ur parents instead of ur boyfriend.
Who knows that boy friend might be ur freind just because u r rich or u r beautiful or some crap of urs..
U can't believe him. U can't trust him and U can't choose a third person or a STRANGER ( to be very precise ) instead of ur parents.
Please don't forget this miss.... U can buy anything anything boyfreind but, u can never BUY PARENTS, nor can u buy PARENTS LOVE.
I hope u take a good decision.
And i'm sorry if i had spoken anything very rudely.
2006-12-29 22:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ajj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents
2006-12-29 21:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family and your parents are the only people you can truly rely on to be there when you need them. I say this from life experience. As you get older you realize that people will come and go in your life but the only people who remain the same are your parents. When bad things happen and all of your friends scatter....your parents will still be there to pick you up and get you back on your feet. A b/f is a wonderful thing, but b/f's come and go....your parents are a constant in your life and will never turn their backs on you.Also, a good guy would never ask you to choose, but would know his place and be kind and respectful to you and your parents.
2006-12-30 01:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear pallavi/ Are u cancerian by birth?Compare the compareables/ Parents hve a much higher place than ur boyfriend/ nothing against him but we all owe everything to our parents/ yes after u r married the things do change still u can not make comparison between the two/ U seem to be kind hearted person/ Dont talk it over to anyone except ur boy friend/ Pl tell me if u r cancerian by birth? BEST OF LUCK FOR NEW YEARS EVE N FOR THE COMMING NEW YEAR. God bless u.n ur bfnd
2006-12-29 23:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a difficult one on one hand your parents have been there for you your whole life they have raised you and given you the best possible life they could a parents love will never fade..
but on the other hand parent cant give you the love a man can parents cant give you children and they cant look after you for the rest of you life as much as they would love too!!
what you need to do is sit down and weigh up the pros and cons of both and although it will be a difficult decision stick with the one you choose and trust your gut feeling
just remember you will never loose you parents they Will allways love you no matter what decision you make!
2006-12-29 21:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by angelbum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have made a definate committment to you. The boyfriend is still a maybe. Without knowing more details it's hard to judge. Which will provide the more stable supportive environment for you? Can you reconcile the parents and the boy friend?
2006-12-29 21:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it your parents do not approve of him? If so, do yourself a favor - never alienate your family or choose a man over your family. I speak from experience. They may see something bad about him that you are not able to see because you love him so much. It may be difficult to choose, but your family will always be there for you, a man won't.
2006-12-29 21:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents only
2006-12-30 01:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i would choose parents because they have been there for you (unless you have parents like mine) and they will always be there for you unless somthing drastic happens and i hope it never will and your boyfriend will understand and if he doesn't then maybe he isn't as loving he should understand that your family should come first
2006-12-30 04:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by kim c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋