I always wonder this, I'm pretty shy so I don't flirt with guys even if I am attracted to thim. I usually act like I am not interested. Is this the wrong thing to do?
2006-12-29 21:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by beautylover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes its wrong
2006-12-29 21:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is cheap and is usually what happens in clubs. I respect women who respect themselves by not flirting with guys to show them that she is interrested and available. If you like a guy, get to talk to him without him knowing that you are interrested. The problem is this: If you flirt with a guy it is obvious that he has a chance with you, whatever the outcome or intension of that chance might be. Now he is thinking to himself, I am not really into her, but maybe I can get to like her, she seems nice enough OR he thinks ok well this will be my fix for the night...either way you dont want to be there. Take it easy, make sure you talk to the guy without making it obvious that you like him. Make him wonder, I am not saying that you should play games and hard to get, but make sure that he is not just doing it because the opurtunity arrised. Meet him for drinks a few times without hugging him when you leave, dont TOUCH him. Make sure for yourself that he is the guy you think he is, and allow him enough time to do the same. The moment you jump at him, there is no difference between you and all other woman in the world, and depending on the type of person you are, might not be interrested in guys who like cheap woman. Keep yourself reserved and exclusive, and have enough respect for yourself not to flirt trying to pick up men
2006-12-30 05:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, girls don't really know you until you show them more of you, then they might have more reason to be into you. You should act like you are at least friendly. It's good to start out as friends even if you already like them for more. They will think you are stuck up, not shy.
2006-12-30 05:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys like when a girl is shy, but it's hard to know when the girl is shy, or she's in not interessed on him......... so you had better be a little bit cheeky with guys, because you give to other girls the chance to try it on with the boy you like.....
so try to be less shy, and you will meet the boy you are looking for, but remember what i told you.......be a little bit cheeky with guy, but keep shy too because they like it a lot..........by a guy
2006-12-30 05:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're playing hard to get?
If that's what you like to do then it's okay.
However, if you want a relationship with someone, stop being so cold and let loose. Otherwise, they too could get tired of being rejected by you and move on.
2006-12-30 05:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, I have because I used to hope she'd eventually change her mind about me. Eventually I realized she thought I was some sort of lunatic, and gave up on trying. That was 14 years ago, and I haven't done it since.
2006-12-30 09:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by ddey65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes it is. If you are attached and then act like you're not interested at all. Lets just say if it were me. I'd just walk away and never pay you any mind whatsoever.
2006-12-30 05:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by linkinparkblacksabbath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt. coz if u be flitarious guys create a bad impression of u in their mind, while since ur reserved they know ur not anyone, that they cant mess around with u. but if u like a guy u shud go ahead n tell him before it gets too late.
2006-12-30 05:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by cacorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i wud cuz i kno there ar many girls out there who are like you, but dont do that we prefer when u girls just act all slutty, but it has to be toards only one guy otherwise you will be labelled a skag
2006-12-30 05:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by pie-jur-wot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not, why would you waste your precious time flirting with a girl who shows absolutely no sign of interest that she likes you. also it is saving you from being humiliated and rejected.
2006-12-30 05:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by cloud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah i would, even if im not in to her i would flirt, just as long as she cool and good looking.
2006-12-30 05:27:15 · answer #11 · answered by koma2191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋