I am in love with my best friend.....I have a boyfriend but I would never give my best friend up for my boyfriend. I actually wouldn't be willing to give anyone else for my best friend. I think he feels the same way but he is much to shy to admit it. We spent the holidays together and it was actually one of the best holidays I've had in a really long time. My boyfriend feels the distance but he doesn't know the real reason for it. But my best friend is my heart and no one could ever take his place. He is the first person that I talk to in the morning and the last person that I talk to when I go to sleep at night. And if I don't hear from him, I automatically know that something is wrong. We know each other so well that we can not talk to each other and know that something is wrong with each other. I am so in love with him but I am so scared to tell him how I feel for fear of rejection...What the heck do i do?
2006-12-29 19:38:14 · 5 answers · asked by deshenae23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how u feel. I have a very close guy friend myself. First let me tell u that u are not being fair to your boyfriend. U need to let him go. Secondly If your feelings for your best friend are that strong that its driving u crazy I think u should talk to him about it. I know its a scary thought and u r scared to ruin the friendship, but sometimes the truth is the only thing that sets u free. I have a feeling that ur best friend thinks very highly of u and may to have the same feelings and fears and too shy to talk to you about it. Friends should be able to tell each other anythings right? I wish u the best. good luck!
2006-12-29 19:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...flashback...been there.
1. Break up with your boyfriend. Just say that you can't be 100% happy with him anymore and that you need to figure some things out.
2. Talk to your best friend. Say: Do you think you and I could ever be more than best friends? and then kind of go from there.
2006-12-30 03:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by hockey_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a reason to get your face kinda close to his. Then, move in and kiss him. If that works, tell your bf that you can't see him anymore.
2006-12-30 03:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are meant to be together things will work out for you. Don't try to rush them, they will happen the way they are suppose to happen.
2006-12-30 03:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something like that.. i think he feels the same way.
He treats you like your his girlfriend. So give it a shot.
2006-12-30 03:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jiz La Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋