Hi, i really need some help, please advise.
I was introed to this girl early this year, and we started messaging each other on msn and mobile phone, but we have not seen each other nor talked over the phone, though she might have seen my friendsters' photo.
we had some hints and things really seem like working out, just need to meet up. recently in november i heard from her that someones going after her, and she's the type who doesnt know how to reject someone, and that guy had an impression she's ok with him. however we still were quite "close" as usual, and she said she'll tell the guy she doesnt like him soon, the guy was busy.
suddenly, since few days before xmas, she stopped contacting me, and i tried calling her for the 1st time on her phone that night, but no answer neither. could she have been too soft-hearted and went out with that guy, feeling confused/guilty decided not to contact me? or what could happened? should i give her another call on new year?
2006-12-29 18:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im from an asian country, and asians here are generally more "softer" than to reject someone. im not being paranoid, but my last ex was soft and didnt reject me when i just held her hand, so she became my (ex)gf. girls in my country can be that shy to reject others. hence im worried my suspicion might be valid...
2006-12-29 18:07:27 · update #1
ive tried msging her but she simply didnt reply
2006-12-29 18:08:57 · update #2
Persistence my man. Don't be scary but let her know you won't give up either. If you still get no response move on, don't dig your hole deeper than it already is (don't waste you're time). Hope this helps.
2006-12-29 20:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the feeling that she's probably trying to tell you that YOU were "that guy" she didn't know how to reject who had the impression she was OK with him. Maybe you could try one last text saying something along the lines of "Hey, I haven't heard from you in awhile. If you're trying to get rid of me, it's working. Have I misunderstood? You know my number - let me know. If I don't hear from you soon, I'll assume you aren't interested any more..." That way, if you didn't hear from her, you'd know for sure and then you can just move on to someone who appreciates you. Hope this helps.
2006-12-30 04:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Poopy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's nice that you meet someone but relationships like that never work out. you should try to call her again or even send her another text. whats the worst thing that can happen her tell you that she likes the other person? it's better then not knowing whats going on. and if yall r meant to be together your higher power will do so. so until then just brush it off. and don't go on in life wondering. just do it take a chance.
2006-12-30 04:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by shy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most shy girl can be the most selfish. An online/non-physical figure (YOU) can be easily shut out if she finds that you're not needed or if she figures it's better off if you're uninvolved in her life.
On a more optimistic side, perhaps she's bogged down and such. Who knows? If you really like her, patience is the most valuable thing at this moment.
2006-12-30 04:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by tacochan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didn't reject you maybe.. She's putting you on a trial?
There's too many possibilities.. No choice guessing..
I have an idea, contact one of her best friends, and get her to ask your ex-gf whether she has feelings for you. But don't reveal yourself to your ex-gf. It might backfire though.
2006-12-30 05:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are the person she's not wanting to reject,,,, if you've never met her, then you shouldn't put much stock in your relationship. maybe she's not putting much stock in your relationship either....
good luck, honey, i hope everything works out for you...
2006-12-30 04:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Silver Thunderbird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try calling her again..and dont be so quick to assume the worst
2006-12-30 04:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by PrInCeSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH yeah u're questions confusing dear !!!!
2006-12-30 04:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by kedarzc_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋